On the Ritual of Classical Stories of Chinese Studies

China is known as an ancient civilization, and the world praises it as a country of etiquette and gentlemen. Even in heated debates, our ancestors paid attention to the beauty of words. The following articles are carefully compiled by all of us, hoping to help you.

Ceng Zi avoided the seat.

From the Book of Filial Piety

Ceng Zi is a disciple of Confucius. Once he sat next to Confucius, who asked him. The king of sages, with supreme virtue and profound theory, is used to teach people all over the world and make people live in harmony. There is no dissatisfaction between the monarch and the minister. Do you know what they are? Hearing this, Ceng Zi understood that Confucius wanted to show him the deepest truth, so he immediately stood up from the mat where he was sitting, walked outside the mat and respectfully replied. I'm not smart enough. How do I know? Please ask the teacher to teach me these truths. ?

Here it is. Avoid seats? This is very polite behavior. When Ceng Zi heard that the teacher was going to teach him, he stood up and went to the mat to ask the teacher for advice to show his respect for the teacher. Ceng Zi's polite stories are told by later generations, and many people learn from him.

Kong Rong gave up the biggest pear.

? Can you make pears when you are four years old? Three Character Classic

Original: Kong Rong was born in Qufu, Eastern Han Dynasty. The twentieth grandson of Confucius, the second son of Kong Zhou, and a captain of Mount Tai. When Rong was seven years old, it was his grandfather's sixtieth birthday, and the guests were packed. A plate of crisp pears was put on the longevity table, and the mother ordered people to divide it. Integration is divided according to the order of young and old, each with its own place, and only its own income is very small. Father was surprised and asked, "others have big pears, but they are only small." Why? " ? Rong said calmly, there are high and low trees, people are old and young, respect the old and respect the elders, and be a man! Father was overjoyed.

Story: Rong was smart, studious, witty and eloquent when he was a child. Everyone praised him as a child prodigy. By the age of 4, he had been able to recite many poems, and he also knew manners. His parents love him very much. One day, my father's friend brought a plate of pears to the Kong Rong brothers. Father asked Kong Rong to divide the pears, Kong Rong picked the smallest pear, and the rest were given to the brothers in the order of generations. Kong Rong said: "I am young, I should eat small pears, and big pears should be given to my brothers." Father was very surprised and asked, "Is that brother younger than you?" Kong Rong said, "Because my brother is younger than me, I should give him up." Kong Rong let the story of pear spread throughout the Han Dynasty. Kong Rong Jr. has also become a good example for many parents to educate their children.

This story tells people to know the courtesy of humility in everything. These are moral common sense that should be known from an early age. The ancients attached great importance to moral common sense. Moral common sense is the basic content of enlightenment education, which is integrated into all aspects of daily life and study.

Standing outside the door on a snowy day, waiting for Cheng Yi (Cheng Yi) to wake up and teach-respect the teacher and emphasize the road.

From the History of Song Dynasty? Biography of Shi Yang

I was forty years old when I met Cheng Yi in Romania. When I see H one day, I can't sit still, but I can't stand with you. " If you sleep, the snow outside the door will be a foot deep. "

After Cheng Hao's death, Shi Yang went to Luoyang to visit Cheng Yi. At this time, Shi Yang was about forty years old. One day, when I visited Cheng Yi, Cheng Yi was dozing off, and he and his classmate You Zuo (Zu? ) stood respectfully and didn't leave. When Cheng Yi woke up, the snow outside was already more than a foot deep.

Respect teachers and ask for advice sincerely. Etiquette is a code of conduct for self-discipline and respect for others, and a process and means to show respect and understanding for others. The ancients said:? If you don't learn manners, you can't stand it ? Civilized etiquette is not only the embodiment of personal quality and education, but also the embodiment of personal morality and social morality.

make three calls at the thatched cottage/repeatedly request sb to take up a post

Three kingdoms? Zhuge Liang's "A Model"

Original: I threw myself into Nanyang in a cloth suit, risking my life in troubled times and not asking Wen Da to be a vassal. The first emperor didn't treat his ministers with meanness, and his accusation was self-defeating. He took care of his ministers in the thatched cottage and was grateful for what had happened in this world, so he promised the first emperor to drive him away. After the value was overthrown, when I was appointed to the defeated army, I was ordered to be in danger: I have been here for twenty years.

Story: After the battle of Guandu, Cao Cao defeated Liu Bei. Liu Bei had to take refuge in Liu Biao. In order to get Liu Bei's counselor Xu Shu, Cao Cao lied that Xu Shu's mother was ill and asked Xu Shu to go to Xudu immediately. When Xu Shu left, he told Liu Bei that there was a wizard named Zhuge Liang in Wollongong. If he can get his help, he will get the whole world. The next day, Liu Bei, Guan Yu and Zhang Fei took gifts to visit Zhuge Liang in Wolonggang, Longzhong. Who knows that Zhuge Liang has just gone out on a trip, and extremely knowledgeable people can't tell when he will come back. Liu Bei had to go back.

A few days later, Liu Bei and Guan Yu. Zhang Fei braved the heavy snow and came to Zhuge Liang's home again. Seeing a young man reading, Liu Bei hurried over to salute. But that young man is Zhuge Liang's brother. He told Liu Bei that his brother had been invited away by a friend. Liu Bei was so disappointed that he had to leave a letter saying that he longed for Zhuge Liang's help to pacify the world.

After the New Year, Liu Bei chose a good day and came to Wollongong again. At this time, Zhuge Liang happened to be sleeping. Liu Bei asked Guan Yu and Zhang Fei to wait outside the door and stood quietly under the steps. It was a long time before Zhuge Liang woke up, and Liu Bei asked him how to pacify the world. Zhuge Liang analyzed the world situation for Liu Bei and said, let Cao Cao dominate the weather in the north and let Sun Quan occupy the land in the south. The general can occupy the people and win the great cause of surprisingly, and Cao Cao and Sun Cheng have three pillars. ? Hearing this, Liu Bei admired him and asked him for help. Zhuge Liang agreed. Zhuge Liang was only 27 years old that year.

This allusion is about Liu Bei's three visits to the cottage and sincerely asking Zhuge Liang to come out of the mountain to help him complete the great cause of reunifying the country. Praise Liu Bei's spirit of courtesy, sincerity, thirst for virtue and courtesy to corporal.

Confucius respects teachers.

Excerpt from The Analects of Confucius

See the teacher, and make, Confucius said:? Order is also. ? And seats, Confucius said:? Mat also. ? Everyone sat down and the son told him: One in Sri Lanka and one in Sri Lanka. When the teacher came out, Zhang Zi asked. What is the way to talk to the teacher? Confucius said:? However, the way of a solid phase teacher is also.