What are the meeting etiquette?

This method can quickly close the distance between you and others, so that you can meet and chat happily.

This method is called cold reading. Cold reading is to see through other people's minds when they are unprepared, even when they meet for the first time, so as to communicate with others better.

How to use cold reading to chat?

1, need to know each other.

We can judge each other's character from their clothes, manners and manners, and we can also get to know each other through their WeChat circle of friends.

For example, although the other person is meeting you for the first time, he is elegant and often smiles, which shows that the other person is very friendly to you and he is relaxed now.

Then you can relax and talk about some topics that everyone is interested in.

For example, seeing many photos of food and dinner in a circle of friends can infer that he is a person who loves food.

If you can make such an inference, the other person will think that you know his lifestyle very well and will naturally open your mouth to talk about food with you.

2. Prepare some interesting topics and create an interesting chat atmosphere.

People always like warm and interesting chatting, and people also like listening to other people's stories.

Everyone must not talk seriously with a straight face, it is easy to talk to death.

We should make chatting interesting.

We can prepare one or two interesting stories or topics when we meet for the first time and tell them to each other at the right time.

Take the food topic I mentioned earlier as an example. Another person likes food. When you tell him that he is a person who loves food and life, he will definitely take the initiative to chat with you. At this time, in addition to listening carefully and affirming a few words from time to time, you can also seize the opportunity to tell one or two short stories about food or a famous restaurant.

In this way, your can chat easily and happily, and even make an appointment to go to the legendary restaurant for dinner, or eat the legendary food together.

Don't be dry when chatting, and don't look like you are looking for words.

Chatting should be based on your understanding and speculation, throw out topics of interest to the other party, and let the other party take the initiative to speak. Be sure to listen to each other carefully, don't interrupt casually, and take the initiative to tell one or two short stories related to the topic when you find an opportunity to mobilize the atmosphere.

Relax, be sure to relax.

Remember, emotions can be contagious. If you are nervous, the other person will be nervous; On the contrary, if you look relaxed, the other person will feel relaxed and become relaxed.