Is it true that children from the family of origin are not easy to get along with?

Negative influences from the family of origin usually stay with the child throughout his or her life, and sometimes these influences are deep-rooted and lingering.

Sources of negative influence from the family of origin:

Parents' character and marital relationshipThe ability of babies and young children to imitate is not to be underestimated, and their minds have not yet formed the correct yardstick, at this time, they do not have the ability to distinguish between the good and the bad, and they can easily be influenced by their parents' behavior. If the parents are anxious and irritable, the bad habits will be reflected in the children over time through influence. Even when they grow up and have their own judgment standards, bad habits are hard to change once they are formed. Children in families where the parents have a good marital relationship grow up in love, and it is difficult to hide their superficial happiness and bone-deep self-confidence. Such families tend to be more harmonious and democratic, and the children have more ideas of their own. On the other hand, children who grow up in families where the parents have a poor marital relationship tend to be bipolar, either very independent and strong but afraid of marriage, or very dependent on their parents and have no opinion. Family education methods in the education of children must pay attention to education methods, children are in the parents' education under the growth, to find out the correct education methods, the growth of children has a particularly important role, if the use of education methods are not appropriate, the child's physical and mental growth will also be hindered. In the name of love, mandatory "love". Many people from childhood, they often hear their parents say "I'm for your own good", parents in a desperate attempt to prevent us from taking the detour they took that year, to their thinking for their choice of that "good" road. What's more, in the process of educating children, over-control and callousness, children tend to form an introverted character, and in serious cases, will produce a certain degree of psychological problems. Unlimited pampering, this is a common way of family education in most families. Parents unlimited tolerance, pampering their own children everything as they wish. In the long run can only create a child's willfulness, self-centered, and difficult to bear the pressure from the frustration, easy to be defeated.