How to become more mature

I. The standard of maturity.

Maturity can be an indicator of both a person's physical and psychological thought. Mental maturity and physical maturity are two different things, but are related.

When it comes to psychological maturity, I believe that a mature person has strong independence in thought, feeling, action, and economy, and less dependence on others. He or she understands what life is about, knows exactly what he or she wants to do, has a clear goal in life, and takes concrete action. They are able to control their own emotions, and have the ability to observe and analyze things. They have a better attitude towards real life, and are able to withstand and resist setbacks and difficulties. No longer gullible in all things, and emphasize practice.

In short, a mature person means that he has found his own self and handled the relationship between himself and the outside world well.

Having an ego and how to deal with it is an important criterion to measure whether a person is mature or not. Of course, this is relative, because people are constantly becoming mature. You yourself can compare your present with the past to see if you are maturing, which is a vertical comparison, or you can compare yourself with the people around you, which is a balanced comparison.

One, the importance of promises: mature men will never go back on their word, he is quite important to each of their own commitments, in the wish before the careful consideration of their own words whether it can really be realized, such as the ability to honor the words he will never say, the words must be practiced. His every word makes you feel assured and trustworthy. Full of talk, the man who is slow to take action, and maturity is not involved.

Two, not boastful: mature men never casually talk about, he will grasp the appropriate silence, speak clearly, but do not yell. Casually drink some wine on their own point of small experience small stories to bring to the table, without the speaker half of the house can be heard, this man, most of the audience laugh, who will not put you that variety of the so-called "struggle" in the heart.

Three, educated and introverted: they read, accept new things new information, constantly enrich their own connotation. But they do not flaunt, their talent only when necessary to show, never to meet the vanity to deliberately show off. They are like mellow wine, the more you taste the more flavor.

Four, broad-minded: mature men are not calculating, not greedy for small gains, do not care to eat a little bit of loss, do not complain about this and that. Their vision is never tripped up by trivial matters, for the family in the small quarrels, they are often "the first to turn back to the angel".

Fifth, not self-centered: mature men respect themselves, know how to respect others. They are good at thinking differently, will stand in the position of others to consider the problem, do not force others to accommodate themselves, good with others to cooperate. Where "I how how" of the man, the typical small emperor temperament, has not grown up.

Sixth, the courage to admit mistakes: mature men are not stubborn, can accept different opinions, good at adopting good advice. For their own improper decision-making, they are brave to bear the consequences, never find excuses to prevaricate.

Seven, strong-willed: mature men have the psychological quality of change, once they determine their own goals, they will work toward it, encounter setbacks, they analyze the reasons, lessons learned, and amend the direction in a timely manner, but never easy to say retreat. They will be tired, but after resting and reorganizing, they set off again with confidence.

Eight, clean and tidy: mature men respect their appearance. They stay the most suitable for their own hairstyle, chin clean without beard stubble, face not greasy, do not keep long nails. Clothes do not have to be brand-name, but neat and generous, not wearing a wrinkled like a courier. They will never wear black shoes with white socks, wearing a suit to travel.

Nine, respect for the elderly and love for children: mature men have love, social responsibility, the traditional virtues of the Chinese people. He will give the elderly and pregnant women to give up their seats, will give donations to the disaster areas, will help out-of-school children, will volunteer to donate blood ...... these things they are not necessarily all do, but they will never do nothing.

Ten, there are hobbies: they are not only know the work of the robot, know how to use hobbies to regulate their own taut nerves, work and leisure both, which makes them interested. No wonder women say: hobbies of men are not easy to become bad.

Second, the mature performance

Through the trials and tribulations of the man will be mature

1.mature performance of a honest

Honest in this explained as ------ brave and honest to face anything. It is easy to say like a normal meal, but do it is more difficult than imagined, the degree of difficulty is not easier than climbing Mount Everest. I remember the Taiwan writer Bo Yang wrote a book "ugly Chinese", I remember in the book there is such a paragraph: one of the ugly Chinese "a person made a mistake, will use ten or even twenty mistakes to cover up the first mistake". It sounds a little bit harsh, but in detail it seems to be as common as air in our lives. To put it simply, it's when someone lies about a wrongdoing. Most men will lie to another woman about being single when their intentions and purpose are obvious. After their purpose is achieved, they will be forced by the pain of living in a life of plywood on both sides, and both take the initiative to confess to one side. At present, society is advocating the clear consumption, consumers have the right to get a detailed information on the product before consumption, and here, the consumer (the woman) is difficult to get a clear consumption possible, by the way, for this kind of shoddy is difficult to go to the Consumer Council to complain.

Honestly, you may want to try to do to see?

2. Mature performance two Desire

A man has to have desire, there is a strong desire to realize the desire of the movement process. The most let the girl moved and make it for the pride and excitement, no more than watching their beloved man step by step to realize and reach the peak of his career when the kind of pleasure. Looking back, the whole process of desire movement is not a mature man's growth process? I have always heard a saying: men, no wealth does not matter, but must have "talent". I believe that this sentence is also express this meaning! Through this sentence can also be seen that every woman with the conditions want to participate in the growth process of a mature man, if not the conditions, but at least want to watch him realize the process of desire. That would be something a woman would be willing to pay any price for. It would also be a proud moment for the mature man. A girl has a process of anticipation for a boy, and once the anticipation turns into fulfillment this process will be the greatest fortune to be gained in life.

3. Mature performance three tolerance

The tolerance mentioned here refers to a mature man's unique temperament. This tolerance and temperament is embodied in the treatment of things and treat others as a behavioral manifestation. Tolerance, it is a virtue in itself, and temperament is extended from tolerance tailored for men. It is similar to men's cologne. It can also be compared to a gentleman's demeanor. If a man shows his tolerance, it reflects his familiarity with things and also reflects his personal charisma to varying degrees. If a man meets people to show his temperament, will be recognized and respected by others.

Combined with the above three points, summarized.

A mature man is the dream of all women, if a mature man is compared to a woman's desire for a diamond ring:

Tolerance ------ platinum diamond ring ring ring size, implying that his tolerance and temperament can be accepted by her;

Desire ------ diamond ring carat, implying that his career and the diamond's carat is directly proportional to;

Honesty ------ the inner refracted light of the diamond, implying that it is a man's inner sparkle.

A grown man is not necessarily mature. However, every adult man does not want to be an immature character in the eyes of his female partner.

1. A mature man should have a financial foundation. Since people use gold to describe the harvest, women rightly use money to judge a man's maturity.

2. A mature man should have a career foundation. Maybe getting rich is not for every man, but if you yourself feel that nothing has been accomplished, how can you stand up in the minds of women?

3. A mature man knows what he wants, not what he wants. They know how to stick to it and how to give it up.

4, a mature man is willing to take responsibility, although some of the faults are not all caused by him.

5, a mature man is forgiving, too much is the most unforgivable error of men.

6, mature men have great wisdom rather than small smarts.

7, a mature man can make a woman learn a lot of things in one word, while the small man can only let the woman teach him.

8, mature men know how to cherish and take care of women, go out on excursions, he must not be self-conscious about running in the forefront of the people.

9, mature men will not quarrel with women on the street.

10, a mature man will not force a woman to wear the clothes he likes and she does not like.

11, mature men do not casually play cheap jokes with women.

12, a mature man lets a woman know that she is wrong, but does not let her lose face.

13, a mature man lets a woman relax without making her nervous.

14, A mature man raises his son to be a real man.

Methods:

In fact, maturity is in the end to do things and people, there is no shortcut to go,

If you want to find a way, is to do more things, quickly summarize the improvements;

More books, long thinking and application

More to listen to the past people (senior) to speak about the experience and skills.

The above is my selection of some information and personal summary, I hope to help you