What is the meaning of the saying "only men are allowed to be ten years older, not women"?

So it is said? Only the male is allowed to be ten years older than the female is not allowed to be one year older? From the literal understanding of the top is only willing to male than female older than ten years, can not female than male older than one year. This is the idea of many ancient people, but today's time, will be between years and years does not exist, as long as the two people sincerely love each other, will also choose to be together.

China has a lot of feudal thinking in ancient times parents in the choice of daughter-in-law to their sons, generally is the male can be ten years older than the female, but the female can not be a year older than the male. So that the family will not be happy, and in ancient times there will also be the phenomenon of male superiority and female inferiority, and it is because of this, thus the emergence of ? Only allow men to be ten years older than women, not allow women to be one year older? But today's society, people basically do not care about the age difference, whether it is a woman than a man, or a woman than a man small. In a marriage as long as know how to operate is also very happy. Because nowadays people's thinking has a great improvement.

In ancient times, y influenced by Confucianism culture, and thus pay attention to the long for the honor, is the age of the person is particularly respect, so you find a woman older than you, then there will certainly be contradictions. It is precisely for this reason that many men will not choose a woman older than themselves. It is to avoid quarrels, so it is not recommended to find a woman who is older. Many marriages today have women who are older than the men. For this kind of family is also very happy, nowadays we will have a love of their own in the process of growing up. Many people don't know how to manage it, and that's what makes love unhappy.

So that we are in the management of love, no matter what kind of age generation gap, we must know how to tolerate. And only in this way, our love will become achievement, because everyone's temperament is different. If you do not know how to tolerate, even if the boy is older than the girl, this love will not go to the end.

So a good love needs to be managed, only in the process of management, our marriage will become long, life will not leave regrets.