Can women's menopause (46 to 56 years old) cheat?

Previously, it was generally believed that women were easy to cheat during this period after marriage and having children, and there was even a special term called "lonely young woman". Is that really the case? A recent survey in the United States shows that 45-year-old women are the most likely to cheat!

For a 45-year-old woman, it is often difficult for people to be associated with cheating. In this regard, experts said that this conclusion is not alarmist. In recent years, the cheating rate of women aged 40-50 is indeed much higher than that of women of other ages. This age group is precisely the age group that is prone to menopause in medicine.

After investigating 1.5 million people, relevant domestic research institutions found that the cheating rate of women aged 40-50 was about 10%, and that of women aged 30-40 was 7%. Why is this happening? Experts believe that women in their twenties and thirties feel passive about life and marriage, which is not enough to make a comprehensive evaluation of life.

However, by the age of 40, women will make emotional negative comments on marriage, career and life. At this time, men tend to put more energy outside the family and ignore the emotional fluctuations of the other half. At this time, the ability of neglected women to resist temptation is very, very low. "Unlike women in their thirties, women in their forties are more likely to give up and indulge."

According to a statistical data, among the seven major causes of marital problems, the proportion of extramarital love is as high as 70.8%. In addition, the proportions of personality problems, asexual marriage, domestic violence and cultural differences were 10.5%, 7.9%, 5.6% and 2.5% respectively.

Experts say that women's infidelity is basically passive, including women who cheat at the age of 45. In this regard, experts suggest that in order to let his wife pass this dangerous period smoothly, men must first restrain themselves. On this basis, men should pay attention to emotional communication with the other half.

In fact, men in their thirties are usually willing to say yes, but after forty, they "don't even want to do it." If it goes on for a long time, something will definitely happen. "The easy derailment at the age of 45 reflects two problems. One is that women are becoming more and more independent, and the other is that the requirements for feelings are getting higher and higher."

Compared with foreign countries, in China's traditional culture, women over 40 lack "special love". Men's aesthetic vision is usually locked in women in their twenties and thirties, pushing women after 40 to ugly groups. In this way, women in their forties can only replace "other love" with "narcissism", and they are particularly eager to see the recognition of others. If someone appreciates and favors them at this time, the pleasure of being valued will dilute a lot of rationality, and many extramarital affairs will happen like this.

In this regard, experts suggest that China men should learn to praise, and don't think that "knowing is enough". Women are typical hearing animals, and their husbands' praise, encouragement and respect will help them get through this period more smoothly. Thereby reducing the probability of derailment of women in this age group.