Social and cultural traditions influence educational traditions.

Influenced by traditional culture, our family education is more accustomed to stick education, just like the older generation. There is a saying in the older generation that a dutiful son is born under a stick. Now it's wrong, it's definitely wrong, but there are still some families who adopt this method.

Under normal circumstances, parents can communicate with their children normally, but of course they will not use this method. However, when such parents and children have conflicts in a family and parents are reluctant to part with their children, they usually send their children to Qufu by violent means. what do you want to do? Parents don't agree, and parents don't give you money or moral support. What do you do? I was disobedient when I was a child. Is it normal for my parents to hit me? As the old saying goes, it is idle to hit children on cloudy days. This is the old way of education. It can't be said to be too good or too bad, but the factors of the times are different and are gradually changing now.

Now we advocate moderate education for children's education. Through didactic education, parents are encouraged to set an example and help their children solve any problems in time, but domestic violence cannot be passed or even new laws can not be introduced to prohibit domestic violence. Every coin has its two sides. We say it's not good to use violence in family education, but if we can't use violence, it means that the child himself is less threatened, because in the past, the most basic thing was that his parents could still beat him if he really didn't listen to his parents. But now you say that it is illegal for parents to beat their children, and this child may be more free and unruly.

Parents want their children to become adults, but the means of education may not be so peaceful, because not all parents know their children's hearts very well. At this time, when they can't communicate, they will get angry. If they are angry, they will try to solve the problem through violence, which often makes the problem worse. Our generation of people aged 20 to 30 almost all came from that stage when they were young, and suffered losses in this respect. If you think that some of your parents' education methods are wrong, then naturally you should change the losses you have suffered, and don't let your children eat the parents' education methods that they used to hate, don't show up by themselves, and don't let their children experience them.

Every era has its own way of education, so the way parents of the older generation educate their children is determined by the factors of the times. That's how children were educated at that time. You can't say that parents don't love their children. Even in the old days when filial sons were born under sticks, parents would beat their children, but how could he not love them if he treated himself as a child? It's just different expressions. At this time, the way may be a bit inappropriate.