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In today's soaring divorce rate, some people advocate the use of three from four virtues to restrain women, what do you think?

I think that in this day and age, to talk about "three from four virtues" is not only a retrograde step, but also a scorn and insult to women. Which lesbians will agree, can do? Although, "three from four virtues" is still the fantasy of countless Chinese men. Times have changed, men and women alike. That's good. Equality between men and women should be reflected in all aspects, political, economic, cultural, marriage and family, but recently, women's status seems to be overriding men's in the family subordination.

And the so-called "three from the four virtues" has become even more from the wife is "virtue". This "from" can also be described as "favor". After all, it is spent hundreds of thousands of millions of bride price "please", very expensive, spoiled nothing wrong. However, it seems that women should be able to afford this "favor", such as husband and mothering, hard work and thrift, kitchen ...... Chinese women's fine traditions should be inherited, virtuous, gentle, kind... ...Gender equality, it seems, should not include these gender-specific attributes.

Of course, it can also be said that the sadness of women in our society nowadays lies in the loss of the "three from the four virtues". No one would believe it. Because people know the three from four virtues, is "demonized" three from four virtues . Why do women feel aggrieved because they are in the "kun" position? That's because you look down on yourselves. The earth's potential Kun to be generous to carry things, understand? The sky is high, not also have to be the earth to support it! Do not think of their own "Kun" position to operate well, and the Lords in a chaotic manner to fight for what day.

Returning to the "three women from four virtues", that is to say, the woman does not speak reasonably or unreasonably, to the man, to the in-laws, are to be absolutely obedient, not to rebel, so that the woman becomes the slave girl of the family. As a result, in those days, when a woman committed an offense, she could be directly executed by the family. Even later, in order to deprive women of the power of resistance, women's feet were wrapped up so that they could not even walk. It was only after a long and unremitting struggle by women for the power they deserved, as well as the progress of society, that women's rights and freedom were gained. It was only when the Chinese people carried out the revolution that the women of China were truly and completely liberated, that women gained their rightful rights and freedoms.