What's the mentality of a man who says you're incompetent?

First, it shows that men can't afford to support you.

In life, on the road of life, whether a man can make money shows that you have the ability; In today's society, this is basically the standard; A man has the ability to make money; Then you must not let your woman show her face outside, and you must not let your woman suffer; But if a man doesn't have a skill and can't make money, he can't afford a woman and always wants her to go out to make money and support his family with him.

As a woman, your man thinks you are incompetent; Then it can be said that your man is an incompetent man, and he can't make money, so he hopes you can make money with him to support your family; If your man is capable, then he will definitely not say that you are incapable, and will definitely treat you as a princess, love you and spoil you; Because he is incapable, I hope you can bear the burden of the family with him; This is an incompetent person, the most typical practice.

Second, a man marries you in the hope that you can make money with him.

In life, on the road of life, a woman marries a man not to make him earn money to support his family; Although women also have certain responsibilities, women are married to men, so I hope it is on men, not women; But there are many men who think that a woman will make money for him after marrying a woman. Women will feel uncomfortable and unhappy if they can't earn money or earn less; Such an idea is an irresponsible attitude.

As a woman, your man thinks you are incompetent; Then in your man's mind, what he wants is that after marrying you, you should make money with him to support your family; Although women have to bear certain responsibilities in marriage, it does not mean that women have to make money; Women can do housework or be full-time wives; Making money is a man's business; It is wrong for your man to marry you and hope that you can make money with him to support your family. This is an obvious utilization idea.

Third, it shows that men don't understand that women are married to pain, not a tool to make money.

In life, a capable person has an idea in his heart. Women go home for pain, not as tools. Any man with a little skill will hurt his woman and spoil her; Women not only don't need to go to work, but also don't need to make money. Even women stay at home and don't want women to work. Instead, find a nanny to take care of women at home and drive them.