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The full text of Di Zi Gui and its interpretation

Disciple Rules, originally named Xun, was written by Li Yuxiu, a scholar during the reign of Kangxi in the Qing Dynasty. Its content adopts Article 6 of the Analects of Confucius: "Disciples are filial, younger brothers are younger, sincere and trustworthy, love others and be kind, and spare no effort to learn." The meaning of the poem is composed of three words, one sentence, two sentences and one rhyme, and is described in five parts; It specifically lists the etiquette and norms that children should have when they are at home, going out, treating others and studying, with special emphasis on family education and life education. Later, it was revised and adapted by Jia Cunren in Qing Dynasty and renamed Disciples Rules. It is the best reading for enlightening and cultivating honesty, educating children to do their best to prevent evil and keep upright, and cultivating loyal family style.

Disciples, rules, sages, instructions, filial piety, times, I really believe.

Pan-love the people, care about others, and spare no effort to study literature.

Yi Jie: Disciple Rules is a life standard based on the teachings of Confucius, the most holy teacher. First of all, in our daily life, we should be filial to our parents and love our brothers and sisters. Secondly, we should be cautious about all daily speech acts and keep our promises. It is very important to get along with the public, be equal and friendly, be close to people with kindness and learn from them. If you still have extra time and energy after doing it, then study the six arts and other useful knowledge.

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Parents should call, don't drag down their lives, don't be lazy, and parents should be respectful and obedient.

It's warm in winter and warm in summer, and it's decided that you must sue. Facing the status quo, business remains the same.

Although things are small, don't be overjoyed. If you are good at it, you will lose. If you are very young, don't hide.

Love is good, love is bad, love is bad, love is hurt, love is sorrow, love is hurt, love is shame.

Dear, why is it difficult for me to be filial and I hate my filial piety? Fang Xian's relatives have advised me to make my color more pleasing and my voice softer.

Dare not remonstrate, can cry, can complain.

Explanation:

Parents should answer the phone in time. Don't take too long to answer Parents have something to explain, they should start at once, don't delay, don't be lazy and refuse. Parents teach us the truth of being a man and doing things for our own good, and we should listen respectfully. When parents blame and admonish themselves for doing something wrong, they should accept it with an open mind and not argue irrationally to make their parents angry and sad. A gentleman smells joy, but a villain smells anger. )

We should be considerate to our parents. Huang Xiang (Xiang Jiuling), a 24-year-old, will help his father cool his bed before going to bed in summer and warm his bed when it is cold in winter. It is really worth learning. After getting up in the morning, you should visit your parents first and say hello to them. After returning home in the afternoon, you should tell your parents what happened outside today, and report your safety to your parents to reassure the elderly. When you leave home, you must tell your parents where you are going. When you get home, you must report to your parents in person to reassure them. At ordinary times, we should keep the normal routine and do things regularly. Don't change it at will so as not to worry your parents.

Even if it is a small matter, don't be willful and decide without telling your parents. If you are willful and easy to make mistakes, it will be detrimental to your duties as a child, so it is unfilial to worry your parents. Although the public property is small, it can't be privately taken for yourself. If you hide it, your character will be lacking, and your parents will be very sad to know.

Parents should try their best to prepare what they like and carefully remove what their parents hate (including their bad habits). Take good care of your health, don't let yourself get hurt easily and worry your parents. (Ceng Zi said that "parents with physical problems dare not harm them"). Pay attention to your moral cultivation and don't do anything immoral to humiliate your parents. When parents love us, filial piety is easy; When our parents don't like us, or the discipline is too strict, we are just as filial, and we can also reflect on our own behavior, understand our parents' wishes, try to mend our ways and do better. This kind of filial piety is the most commendable.

When parents are at fault, be careful to persuade them to be good. Be sincere when persuading, and your voice must be soft and pleasant. Confucius said, "Color is difficult." If parents don't listen to persuasion, wait patiently until there is a suitable opportunity, such as when parents are in a good mood or happy, and then continue to persuade; If parents still don't accept it, or even get angry, at this time, although we are so sad that we cry, we also ask our parents to make up for it. Even if you are beaten, you have no regrets, so as not to trap your parents in grievances and let them make mistakes again and again, making a big mistake.

My brother is my brother.

Brothers are friends, brothers are respectful, brothers are filial, and property is lightly resentful.

Or eat or take care of the old and young first, and then call people long, that is, call people when they are away.

Don't call your elders by their first names. Don't look at your elders. Lu Yu was ill, silent and ready to go.

Get on the horse and get off. There is still a long way to go. Don't sit for the elderly. Sit for the old man.

Your elders should speak quietly, but don't approach. Be sure to back off and ask questions in the future.

Treat your father like a father and treat your brother like a brother.

Explanation:

Being a brother means the way brothers get along at home and the rules of getting along with their elders. In these norms, cultivating children to be polite and know how to respect others is naturally easy to integrate into the group and be accepted by everyone. Brothers and sisters should be friendly to brothers and sisters, and brothers and sisters should respect each other, so that brothers and sisters can live in harmony, reduce conflicts and parents will be happy. There is filial piety in this harmony.

Look down on the money used outside the body and care less, so there will be no resentment between brothers; Don't speak too impulsively. If you hurt your feelings, you should be able to hold back, and then unnecessary contradictions and resentment will disappear.

In daily life, some people think that children are young, get along with their elders, and don't expect too much from them. When they grow up, they will naturally adapt and even spoil their children, giving them delicious and useful things first, so that children can take it for granted and don't know how to treat their elders politely, thus misleading children to develop bad habits. However, Disciple Rules teaches us not to neglect the virtue of cultivating comity from childhood because of the love of adults. Whether eating or drinking, please ask your elders to use it first; If you sit with your elders, ask them to sit first; If you go with your elders, let them go first.

The elders heard it when they called, so they should call for the elders. If the called person is not here, you should report back to your elders, and you can further ask your elders if they need any help.

When addressing elders, you should not call them by their first names, which is impolite; Don't show your talents in front of your elders and despise them.

When you meet your elders when you walk, you should quickly come forward to salute and say hello. If your elders don't talk to us, stand aside respectfully and let them go first. If you are riding a horse, you have to dismount when you meet an elder. If you take a bus, get off and let the elders go first. Wait about a hundred steps before getting on the bus or getting on the bus.

If the elders are still standing, young people should not sit down first. If the elders are sitting, we can only sit down if we are allowed to. Speak in a low voice in front of your elders, but the answer is too low to be heard clearly and inappropriate. Just be gentle and clear Walk quickly when you meet your elders and behave politely. Quit slowly when you leave. When the elders ask questions, they should stand up and answer, keep their eyes fixed and don't shake from side to side.

Treat uncles as respectfully as your own father, and treat brothers of the same race as friendly as your own brothers.

sincerely

Getting up early and going to bed late is easy to get old. At this time, you must wash your hands, rinse your mouth and urinate.

The crown must be straight, the socks must be tied, the shoes must be important, and the crown clothing must be positioned to avoid pollution.

Clothes are expensive and clean, but not expensive. According to the following points, families should not choose food, but they should not go too far.

Don't drink when you are young. Getting drunk is the ugliest step. Stand up calmly, bow deeply, and be respectful.

Don't walk on the threshold, limp, lean against the basket, shake your moustache, slowly open the curtain, make a noise, turn away and touch the edge.

Holding a virtual device, such as holding a surplus into a virtual room, some people are busy, not afraid of difficulties, and cannot be careless.

Never go near evil things in a noisy scene. Never ask who will start. Ask who will repeat the grade, and the sound will be heard.

People ask who is not clear about employing people in my name. Steal without asking.

It is not difficult to lend someone in time and then use it urgently.

Explanation:

As children, we should try to get up early and go to bed late at night, because the years of life are limited and time is easy to pass, and young people become old people in the blink of an eye, so we should cherish the precious time now.

Be sure to wash your face first, then brush your teeth and wash your hands after defecation every morning. This is a good boy who pays attention to hygiene.

Wear the right hat when going out, and button up when wearing clothes; Wear socks and shoes properly, and tie your shoelaces tightly, so that your whole body looks neat. Take off your hat and clothes in a fixed position, and don't throw them around to avoid wrinkling and soiling. Dress neatly, not expensively and luxuriantly, but according to one's own status, matching the family's economic situation.

Don't be picky about food, and eat in moderation, not too much. We are young and underage, so we shouldn't try drinking, because being drunk is the easiest way to show inappropriate words and deeds.

Walk slowly and stand up straight. Pay attention to bow deeply when saluting, and be respectful when bowing.

Don't step on the threshold when entering the door, avoid leaning forward when standing, don't spread a dustpan or look dignified and strong with your feet when sitting, and don't shake your feet or twist your hips to show your graceful posture.

Open the curtains slowly when you enter the door, try not to make any noise, stay away from the edges and corners when walking and turning, and keep a wide distance to avoid touching the edges and corners and hurting your body; Treat empty tableware as carefully as full, and enter an empty room as if you were in someone else's room.

Don't be in a hurry, you are prone to make mistakes when you are in a hurry, don't be afraid of difficulties, hesitate to retreat, and don't be sloppy. We shouldn't stay near places where fighting is easy; There is no need to ask questions about evil and bizarre things.

Before we start, ask: "Hello"? When you are about to walk into the hall, first turn up the volume to let the people in the hall know; If someone asks, "Who are you?" Say your name when you answer. If you just say "I" or "I", the other party can't hear who it is. If you want to use other people's things, you must make it clear to them in advance. If we use them without permission, it is equivalent to stealing. Return the borrowed things as soon as they are used up, and it won't be too difficult to borrow them from others when they are in urgent need. These principles of common language behavior enable us to know and act, master ourselves, make things more efficient, treat people more harmoniously, and create a harmonious environment between body and mind. If you can't do it for a while, don't be discouraged, as long as you can clearly understand the direction, agree with the enlightenment of the sages, and be willing to ponder slowly with kung fu, just as Pushi can slowly present beautiful jade.

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It is better to talk less than to talk more, but it is better not to be clever.

Don't speak lightly if you don't know.

Don't underestimate the importance of things and don't hesitate to make mistakes.

Gossiping is none of his business. Don't be idle and judge people as well, that is, Si Qi will go far and converge gradually.

See evil people, to introspection, to change. Don't increase the police, just learn ability and integrity, so people should be self-disciplined.

Don't be sad if clothes are not as good as people's diet. If you smell anger, you will lose your friends, but you will lose your friends.

I'm afraid to hear fame, but I'm afraid to hear joy. I'm sorry that everyone is dating gradually, but it's right to have the wrong name, and it's evil to have the wrong name.

If the past can be wiped out, if it is concealed, it will increase the bitterness.

Explanation:

Anyone who speaks must first pay attention to credit. Can fraud and false words always work in society? It's better to talk less than to talk more. Everything is real. Don't talk nonsense. In addition, treacherous and eloquent words, obscene and indecent words, and the common tone of rogues should be effectively removed.

Before seeing the truth of the matter, don't express your opinions easily, don't know things clearly enough, don't spread them easily, and don't agree easily. If you agree easily, you will be in a dilemma. Speak steadily and comfortably, and don't speak too fast or too fast, or speak vaguely, so that people can't hear clearly or get the wrong meaning. Others say that others are right and wrong, so don't mind your own business.

Seeing other people's good behavior, I have a good idea to keep up with him. Although there is still a long way to go, I will certainly catch up with him as long as I work hard. Whether it is a big good thing or a small good thing, we must have fantastic confidence and courage to do it. Xiaoshan should not act rashly, but should seize the opportunity to do it in time and try his best.

When you see others commit crimes, you must first reflect on yourself. If you make the same mistake, you should change it immediately. If you don't do this, you will be more vigilant not to make the same mistake.

When moral knowledge and talent are not as good as others, we should try our best to catch up. As for the clothes we wear and the food we eat, we don't have to worry or be depressed.

I get angry when people say I'm wrong, and I'm happy when I praise them. In this way, there will be more and more bad friends, and sincere and beneficial friends will not dare to be with us. If I hear others praise me, I will first reflect on myself, for fear that I will not have these advantages, but become a hollow reputation; When I hear others criticize my mistake, but I accept it gladly, then the more honest people like to be close to us.

If you don't do something wrong on purpose, it's called fault; If you knowingly commit a crime, it is a crime. If you accidentally make a mistake, you will change less and less if you are brave enough to correct it, and you will gradually become innocent. If you deliberately cover up your mistakes, there is another crime of covering up.

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All people must love the sky and repeat the same journey. The famous value themselves, while the unattractive value themselves.

A talented person looks at a capable person because of what he believes, not because of what he says. Don't be selfish and don't despise what he can do.

Don't flatter the rich, don't be arrogant, don't be tired, don't like new people, don't be idle, don't bother people, don't talk.

Don't expose people's shortcomings, and don't say that kindness means that the more you know, the more you think.

Publicizing others' evil is not only a catastrophe of evil diseases, but also a good deed, persuasion and forbearance.

Whoever is more expensive from what, who should take more and take less, ask yourself first, and do it quickly if you don't want to.

If you want to report grievances, you forget to report grievances. If you treat your servant well, you will be kind and generous.

Persuade people, or persuade them to be speechless.

Explanation:

Caring for the public, like heaven and earth, is absolutely selfless. Good people, bad people, smart people, stupid people, precious people, poor people and racial boundaries are all pure kindness, not for fame and fortune. It is a great harmony realm of "Great Harmony in Heaven and Great Harmony in Earth".

Everyone is a gentleman who loves the masses. He has the idea that I am a family with someone, so he is willing to put aside his selfishness and care about the masses. If we learn to be kind to others everywhere, improve morality, maintain character and learn all kinds of talents in depth, I believe we can also make a cause that benefits the masses.

People with high moral character naturally have high prestige, and people admire virtue, not whether they are outstanding in appearance; People with great talents naturally have great prestige, and people are impressed by real talents, not just expressing their opinions.

Don't be selfish and conservative about what you are capable of doing; When you see that others are talented, praise them more, and don't belittle them because of jealousy.

Don't flatter the rich and seek glory; Don't show arrogance to the poor, don't abandon relatives and old friends, and don't blindly like new people and new friends. Confucius, the most holy teacher, taught us that the poor can enjoy themselves more morally than flattery, while the rich not only do not hinder others with pride, but also respect the public with courtesy. Poverty and wealth are just different lifestyles. We should learn etiquette to enrich our talents, give full play to the benevolence of others and me, and create a happy society of "being poor means being happy, and being rich means being polite".

If someone else has something to do and is too busy, don't bother him with anything; The other person is physically and mentally unstable, so we won't interfere with him with gossip. Never expose other people's shortcomings. If others have secrets that they don't want people to know, we shouldn't tell them.

Praising the good deeds of others is equivalent to doing good deeds by yourself, because the other party will be more encouraged to do good deeds when they know it; To preach the sins of others is tantamount to doing evil by yourself. If you hate them too much, it will bring disaster. Doing good deeds can encourage each other, and both people can build good virtues. If they make a mistake and don't convince each other, both sides will leave defects in their behavior.

When dealing with people in property, we should distinguish clearly and unambiguously. In other words, property is generous to Dobusch only when it is with others; Take less of other people's property; If you have something to entrust or talk to someone, ask yourself whether you like it or not, and stop immediately if you don't like it.

Others are kind to me, and I should always want to repay him; If you accidentally make an enemy with someone, you should ask others for forgiveness and forget the hatred as soon as possible. The shorter the time you complain, the better, but the intention to repay you will last forever. Pay attention to your behavior when you treat your maids and servants, and don't be frivolous. If you can be kind and generous, it will be more perfect. Power can make people obey, although they dare not resist on the surface, but they don't think so in their hearts. Only by influencing each other with reason can people be convinced without complaining.

Although few people use maid servants now, the relationship between superiors and subordinates can still be seen everywhere. Let's learn from the fraternity of benevolent gentlemen and think more about the public, so as to create a warm society of mutual concern and understanding.

Li Yu Wen Xue

If you don't practice, you will learn to be flashy, and if you don't practice, you will be ignorant.

There are three ways to read: you should read with your heart, not worship.

Forgiveness is the limit, and hard work is the limit. When you are in doubt, you will use your notes to ask the correct meaning.

Several cases of clean walls and clean rooms: clean pens and clean inkstones, eccentricity and improper words, disrespect and illness.

There is a fixed place to read ancient books, although there are urgent volumes and defects in the repaired places, but make up for them.

Don't regard us as clever and wicked, don't give up on ourselves, don't give up on holiness and virtue.

Explanation:

Filial piety, filial piety, honesty, faithfulness, loving the masses and being close to the people, which should be diligently implemented, are unwilling to practice, and only learn and explore in knowledge. This is the easiest way to form an illusory and flashy habit, and how can you become a really useful person? On the other hand, if we only pay attention to gravity and refuse to learn knowledge, it is easy to cling to our own views and not conform to the truth, which is not our proper attitude.

Nowadays, it is popular to vilify sages, doubt the ancients and despise the ethical road. In recent years, basic filial piety has been especially regarded as outdated. Although everyone has the intention of reforming social chaos and has spent a lot of manpower and material resources to advocate it, the concept of ethics has been forgotten for too long, making it impossible to rectify social order. Confucius once pointed out: "A gentleman with determination, self-reliance and kindness should learn all kinds of knowledge extensively, and then use etiquette to restrain his words and deeds. Such a gentleman with knowledge and etiquette will not go too far. " Disciples Rules concretizes the content of the ceremony. As long as you practice according to Disciples' Rules and learn all kinds of classics and life knowledge, you will have lofty wisdom and courage to practice. People who have both wisdom and courage will certainly not deviate from the right path. The right road is a straight road, and they will soon reach their goal.

Reading methods should pay attention to three aspects, namely, heart, eyes and mouth. These three things should be done seriously. When you are reading this paragraph, don't think about other paragraphs. You haven't finished reading this paragraph. Don't jump to another paragraph because you are not interested or curious, but look here and there, not sure, step by step. When reading, there should be norms. There should be a relatively ample time limit for reading a book or a course. However, you can't wait until the time limit is approaching just because you have extra time. If you are in a hurry, you will delay things. Therefore, you should study hard as soon as it is standardized.

When you encounter a place that is difficult to get through, you should concentrate on your research. As long as you work hard, you will naturally understand. This is the so-called book reading a thousand times, and its significance is self-evident. If you have questions and you still can't understand them after repeated thinking, just write them down with a pen and ask the relevant teachers for advice. You must get the right answer before you can let it go.

The study should be kept simple and tidy, the surrounding walls should be kept clean, the desk should be kept clean, the pens and inkstones used should be placed neatly, and the inkstones should be polished. If the ink stick is flattened, it is not intentional. If the writing is casual and unfair, it is that your husband is ill. Put the classic books in a fixed place and put them back in their original place immediately after reading them. Even if there is an emergency, you must tidy them up before you leave. When books are damaged, they should be repaired immediately to keep them intact. You love books, and books love you. You have a respect for them, a respect leads to a harvest, and a great respect leads to a great harvest.

If it is not a book that conveys the truth of sages, we should throw it aside and ignore it, because improper things in the book will blind our wisdom and ruin our pure ambition.

Don't be conceited and don't give up on yourself. Although the realm of sages is high, everyone can achieve it one step at a time. When we are young and ignorant, we can cultivate sages if we use appropriate teaching materials and cooperate with excellent environment to cultivate learning. The truth in Disciples' Rules is the teachings of the saints. Filial piety is the first priority when going forward, younger brother is the first when going out, sincerity and trustworthiness, love for the masses, kindness and spare no effort to study literature, starting from the ethics in daily life and extending to schools and society through family, can best cultivate the character of a gentleman. Therefore, this book should be read carefully and repeatedly, go deep into the heart, as a mirror of personal reflection, and point to behavior with a pointer.