How do you understand that women should be raised rich and men should be raised poor?

This is a reprint of a classmate's journal, which inspired me a lot. I hope it will be useful to you too:

From the rich more lady, since the ancient dude less great man. The meaning is to treat the son to be poor, which is actually the son of a lifetime of investment; the daughter to be rich, in fact, is a kind of cultural cultivation of investment.

The first thing you need to do is to raise your daughter richly and raise your son poorly. It means that if you raise a daughter, you have to create a rich and comfortable environment for her to grow up as much as possible, so that she can learn about the high quality of life from childhood, so that the girls who grow up will be very tasteful and create a moody life; if you raise a son, you have to intentionally try to make him try to live in the hardship, and to sharpen his will from childhood in preparation for the future, he can take up the responsibility, so that he will grow into a real man. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and you'll be able to do that.

The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good understanding of what is going on in your life, and that you are able to make the most of it. Cultivate the girl is the opposite, we should let her enjoy some blessings, give her as good as possible material conditions, to mold her elegant, generous, decent.

At the same time for love marriage I feel also have a guiding significance. That is: a woman should marry a man who has suffered and knows how to struggle. A man should marry a woman who has a good family background and knows how to be polite and courteous.

"Poor son of rich women" is a folk saying, the understanding of the old saying, can not be generalized, from the philosophical and broad to understand, not from a narrow perspective to accept. Otherwise, every proverb and old saying will be biased. Ancient sayings, which are usually concise and profound, need to be savored at all times! Can not be underestimated!

It is also said that the boy put up fierce as a tiger, the girl home raised show as a flower. I thought, poor is honed, the boy is clay body, the future has to grow into a man, so it has to withstand the fall through the wind and rain. Rich is care, the girl is a lotus root body, can not afford to knock, have to be pampered with a little raise. The poor and rich non-material ratio, is actually the weight of the points.

From the rich more lady, since the ancient dude less great men, should be "poor son of rich women". The daughter of the rich, not greedy for small gains, extraordinary temperament; the life of the sharpening of the son of the poor will be stronger; the boy will have to go out into the community, social responsibility and family responsibility, so to be poor in order to motivate their will, or else the big money, playboy a, how to serve their parents, under the support of their wives and children!

The rich girl, from childhood will be taken in and out of all kinds of occasions, to increase the ability to read the world, until the flower-like age, and then to the world of hard growth, it is not easy to be all kinds of flashy and vanity, a girl who has not seen the world, in the sugar-coated bombs under the playboy, it is very likely to be defeated by the flowery language. Rich girl, because of more insight, independent, opinionated, wise, very clear about what they really seek.

Rich raise women, in fact, is an investment in education, education of the rich; poor raise men, but also a kind of frustration education, men should be self-improvement, and did not experience the failure of the frustration of the boy is not long.

Boys are going to struggle in the future, must let him know that money is not easy to come by;

The girl is going to marry, must train her to identify things, don't be coaxed away by a piece of cake in the future.

The rich girl is more romantic. The girl is called a thousand gold, it is estimated that there is also the origin of this. Although the appearance of the day, but also need to be carefully cared for, the need for weekdays of exquisite carving, which obviously need a certain material basis. From another point of view, in addition to giving better material conditions, more need to broaden the girl's horizons and insights. Rich is also the meaning of "rich". Knowing the beauty, knowing how to appreciate, knowing how to recognize, also know how to self-protection, and will not be tempted by the outside world.

The poor man is more real. To be a real man, this life to suffer the trials and tribulations, cold eyes, humiliation, frustration do not know how many. The ancients said, the sky will come down to the man, must first labor its bones, hungry, bitter, so to cultivate the body and the family, the country and the world. Boys from a young age should cultivate hard work, hard-working style, benevolence, filial piety, especially in the material can not give too much, otherwise it is easy to become another dude.

Rich raise 20 years, hibiscus out of the water; poor raise 20 years, the sword out.

The girl is not so worried about the material conditions, it is easy to cultivate a calm temperament, the boy is a little more concerned about the material conditions, in order not to loose. Related to nature? Girls are naturally good at paying attention to details, and then instill the idea of "cheap" is easy to mercenary. The opposite is true for boys. This is the wisdom of life, right?

Boys need to be strong-willed and girls need to be well-mannered. The poor raise rich raise is probably the meaning of this, right?

The family raised the boy, we must cultivate the child from childhood strong character, hard-working spirit, filial piety, moral and good qualities. Otherwise, the trees do not brush no material, a pampered, indulgent, indulgent, will only cultivate a gas to the dude.

The family has a delicate daughter, we must give more love from childhood, moderate to meet the material needs, in order to achieve the rich heart and consciousness of virtue. In this way, so that they know the beauty, learn to recognize and self-protection, to go out into the community will not be tempted by all kinds of materialism, to avoid being deceived.

The title does not mean that poor families raise sons and rich families raise daughters, but rather that boys should be raised "poor": suffering, through all the vicissitudes of life, so as to be able to make a difference in the future and have a responsibility; girls should be raised "rich": a life of sophistication, carefree, and a good life is like a needle in the eye. Superior life is like a strong immunization needle, so that she will later fight the temptation to distinguish between truth and falsehood, to become a woman of knowledge and interest, elegant and beautiful.