How can we find our place in the coordinate system of life?

Life is also a coordinate system, and everyone should have his own position. It's just that some people don't seriously choose and look for it. Choosing and positioning yourself correctly in the coordinate system of life is related to whether you can treat yourself correctly, whether you are psychologically balanced, whether you are competent in your work, whether your goals are realistic, whether your ideals are realized, etc., and even to your own destiny. Therefore, it is very important to correctly grasp the positioning of one's life coordinate system. In human society, where there are crowds, there are up, down and around. We may not be able to choose or find our point in the coordinate system accurately, but at least we should find our approximate position. Namely: up, down, middle, left, middle and right. In reality, we often find that some people are arrogant, some people feel inferior, and some people live freely. This is an important reflection. In fact, in the coordinate system of life, it is not easy to choose and find your own position. I'm afraid it's something that no one can express accurately. Therefore, we can only say one principle and method. Or a general idea to remind and warn yourself. So what is the principle and method? In my opinion, it is: compare positions. Without comparison, there is no recognition. Only through comparison, (including comparative knowledge \ comparative eloquence \ comparative articles \ comparative body \ comparative psychology \ comparative strategies \ comparative strain \ comparison, etc. ) Can you choose and find your own position in life? Don't be complacent if you win, or faint if you lose!