Are the young people around you less and less like the "acquaintance society"?

At least that’s what I think. I’m becoming less and less accustomed to the social logic of doing things in a society of acquaintances. I still follow the process and find professionals to do things, because I feel more convenient this way, and I don’t even need to do it. You will owe too many favors.

Take the matter of finding a job when I graduated from college as an example. Since I studied e-commerce operations, many students did not enter this industry at all after studying this major. On the contrary, many people Relying on my family connections, I went to the government department to find a contract preparation job. Although the salary was not very high, it was relatively stable. I also hoped that my family could help me find such a job, but my family did not have any background. There is no relationship that can be used, so this idea of ??mine can only be an idea, and there is no way to turn it into reality.

Due to practical problems, I could only go out and passively look for a job. Although the whole process suffered a lot and took many detours, I also seriously learned a lot in society and experienced The principles and knowledge in society that I have never learned in college.

I do not deny in my heart so far that a society of acquaintances can indeed bring convenience to one's own problems to a certain extent, but while bringing convenience, one must also take into account the relationship between people. , economic costs should also be taken into consideration. In many cases, it is because many people are unwilling to pay the economic cost and are willing to pay for the favor exchange, so they adopt the acquaintance society. When my classmates entered the government work, they also relied on the help of relatives at home, and then they had to visit relatives every year. Although the money spent on giving gifts is not much every year, it is still a big financial expense in the long run.

If you don’t follow the acquaintance society, but follow the procedures, or find professionals to help you deal with the problem, then you don’t have to think about the relationship between people at all, and you only need to pay the monetary cost. Achieving your own goals is simple and efficient, and it also allows the other party to serve you well.

I have wanted to ask acquaintances for help on countless occasions, but when I have this idea, I will often deny it, and instead choose a more transparent and reasonable work process and method, so that we can achieve better results. own purpose.

Now I find that the post-90s generation around me is becoming more and more accustomed to seeking services from professionals and professional institutions, and no longer relies on the traditional society of acquaintances. Although society can solve problems to a certain extent, more and more people Young people think that this kind of work process is too complicated, and they still prefer simpler and more effective ways of handling problems to achieve their goals. I believe that as the level of social education becomes higher and higher, simple and effective processing methods will gradually become people's first choice, and acquaintance society will be marginalized.