The harm of noisy couples.

The danger of noisy couples, many grumpy people will quarrel with others because of a little thing and lose their temper. In fact, this is not conducive to physical and mental health. We need to control our emotions. Let's share the dangers of noisy couples.

The harm of noisy couples 1 harm 1. Affect feelings

There are many quarrels, and I feel that the other party has become a matter of course. I feel that the other person has changed, and I no longer coax myself and love myself as before. The more times you quarrel, the more shortcomings you feel, and it seems that there is no benefit. In this way, I felt disgusted and began to hate the person who held the pillow every night. Moreover, when quarreling, because of lack of reason, I speak very heavily, and it hurts people's hearts when I speak. If disappointed, I choose to divorce.

Hazard two. bodily injury

When quarreling, verbal attacks and cold wars are often used at first, but if they are frequent, they often rise to physical conflicts. When people are excited, there is no reason, and sometimes they don't know the weight. Therefore, in the process of quarreling, women are vulnerable to domestic violence, mainly because their physical strength is very different, and women often suffer in the dispute of flesh and blood. There are many examples of women suffering from domestic violence in their lives. The nose and face are swollen lightly, and serious injuries may move bones.

Hazard three. Child developmental retardation

One of the reasons why many couples quarrel is children, arguing about children's education and other things. After losing his temper, the two men quarreled whether the child cried or not, and they quarreled all the time. You should know that children are very sensible. Seeing their parents quarreling all day is likely to affect their healthy physical and mental development. When they grow up, they will become rebellious people. As a mother, you can't control it, you can even do it.

Harm of quarreling between husband and wife II. First, the pain of flesh and blood.

Many couples can't control their temper after quarreling, especially men, who may punch and kick because of impulsive physical conflicts, leading to domestic violence. For the abuser, emotions are vented, but for the victim, they are flesh and blood, such as bleeding and bruises.

If the victim blindly tolerates and compromises, hoping that the perpetrator can turn back, it may make the perpetrator more rampant. Therefore, victims of domestic violence should learn to protect themselves, call the police for help when necessary, keep relevant evidence and actively strive for their own rights and interests.

Second, lead to mental depression.

Many couples will have a cold war after quarreling, that is, "cold domestic violence". This situation mostly happens in high-intelligence families, which may be due to personality reasons or for children. During the cold war, husband and wife had no physical contact and no language communication. They ignore each other, remain indifferent and torture each other, or hope that the other party will apologize first.

In this "cold violence" environment, when both husband and wife experience "mental torture", their emotions will become depressed, their hearts will not be calm, and it will be difficult to fall asleep at night, which will affect the quality of sleep and lead to listlessness at work during the day. If you do this for a long time, it will easily lead to mental depression.

Third, it causes endocrine disorders.

For many couples, quarreling will inevitably make them blush, get angry and even say some ugly, insulting and threatening words. This will easily stimulate the other party, make the other party cry, or be overly nervous and anxious. Studies have found that anger can lead to endocrine disorders, especially in women, which may lead to irregular menstruation, decreased menstrual flow, long spots and acne on the face, and even lead to amenorrhea or early menopause.

Fourth, it is easy to induce cardiovascular diseases.

Studies have found that when people are quarreling and angry, anger may lead to a rapid heartbeat and an increase in blood pressure, which may lead to heart failure and increase the risk of cardiovascular disease. One of the husband and wife suffers from cardiovascular disease. If they quarrel frequently, it will easily lead to the recurrence of the disease, and even lead to stroke and myocardial infarction.

Fifth, it is easy to damage the liver.

Chinese medicine believes that qi hurts the liver. Because the liver governs catharsis, it likes to be unobstructed and open-minded. Great anger will cause anger to stagnate in the body, which will not be resolved, leading to poor liver qi, disharmony between liver and gallbladder and damage to the liver. Modern research also shows that people who are often angry are more likely to suffer from liver disease.

Sixth, it is easy to aggravate stomach problems.

Husband and wife quarrel and get angry, and qi and blood rush up, which will reduce the blood flow in the stomach, lead to insufficient blood supply, affect gastrointestinal peristalsis, make appetite worse and indigestion. In addition, when people are angry, the bile secretion in the body will increase, which will easily flow back to the stomach, so that the stomach will be soaked in bile for a long time, which will easily lead to bile reflux gastritis. If one of the husband and wife suffers from stomach diseases such as antritis and gastroduodenal ulcer, it will aggravate the condition and affect the treatment effect.

Seven, the harm to the breast

Husband and wife often quarrel, which is easy to hurt women's breasts. This is because quarreling can cause endocrine disorders and lead to an increase in estrogen levels in the body. If it is not relieved for a long time, it will easily lead to excessive hyperplasia of female breast tissue, or breast nodules, and may also lead to recurrence of old diseases.

Eight, damage to the brain

Husband and wife often quarrel and get angry, which will destroy the excitement inhibition rhythm of the brain, make the brain thinking break through the routine activities, thus making people do some excessive behaviors, thus stimulating the brain center and accelerating the aging of brain cells, thus leading to the brain's slow response and even inducing cerebral hemorrhage.

The harm of noisy couples is 3 0 1 There will be a great psychological shadow.

I still remember the day when I got married and left my parents, every woman would cry to her parents. First, I am grateful to my parents for their efforts over the years. You left them with gratitude and reluctance. Second, you are about to face a strange environment, and you don't know how to go. You cry because you are timid.

Facing this strange world, two unsophisticated people need to explore and solve everything by themselves. Needless to say, setbacks are naturally overgrown with weeds and thorns.

The most direct reaction of two people who lack the ability to solve problems is to quarrel. Quarrel seems to distinguish right from wrong. In fact, frequent quarrels can not only solve the problems you encounter, but also make the already fragile hearts suffer a greater psychological shadow and cause cracks in each other's feelings.

The more noisy the feelings, the weaker they are, accompanied by mild depression.

In marriage, two people who quarrel constantly when something happens, or two people are originally married on a blind date, and there is not much affection between husband and wife; Either two people come together for a certain benefit, and their feelings are basically not very strong; Or too young to bear the burden of family alone.

Arguing between husband and wife can't solve the problem, but will hurt each other's feelings. The more intense the quarrel, the weaker the feelings will be, especially those with fragile hearts, which will be accompanied by mild depression. Think about it, how long you can maintain such a marriage, and you will inevitably escape the end of the marriage breakdown.

It is not conducive to the healthy growth of children to fly at home all day.

Two married people, because of some factors, have the habit of quarreling constantly in their lives. Frequent quarrels not only hurt each other, but also make family members fidget all day, which is naturally not conducive to the healthy growth of children.

Think about it, children are so innocent and lovely. If children grow up listening to their parents quarrel every day, adults will be heartbroken, let alone young children. Children must spend every day in extreme tension and fear. Such children will definitely be introverted when they grow up, and even lead to autism. Therefore, quarreling is not helpful to couples, but harmful.