What is the difference between love and marriage?

Love is on the road to marriage, and marriage is the best destination for love. Not every couple can walk into the marriage hall, and not every couple can grow old together.

Love is different from marriage. Love is love without insurance, and marriage is love with insurance. Under normal circumstances, it is easy for a couple to live in peace, but a couple often quarrel because of a little thing. It can be said that lovers are in a virtual world, and they don't need daily necessities, nourishment, nourishment, investment and expenditure. Marriage is living in reality and facing the above problems every day, so the level of economic income and the amount of housework are direct problems. People are selfish. Love is not throwing yourself out and giving up everything. Everyone wants to have some status and face at home. Everyone in the society wants to have some dignity and look up. If these two points are gone, then your marriage has also entered the "red light district", even if it does not leave, it is very painful.

Love is different from marriage. Love means showing the most beautiful things to your lover, speaking politely, paying attention to self-cultivation, doing things efficiently, doing things well at once, giving everything to yourself and doing things you like. Marriage is not like this, because everyone feels sure when taking out insurance, and no one can easily provoke anyone; In this way, people's bad habits are gradually exposed. For example, procrastination, dishonesty, laziness, untidiness, poor housekeeping and so on, whether ..................................................................................................................................... is a "shell company" will be known as soon as you get married, but it will pay the heaviest price in life. As the saying goes: "Men are afraid to choose the wrong line, and women are afraid to marry the wrong person; I think you have chosen the wrong route. There's no need to be afraid. As long as you have an IQ, you can change careers and develop as usual. But if you choose the wrong wife and marry the wrong husband, you will suffer for a while or longer, even if you don't suffer for a lifetime; That kind of pain is the pain of losing yourself and stabbing the soul.

Love is different from marriage. The breakup of two lovers is only a spiritual breakup; The breakup of a couple is not only a spiritual breakup, but also a material breakup. This spiritual and material breakup may be entangled for a lifetime. So someone said, "Can you not break up?" This is one of them. Secondly, most people who enter the marriage hall have a certain emotional foundation, and often have children's fetters. If they enter the red light district of marriage, they can sit together and talk openly and point out their advantages and disadvantages. If both sides can correct their shortcomings, wouldn't it be much better than finding another unknown one? A marriage expert once said: In fact, it's the same with everyone, and the unsatisfactory place is different. Find a well-dressed person, maybe a firewood thrower, a rich man, or a bad guy. Third, love needs updating, but updating does not mean changing lovers, but means updating ideas, concepts and contents. Marriage needs quality, but how many high-quality marriages are there in China at present? The criteria for judging the existence of marriage in marriage law are: whether feelings are broken; The standard of the parties is: the depth of pain. If it is more painful for two people to live together than to live independently, I think: divorce should be inevitable, society should understand and the law should support it.

It is often said that love without marriage is unfortunate, and marriage without love is painful; And I hope everyone has love and marriage. May all lovers be well, and may all people fully enjoy the warmth of love.