What's the point of going to the grave for your deceased parents?

The steps of going to the grave are as follows:

① Prepare things to be burned, such as brazier, paper money, paper cart, paper boys and girls, paper gold ingot (this needs to be folded with gold paper or silver paper), incense, fire and tribute (food). If you are going to a man's grave, you should also prepare alcohol and tobacco (except those who don't smoke or drink before they die). If you go to the grave on the second day of junior high school, you should also prepare firecrackers. Don't be prepared to sweep graves or control at ordinary times.

Wear plain clothes, drive a plain car (black, white and gray), and bring prepared things. It is best to bring an extra lighter or windproof lighter. The wind in the wild is relatively strong;

(3) When you arrive at the grave, light incense (we usually light a small bundle and insert it into the grave), set up a tribute (there will always be a small table in front of the grave. If you haven't done it before, you can build one with your own brick, light the cigarette and unpack the packaged things), and then kneel in front of the grave, separated from the small table by a brazier;

(4) Put the brazier in front of you, start to order all kinds of things prepared before, order one, you can put down the lighter, and then cry while burning things in the brazier (it's better to be sincere, it should be easier to do so, after all, it's all your relatives), and you can get up after burning things. If you don't go alone, someone may help you up;

(5) If there are firecrackers, you can light them;

⑥ When the incense is burnt out, deduct a little tribute and throw it to the grave. If the cigarette end is burned out, put another one and pour the wine on the grave (you can pour less, a cup or a bowl);

⑦ Then you can pack up and leave.

In fact, the most important thing is the heart.