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Filial piety is a girl's first etiquette.

Filial piety is a girl's first etiquette.

1 Caring for parents Take the initiative to care for parents at home. When parents are sick, they should always send medicine and water to comfort and greet them, and greet and bless their parents on New Year's Day, Mother's Day and Father's Day.

Girls should obey their parents' instruction. Filial piety and harmony are always interrelated. Without harmony, there is no filial piety. If you respect your elders, you should listen to their teachings. Don't contradict your elders at will. If you have different ideas, you should discuss with your parents and be reasonable.

3 care about parents' health. When parents are tired, girls should take the initiative to ask their parents to rest; When parents are sick, they should take the initiative to take care of them, decoct medicine and feed them, and be caring and attentive.

Speak more words of comfort, spend more time with doctors, be considerate of parents' illness, speak in a kind manner, tone and manner, and try to eliminate parents' pain and anxiety psychologically.

4 understand that parents are older and talk more. Some words have to be repeated several times. Girls should fully understand this physiological phenomenon and don't get tired of their parents' nagging. They should not rudely interrupt their parents' nagging, let alone be ignorant. Dan can ignore their nagging.

To be filial to parents, we must be strict with ourselves, understand their hardships, share their worries and solve problems for them, and let them worry about themselves as little as possible and take care of themselves. Pay attention to safety when going out from home and report the situation to your parents on your own initiative. Children with filial piety should be polite, and they should not be big or small in front of their parents without adding any extra burden to them.

6 Do more housework Your parents raised you, so you should do more things, which every younger generation must do. Things at home are your own business. You should take the initiative to do things at home instead of emphasizing your parents' own business.

Girls who don't give their parents trouble should not give them trouble, let alone let their parents worry and worry about themselves, let alone let their parents make up for their mistakes in society.

8 Pay attention to attitude. Girls should pay attention to their attitude when taking care of their parents. Parents are old, slow to move and inconvenient to walk. Take special care of them, give them food, chat with them more when you have time to relieve boredom, buy their favorite food, be filial and considerate to your parents, speak gently, don't contradict your parents, discuss things with them when you encounter difficulties, and explain calmly even if you are wronged, instead of being enemies with your parents.

9 Family Courtesy Girls should knock at the door when they enter their parents' room, and they can only enter after getting permission. They should not rummage through their parents' personal belongings at will. When they go out or go home, they should say hello and tell them where they are going. When their parents call to meet, they should immediately agree and accept their fate.

10 Physiotherapy Parents and girls should be generous to others, including their parents. When they are wronged by their parents, when their demands are denied and rejected by their parents, they should think calmly, understand their parents and be considerate of them. When they are punished by their parents, they should have a correct attitude and don't contradict, argue, get angry or lose their temper.

Think about whether your request is reasonable. If you embarrass your parents, it's your fault.