A woman's upbringing is good, where can I tell?

Education-A woman's quality is directly related to family education.

Internal factors determine external factors, and we often say that we should educate people from an early age and start from the roots. Boys and girls should be strict. Parents should lead by example, guide their children, help them through everything, deal with emergencies and look at problems calmly. All aspects should be of high quality, clear and regular.

(1) Don't just accept other people's gifts and eat them.

(2) In public, make a loud noise and make a loud phone call when no one is watching.

(3) Eat food and choose from the left, slurping.

The exit is dirty and full of complaints, and people all over the world are sorry for her. ……

I am born after 80.

What my mother asked of me.

1. Don't go home later than 10 before marriage. Don't stay outside at night.

2. Do not accept gifts from the opposite sex, and eat people with short mouths and short hands.

3. Self-love is worthy of respect and love from others.

4. Don't eat a full plate and don't smack your lips.

Don't borrow money to satisfy your vanity. .

A woman's upbringing is good, as can be seen from the following points:

First, filial piety, filial piety is the foundation of being a man. As the saying goes, all virtues and filial piety come first, and all evils come first. A well-educated woman must be a good filial woman.

Filial piety to parents at home, filial piety to in-laws after marriage. No matter your brothers and sisters, or the elders and relatives of your husband's family, you can treat each other with sincerity and courtesy, regardless of the thickness of your hair. A woman who can understand the hardships of her biological parents and handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in an orderly way is an educated woman.

Second, being virtuous and virtuous is also an education. A woman's behavior reflects her personal accomplishment. As the ancients said, it is very reasonable for a wife to be virtuous and her husband to suffer less. Women play a very important role in the family.

The rise and fall of a family basically depends on the heroine in this family. If the hostess is virtuous, then the husband will prosper; Husband is prosperous, and the whole family is prosperous. In modern society, many women don't understand this and feel that they are women in the new era and can do whatever they want. Even some women can treat their husbands as husbands, wash dishes and cook with children, and all housework is stopped by men, thinking that this is what men should look like in the new era. In fact, such a woman is not only not fashionable, but also not virtuous and is the most stupid woman. In ancient culture, the role of women is Kun Gua, and men are dry Gua. Then, a woman's main duty is to help a man get rich. If a woman always pesters a man with trivial housework, I can imagine that a man has no energy to pester him any more. Therefore, whether a woman is virtuous or not directly determines the prosperity of a family and the fate of this woman.

Third, loyalty is a woman's most basic education. In Chinese traditional culture, the virtue of loyalty and righteousness is not only a social virtue of women, but also a personal education of women. In modern society, "three obedience and four virtues" and "husband teaches children" are not advocated. This is the progress of society and the development of the times, which is a good thing, but it does not mean that everything can be messed up. The difference between humans and animals is that we are higher animals. What is a higher animal? Is that human beings have human civilization. In ancient times, when the next generation formed a family, they always chose the right combination to continue and develop the family culture. Today, we modern people don't pay attention to these things, but we should understand some truths under these rules, which may reflect a woman's upbringing.

Fourth, the sense of responsibility, whether a woman has a sense of responsibility directly reflects whether a woman has a degree. Maybe some of our female friends will think so. Isn't this a man's job? What does it have to do with us women? Indeed, men should have the responsibility of men, and women, women, you should also jump up and take your share of the responsibility. There is a common phenomenon now, that is, the problem of high divorce rate. The baby was born, but the mother has never been in the film, which makes our baby feel very sorry. We don't care who is right or wrong in the divorce, whether we should divorce or not, but one thing is that this child is yours and you are responsible. However, we have some irresponsible women. After divorce, you can't afford it materially, but you can't afford it spiritually? A phone call, a care, is a responsibility, but also an education in the bones.

As can be seen from her words and deeds, her words and deeds reveal her personality and self-cultivation.

A woman's upbringing is mainly from the following aspects:

First of all, the concept of money

A woman, regardless of your ability, must have a correct view of money: you can work hard to make money, with making money as the main goal in life, but you can't lose a woman's dignity and morality in order to make money, let alone sell your noble soul and holy body for money. Women who earn money in this way are educated women, and every penny they earn is the cleanest. Moreover, after earning money, we should treat money correctly, and we should never be vague about what we should spend, and we should never be extravagant about what we should not spend, and we should have a normal mind about money and material things. People who value money too much are prone to personality problems, and people who waste money too much are also prone to personality problems. Therefore, a really good woman's cognition of money is full of positive energy, and her choice is just right. This is the most typical thought and sentiment of an educated woman.

Second, the concept of marriage.

Educated women should have a correct view of marriage. In marriage, a good woman doesn't live to rely on a man, but finds a man she likes and can promote the other person to become a spouse on the premise and basis that she can support herself. You can try to find a man who is optimistic about his comprehensive strength and can form the best marriage combination with you, so that your family and children can have a better future. But for you personally, you must not have the idea of living by men. This is a good woman's correct view of marriage. Some women are not motivated or lack of comprehensive strength, but they always dream of having a high-quality man to support her. Such a woman is no different from love rat.

Third, the concept of occupation.

A good woman must have her own career. No matter how big or small your career is, no matter how much money you pursue, it can reflect your life value and pursuit, and also reflect your feminine beauty. Even if you just do a small business, or do farm work and small processing, you don't have to work or have a high occupation to show your value. As long as you can enjoy the process of life in labor, you are a good woman and an educated woman. Some women don't like making small money, but they can't make big money, so they have to do something shameful, or live by men, and finally live as love rat. Such a woman is an uneducated woman. A good woman works hard in her career, not aiming too high, making money rationally and diligently, and doing her best for her family.

Fourth, good personality.

A good woman is excellent in personality, not bad in IQ and EQ, gentle, polite and thrifty, and principled in understanding. A good woman gives her husband face outside, but she is confused about small things and stresses principles on big things. Gentle without weakness, intelligent without conscience, giving love, kindness, romance without promiscuity. A good woman doesn't have to have a high degree or experience, as long as she is kind-hearted and grateful. Simple-minded but not stupid, being a man is just right. Some women are selfish, narrow-minded, impure, self-centered and extremely dark inside. Some women are even rude and mean, and they are not kind at heart.

In short, a well-educated woman is like a good book, which makes people want to read more and more; It's also like a good bottle of wine, which makes men want to drink more, and then the aftertaste is endless.

One is from the outside and the other is from the inside.

Externally, it mainly depends on her dress. First of all, look at whether her clothes are appropriate and whether she wears clothes that she shouldn't wear on some occasions. For example, I often see some women walking around the community in pajamas. Some people are walking their dogs, and some people go to the small supermarket at the door to buy things. I don't think these people can make people think that she is very cultured because they don't know that pajamas can't be worn out. Going out in such clothes is a sign of bad manners.

For example, some girls think that wearing a skirt with suspenders looks good, so they wear it regardless of the occasion. Our unit is a cultural unit. Some young girls wear suspenders to work, and there are no clothes outside. Actually, this kind of clothes is not suitable for wearing in the office. If you want to wear it, you must put a dress outside.

There are also some women who swear without saying three words. You can't say that she is cultured.

Internally, we still have to look at it through something. One day, I saw a doctor in the hospital. An angry woman pushed an old woman in a wheelchair to the doctor and said, I obviously hung up the number on the internet, but it disappeared when I took the number just now. Didn't I come for nothing? A woman doctor is seeing a patient. Looking at the two uninvited people, she said, you wait for me first, and I'll finish seeing the patient. A few minutes later, the doctor finished his illness and said to the two men, what do you want to do? The woman said, we need to add a number. The doctor said, yes, but the plus sign is usually given to you after the registered patient has seen the doctor. Can you wait? The woman added: the old man is old and can't wait long. Can you show us first? The doctor said: I can show it to anyone first, but you have to discuss it with the person in front. If the person in front doesn't mind, of course I can show it to you first.

To tell the truth, from the first time I saw this doctor, I found that she spoke very gently and slowly, and at that moment I understood what real gentleness was. Even if she meets such an unreasonable patient today, she can solve it reasonably in her way, which reflects a person's education.

So whether a woman is educated or not depends on her dress, speech and behavior.

Love yourself is to cultivate it!

Character, basic etiquette!

Imagine if you go out to dinner with friends and order a table of dishes. Your friends can't move their chopsticks. What if she eats first?

There's a guest at home, and she's sitting there doing her own thing, so there's no reason for people to leave. That doesn't make sense, does it

For example, if you take your girlfriend home, and your girlfriend doesn't want to eat, she plays with her mobile phone in bed, and then your mother and grandmother let her eat a little. It's not good to get up and ignore the feelings of the elderly.

The girl I'm engaged to is like this. In the first year, the two families gave gifts back and forth. According to our rules, I went to his house to accompany his father, and the wine went well. We were both very happy, but when she came to my house, my dad cooked a big table and found a company, but she fell in love. After eating a few bites, she went back to her room to play with her mobile phone, which made me particularly embarrassed. That's embarrassing, too If you don't eat, we can sit here and chat or something. Why did you leave after eating? This is not your usual routine. Later, because of a long-distance relationship, I got divorced.

I can tell by your clothes.