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Tolerance is beauty and understanding is virtue.

More than 100 years ago, Hugo of France lamented: "The ocean is the widest in the world, the sky is wider than the ocean, and the human mind is wider than the sky." In the ancient East, there is a simple proverb passed down from generation to generation: "A prime minister can hold a boat in his stomach." The collision between the romance of the French and the reality of China makes people find that tolerance transcends the boundaries of countries, languages, nationalities and civilizations. Tolerance is a virtue shared and praised by people on this beautiful planet.

Tolerance is a kind of wisdom and tolerance. As the English proverb says, "There is no garden without weeds." There is no shortage of gold, no one is perfect, and tolerance for others is based on understanding and understanding of others. Lin Xiangru's tolerance for Lian Po has made the story of "harmony but difference"; Bao Shu Ya's tolerance for Guan Zhong has achieved the feat of "nine in one, conquering the world with one move"; Li Shimin's tolerance for Wei Zhi made the "rule of chastity" prosperous; The monarch's tolerance for scholars in the Song Dynasty ushered in the second climax of ideological emancipation and cultural prosperity in China's history after the Warring States Period. The meaning of tolerance is not only at the individual level, but also has a great dynamic role in the existence and development of the whole society.

Tolerance is a kind of cultivation and a realm. There is a saying in the Buddhist scriptures: "One thought changes the situation." In the face of other people's mistakes, we are bitter, and revenge will bring spiritual burden. The true benevolent will choose tolerance and calmness. Gou Jian, the King of Yue, can finally get revenge for "ten years of reunion and ten years of lessons". He could bear the pain of eating and drinking, but after destroying Wu, he ordered the destruction of Wu Zongshi. He knows forbearance, but he doesn't know tolerance. Han Xin, the king of Qi, had a "shame on his legs" before he made his fortune, but after reunification, he was appointed as the captain of the city tour and let bygones be bygones. Only from this perspective, Han Xin's personality is much more sound than Gou Jian's.

Lu Xun's "not forgiving anyone" is a bit paranoid, but it is an extreme resistance to the dark reality after he lost his patience. He also said that "the wave-snatching brothers are here, and when they meet, they laugh and forget the enmity", which is his tolerant side. In his works, Ah Q will struggle with others when he hears others say "scar", "scab", "baldness" and "light". Later, even the word "light" was not allowed to be mentioned. "The heavens and the earth are wide, and the light ones are narrow-minded." A narrow-minded person is bound to be a person with many taboos and paranoid temperament. And a society that can't even tolerate "the breeze doesn't read, how can it turn over books" is doomed to be a morbid society. However, tolerance does not mean laissez-faire and connivance. Human society is maintained by hidden rules, and unrestrained connivance will also cause social deformity. Tolerance does not mean forbearance. "forbearance" is a knife in my heart, a deliberately suppressed anger and depression, which will break out sooner or later. Tolerance means being quiet and indifferent without knowing it. Tolerance does not mean silence and forgetting, because "forgetting the past means betrayal." True tolerance should be as Voltaire said to his political opponents: "Although I don't agree with everything you say, I will defend your right to speak to the death."

Tolerance is a hundred rivers, tolerance is virtuous, tolerance is indifferent, tolerance is quiet and far-reaching. Kant told us that "only two things can deeply shock my mind: one is the bright sky above us, and the other is the lofty moral law in our hearts", as I have heard; In today's world, ethnic and religious conflicts continue. "As long as everyone is more tolerant, the world will become a beautiful world", so I wish!

Leaves fall to show the change of seasons, and we show tolerance with patience. Seasonal cycle, the leaves still obediently fall. Those who are wrong or not forgiven, can we be patient and even tolerant again and again?

Everyone has shortcomings, like a sharp thorn. As friends, don't be picky and disgusted with others, but be careful not to be stabbed by each other's thorns. So, are these shortcomings and faults that have been tolerated allowed to be "carried forward"?

Modern Dale Carnegie does not advocate tit-for-tat. He said, "There is only one simple way to really hate others, and that is to give full play to their strengths." I hate each other and want to eat meat, which can only make me exhausted. Carnegie said that "hate" is another form of "tolerance". Hating others is not gnashing your teeth and overeating your opponent, but absorbing each other's strengths and transforming them into calcium for strengthening your body.

No matter how the wolf plays the role of "kind grandmother" and vows to be a vegetarian from now on, it is difficult to change the nature of eating sheep, but if it is completely killed, sheep are prone to plague; The two tigers are at odds, but once the hero is lonely, he doesn't have to be locked in the fence, and even the fierce tiger will degenerate into a sick cat. Treating your opponent as a friend is a higher level of tolerance.

President Lincoln has always been known for tolerating political opponents, which finally caused dissatisfaction among a member of parliament. The member said: "You should not try to make friends with those people, but destroy them." Lincoln smiled and replied, "When they become my friends, am I not destroying my enemies?" Yes, a more tolerant and open opponent may be our potential friend.

Who has made the greatest contribution to the Three Gorges Project? Pan, a famous water conservancy engineer, answered a question from a foreign reporter like this: "Those who oppose the Three Gorges Project have made the greatest contribution to the Three Gorges Project." The existence of opponents can keep you awake and rational, and do things more comprehensively; It can stimulate your courage to accept challenges and produce the potential to show your life. This is not a simple tolerance, this tolerance, such as sharpening your will and sharpening your life.

Although I don't agree with you, I have an obligation to defend your right to speak. As many people know, this sentence contains the tolerant democratic core. Good words say that three winters are warm, and tolerance is the warm sun on the snowy mountains in winter; Bad words in June hurt people. If you have a tolerant heart, use it as an air conditioner to cool down in hot summer.

Tolerance is a kind of beauty. The deep sky endured the temporary ravages of lightning storms, and only in this way can the sun shine brightly; The vast sea is boundless only when the stormy waves are raging for a while; The vast forest temporarily endured the law of the jungle and was lush. Mount Tai can only be high if it does not hesitate to drink a cup of soil. Rivers can only become bigger if they don't choose small streams. Tolerance is the towering Mount Tai, and it is the rivers and lakes that accommodate all rivers and lakes.

In dealing with friends, tolerance is the gold given to Guan Zhong. He doesn't care about Guan Zhong's selfishness and understands Guan Zhong's fear of death. He also recommended Guan Zhong to Qi Huangong as his boss.

In dealing with people and things, tolerance is the torch for Guangwudi to burn and vote for honesty. When Liu Xiu defeated Wang Lang and invaded Handan, he found a lot of letters flattering Wang Lang, insulting Liu Xiu and even plotting to kill Liu Xiu. But Liu Xiu turned a blind eye to this and burned them all, regardless of the opposition of all ministers. He let bygones be bygones, turned enemies into friends, strengthened his own strength and finally became emperor. The fire burned hatred and laid a solid foundation for the cause.

Tolerance is indeed a kind of love.

But this love can't be emotional, can't be doped with impurities, and must know how to be measured and act moderately. For the right people and the right things. Tolerance is not blind patience. Tolerance is our sincere understanding of unintentional mistakes and unintentional mistakes.

Tolerance is a simple virtue.

Leaves fall to show the change of seasons, and we show tolerance with patience. Seasonal cycle, the leaves still obediently fall. Those who are wrong or not forgiven, can we be patient and even tolerant again and again?

Everyone has shortcomings, like a sharp thorn. As friends, don't be picky and disgusted with others, but be careful not to be stabbed by each other's thorns. So, are these shortcomings and faults that have been tolerated allowed to be "carried forward"?

Modern Dale Carnegie does not advocate tit-for-tat. He said, "There is only one simple way to really hate others, and that is to give full play to their strengths." I hate each other and want to eat meat, which can only make me exhausted. Carnegie said that "hate" is another form of "tolerance". Hating others is not gnashing your teeth and overeating your opponent, but absorbing each other's strengths and transforming them into calcium for strengthening your body.

No matter how the wolf plays the role of "kind grandmother" and vows to be a vegetarian from now on, it is difficult to change the nature of eating sheep, but if it is completely killed, sheep are prone to plague; The two tigers are at odds, but once the hero is lonely, he doesn't have to be locked in the fence, and even the fierce tiger will degenerate into a sick cat. Treating your opponent as a friend is a higher level of tolerance.

President Lincoln has always been known for tolerating political opponents, which finally caused dissatisfaction among a member of parliament. The member said: "You should not try to make friends with those people, but destroy them." Lincoln smiled and replied, "When they become my friends, am I not destroying my enemies?" Yes, a more tolerant and open opponent may be our potential friend.

Who has made the greatest contribution to the Three Gorges Project? Pan, a famous water conservancy engineer, answered a question from a foreign reporter like this: "Those who oppose the Three Gorges Project have made the greatest contribution to the Three Gorges Project." The existence of opponents can keep you awake and rational, and do things more comprehensively; It can stimulate your courage to accept challenges and produce the potential to show your life. This is not a simple tolerance, this tolerance, such as sharpening your will and sharpening your life.

Although I don't agree with you, I have an obligation to defend your right to speak. As many people know, this sentence contains the tolerant democratic core. Good words say that three winters are warm, and tolerance is the warm sun on the snowy mountains in winter; Bad words in June hurt people. If you have a tolerant heart, use it as an air conditioner to cool down in hot summer.

Tolerance is a kind of beauty. The deep sky endured the temporary ravages of lightning storms, and only in this way can the sun shine brightly; The vast sea is boundless only when the stormy waves are raging for a while; The vast forest temporarily endured the law of the jungle and was lush. Mount Tai can only be high if it does not hesitate to drink a cup of soil. Rivers can only become bigger if they don't choose small streams. Tolerance is the towering Mount Tai, and it is the rivers and lakes that accommodate all rivers and lakes.

In dealing with friends, tolerance is the gold given to Guan Zhong. He doesn't care about Guan Zhong's selfishness and understands Guan Zhong's fear of death. He also recommended Guan Zhong to Qi Huangong as his boss.

In dealing with people and things, tolerance is the torch for Guangwudi to burn and vote for honesty. When Liu Xiu defeated Wang Lang and invaded Handan, he found a lot of letters flattering Wang Lang, insulting Liu Xiu and even plotting to kill Liu Xiu. But Liu Xiu turned a blind eye to this and burned them all, regardless of the opposition of all ministers. He let bygones be bygones, turned enemies into friends, strengthened his own strength and finally became emperor. The fire burned hatred and laid a solid foundation for the cause.

Tolerance is indeed a kind of love.

But this love can't be emotional, can't be doped with impurities, and must know how to be measured and act moderately. For the right people and the right things. Tolerance is not blind patience. Tolerance is our sincere understanding of unintentional mistakes and unintentional mistakes.

Tolerance is a simple virtue.