What is the best way out for women after divorce?

Listen to the experience of these people who have been there

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Every woman aspires to a happy and good marriage, but many marriages do not go to the end because of some misadventure.

May be because of the lack of maturity in the first marriage, resulting in very hurt.

It may be that they do not have the ability to be independent and are too dependent on others.

It could also be that you are reckless and don't know how to run a marriage, and in the end you are left with divorce as the end.

But even if a woman is divorced, she can still find happiness.

So, what is the best way out for women after divorce? Let's hear from these people who have been there.

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One, will not remarry and become independent on their own.

Mrs. Zhang: I divorced my ex-husband for two years, you can never imagine how tormented I was in those two months at the beginning of the divorce, I am a very traditional housewife. The years have long since taken away my ability to live independently. At the beginning of my divorce, I couldn't do anything, I didn't have my own income, I didn't have the ability to be alone, I didn't have my own financial resources. So I had a pretty hard time for those two months and spent all day in tears. Then I resolved to pull myself together. I began to go out to look for work, even though repeatedly frustrated, I began to be independent, learn the ability to be alone, it turns out, one person can also live well, and now I run a florist, with their own income, it's so good. Now I am independent and strong.

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Two, find a good man to remarry, will be happy.

Mrs. Li: People often talk about the difficulties of second marriages, in fact, a large part of the reason is because the two people hastily married, and there is no real emotional foundation, just to keep warm. Experienced the pain of a marriage, only should be more understand, if you want to get happiness in married life, then, to find a good man to marry again. My ex-husband brought me nothing but bad memories, beating me, scolding me, drinking and spilling alcohol, and I was holding back every day. My current husband, on the other hand, treats me very well, he is considerate and gentle, knows how to take care of me, and never mind that I'm in a second marriage, he knows how to appreciate my goodness, and he's also very good at taking care of my emotions. Now, we have been married for two years and I am really happy.

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Third, remarry your ex-husband, learn to run your marriage, and be happy again.

Mrs. Fang: Some people divorce because they are too impulsive, because of a small matter of fuss, no one is convinced, and finally came to the end of the divorce, at that time, we were too young. That time, it is true that I was wrong, I had a big fight with him, and after the fight had to divorce, finally. Then left. However, after the divorce I regretted, I think he still loves me, he will take time off work to come home to take care of me when I'm sick, he will work overtime when I drag a tired to pick me up. He would make me happy when I was unhappy. I plucked up the courage to ask him to remarry and he hugged me and cried, I now know how to run a marriage and get my happiness back.

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What is the best way out for a woman after divorce? It's probably one of these, you can be independent and strong on your own and know how to be alone, you can find a good man to remarry and get taken care of. Or know how to run a marriage, re-marry your ex-husband and regain happiness. No matter which one, I hope that every woman who aspires to happy hair can be treated gently by the years.