How to break out of the routine thinking stereotype?

If you are stuck in the conventional concept of work, you must always be one of the most ordinary employees, and finally even this qualification may be lost, so everything lies in a fresh start.

Levi is a young man with a very good character, who does a good job, but for some reason always hits a wall in life. First of all, let's talk about finding a job. Now there is a general difficulty in the employment of college students, so many students from the fourth year of college to start looking for a job, large-scale job fairs are generally arranged in March and April each year, the young man thinks that looking for a job is the thing after graduation. So when his classmates are interviewed everywhere, he is still holding the holy book; students have to sign, he is still busy preparing his thesis; wait until September after the diploma in hand, he began to prepare to look for a job, but there is no good company in the recruitment, he had to go to a small company.

Levi's relationship was also a series of twists and turns. He fell in love with a female colleague in the company, and when he was about to confess his love to her, a well-informed colleague told him a piece of information: this girl doesn't like flowers, so send another small gift instead! The young man hesitated, but decided to send red roses. The reason was simple: according to the custom, the courtship should send flowers. As a result, the girl reluctantly accepted the flowers, but did not come to work for a few days because of a rash, it turned out that she has a severe pollen allergy. And so, of course, their love affair is over.

This young man's mistake was that he shouldn't have thought about things in terms of so-called conventions, because nothing in the world is set in stone. If you get into the habit of thinking in the same way and sticking to established routines, then you will become a victim of habit.

With the continuous development of the market economy, the competition is becoming increasingly fierce, many companies in order to adapt to the changes in the market, accelerate the pace of work, but also gradually lost the life itself should be happy and comfortable. Therefore, to find the inherent joy of life in such a fast-paced work, you need to work and life between the seriousness of the trade-offs, grasp, change the concept of work. Because, after all, work is about being able to live a better life for yourself.

Work is an integral part of our lives, so we should approach it with a clear sense of purpose. If you just treat your job as an errand to make a living, as a means of earning a living; then you won't be in the right frame of mind to value it, like it, and then love it. But if you are able to deepen your own mind as a way to deepen and broaden your own experience, a way to make your survival value can be fully realized ways and means of words; then, you will certainly from the bottom of the heart to pay attention to it, like it, love it, from the work itself to find a lot of fun.

Because what such a job brings to you has far exceeded the connotation of the job itself. That is to say, work is not just work, it becomes a way of life and a way of being, a wise choice for your life. It will become a part of life, and construct a rich and meaningful life for you. Indeed, the changing perception of work provides us with new opportunities and poses new challenges. By adapting to change and capturing the opportunities that come with it, you will be invincible. Adapting to change is not a positive attitude.

With the increasing awareness of people, a new idea and concept about work has become stronger and stronger, that work should not only be a means of earning a living, or a means used only to make money, support the family or win some kind of enviable social status, the work itself should be a means to provide us with rich experience. The changes in our society as a whole brought about by this change in conception are enormous, even radical. Moreover, the effect of this change in conception of work on the whole history of mankind will be immense. Only cowards will be afraid of change, only the old-fashioned people will retreat in the face of change, the success of the people is to find opportunities for success in the change. Looking for the opportunity, you can make the world change, and, in the process of changing the world to change themselves, so that they move towards a higher realm of life. Only when you work for your ideals can work, life and play become one, and you can truly find the value of your life.

People often lose their creativity because of certain rules. So doing anything without rules doesn't work. But neither is it okay to be overly rigid and conformist. At some point, you have to be good at changing the rules that everyone follows to create a brilliant life.

One philosopher said, "The only thing that is eternal is change." As time passes, the world is bound to change. When circumstances change, one must reflect on oneself: have I changed? The reason why some people are able to be more blue than blue, and why the waves of the Yangtze River push forward the waves of the past, is because they have developed and changed in new relationships. In the new environment, they have their own irreplaceable advantages. If you stay the same, then you certainly can't live comfortably in society.

Once upon a time, there was a man who was a scholar, who did everything by the book, who liked to quote the classics, and who believed that the ancient teachings could not be violated. One day, when his house was on fire, his sister-in-law panted and said to him, "Speed, speed! Quickly call your brother to put out the fire; he is playing chess at Master Li's house next door." The reader went out of the gate and said to himself, "My sister-in-law told me to be quick, and didn't the sage book say, 'If I want to be quick, I can't be quick,' and how can I be quick!" So he walked slowly to Master Wang's house, and as soon as he saw that his brother was playing chess cheerfully, he stood silently beside him and watched the game. When the game was finished, he said, "Brother, there is a fire at home, and your sister-in-law asks you to go back at once to put it out!"

On hearing this, his brother was so angry that he trembled and scolded, "You have been here for half a day, why didn't you say so earlier?" The reader pointed to the words on the chessboard and said, "Brother can't see that this chessboard clearly reads 'A true gentleman observes chess without speaking'!" Seeing that he was still pretending to be civilized, his brother raised his fist to hit him, but then retracted it. When he saw his brother retract his fist, he instead put his face forward and said, "Brother, go ahead and hit him! Isn't it clearly written on the board, 'Raise your hand without remorse for a great man', why did you retract your hand again?"

This scholar in the story is very ridiculous, and he is what we often call a bookworm. This kind of person doesn't think about what to do, but just does things by the book, which is either a joke or a nuisance, and it's hard to do anything about it.

There is nothing wrong with people who follow the rules, but their attitude and approach to doing things are not necessarily adapted to the complex and changing reality. In the face of the current competitive society, always thinking about how it was before is not feasible, to see more now. Because only with the ability to innovate will have core competitiveness. Most of the people who have achieved great things have the characteristics of innovation, they can find the shortcomings in the practice of others seem to be almost a golden rule, and then carefully analyze and correct them, and therefore get the enviable opportunity. Such people should be our role models.

Specializing in sports psychology, Stanford University professor Robert Krieger pointed out in his book "Changing the Rules of the Game" that "on the sports field, many players create great results because they break the traditional methods of competition." This "game-changing" trait is common among outstanding athletes. According to Robert Krieger's conclusion: thinking outside the box can create unexpected miracles. So if you want to change your destiny, think outside the box and avoid the middle of the road!