Teasing a man is simple and clear.

1, language that attracts invitations, such as a man saying, "The newly released love movie seems not bad." "What are your plans for the weekend?" "A new indoor ski resort has opened near your company, right? I want to go, but I'm not very good at it. But I heard that you seem to be very good at skiing. " When these sentences are similar, nine times out of ten, he just wants to ask you out, but he is too embarrassed to say it directly, so he will ask about your attitude first. You can not ask him out at this time, but you can create opportunities for him to ask you out. So at this time, you can reply: "I have several colleagues and boyfriends who went to see it together, but I didn't have a chance to go alone." "I have eaten that restaurant once and it is delicious. I thought someone was with me, so I went for the second time. " "My plan for the weekend is to wait and see if anyone will ask me out." This will not only keep you reserved, throw the invitation initiative back to the man, but also test whether he really wants to ask you out. After several dates, your ambiguous period has been fully interactive, but it will be very difficult to further promote the relationship without a set of good communication skills to assist. 2. The change of address forms. Men and women who are in an ambiguous period often have no fixed address for each other, and generally use the common second person name "you" to address each other. For example, "Did you eat?" "It suddenly occurred to me that you also like this? This direct and vague' person' is both concrete and not so straightforward in an ambiguous atmosphere. However, when you are ambiguous to a certain extent and want to upgrade your relationship, you must have a fixed title. Of course, instead of encouraging you to call your husband casually without any preparation, my suggestion is to make a late-night phone call with the man you like. When the weekend is the most relaxing and quiet, voice and care are transmitted through the microphone. In this intimate atmosphere, if you inadvertently say "good night, dear", your relationship will undergo a qualitative and subtle change. Secondly, after entering the ambiguous period, you need more advanced ambiguous language to help you warm up your feelings and establish relationships. When you hear this language appear in your conversation, you can fully prove that the other person already cares about you. You want to test your attitude through this language to judge whether you can express your love. For example, the other party said, "You should take good care of yourself and don't always worry people.". You should pay attention to increasing each other's desire for protection. This stage is the stage when boys gradually want to take care of you and protect you, so they can show weakness appropriately. For example, you can reply, "Hey, who will worry about me?" . Your reply can easily cause the distress of boys and then express it, and may even lead boys to reply to you with a reply like "I", which will further ambiguous and confirm your relationship. When the other person says "I wish you were here". This sentence is very strong, but it exposes the demand. When a boy tells you this, you must not answer the question directly. You can throw questions and let the ambiguous topic continue. For example, if you reply, "Will you be happy if I am here?" And ask, "Why?" And so on, let boys express their feelings for you more, and even force boys to speed up their confession to you. Words that tease men are simple and clear. First, always make a man feel possible, but don't let him get it. 1 For example, they often send it to men. I miss you a little today ... This sentence has an extra punctuation mark. I miss you a little today, but I don't think much, just a little, but I don't miss you every day, just today, because I miss you, so I send you this message. Then if it's a man who sends it to a green tea woman, I miss you a little today. How will they reply? Usually they will say, I'm not like you. I won't miss you until tomorrow, or, oh, just a little. It is this ambiguity that makes men wander between getting and not getting. Second, take the initiative to grasp the progress of intimate relationship and establish a framework. I found that most women are easy to lose their minds as long as they are in love, and then you will never have green tea, because they know how to build a framework with words in their feelings and let men follow his ideas. For example, in the afternoon 1 1, he invited you to have a barbecue. At this point, you start to struggle. If you promise him, you will be too reserved. If you don't say yes, you seem afraid to miss the opportunity. They usually reply like this: thank you, but this date seems a little urgent. Recently, the company has been working overtime, and I get off work every day 1 1. I will be busy next week. You can wait until the other party replies. You can say it in advance if you make an appointment next time. I stagger the time. 1 first kept its own principles. You give others time to think. 3. If you express it properly, he won't feel frustrated. Instead, he got a hint that you will definitely have a chance to date again, so sometimes we have to dare to refuse and express and use a framework to open up the space. 3. Mobilize men's emotions and make them actively involved. Sometimes men are actually more realistic than women. If you don't give him candy, he can't arouse their enthusiasm. So you can follow the following tips. 1 reassure me that you are the man I think you are. 2 Set the frame. Although you are my man, I also have my demands. You must make me feel safe enough before I will consider being with you. What is a sense of security? It means that men should pay more, receive holiday gifts at work and say that they love me every day. You not only test each other, but also guide them to pay for you constantly. These are some common skills of green tea women. By mastering these three points, you can increase your charm among men and eat each other firmly. I hope it helps your feelings. Words that tease men are simple and clear. 3 1. Don't say frivolous things. If a woman always behaves appropriately when chatting with a man, not to mention those frivolous words, then this woman is also a woman with high emotional intelligence. She knows what to say, what not to say and what to say under certain circumstances. She won't talk casually to please men. 2. Women with high emotional intelligence don't always ask men for red envelopes. Some women always like to ask familiar people for red envelopes on WeChat, especially men. During the Chinese New Year holiday, they will first pay New Year greetings to others, and then say how much they will give her as a person. A woman with high emotional intelligence won't do that, because asking for a red envelope is asking a man for money, which will make him look down on himself from the bottom of his heart. 3. Comfort the sad people. When men tell women sad things, women will take the initiative to comfort men, so that men will not be so sad, so that men will not always be immersed in sadness. Women don't show indifference to men's sadness, so this person's emotional intelligence is also very high. 4. Express anger instead of anger. The reason for the increasingly fierce quarrel between lovers is not how serious the matter itself is, but that too many angry emotions and attitudes have been added to each other's words and expressions, which gradually angered each other. Finally, the quarrel became more and more fierce and got out of hand. Express anger instead of anger, don't attack personally, don't turn over old scores. Talking about this matter will reduce many unnecessary contradictions. 5, learn to be considerate, there is a gap between men, some men succeed at a young age, and some men have achieved nothing over half a year. If you are dealing with the latter kind of man, please remember not to compare him with others, and don't always say whose husband took her to travel abroad and buy brand-name clothes ... Matters needing attention for women with high emotional intelligence to chat with boys: 1 Clarify your chat goal: Why do you want to add WeChat with small fresh meat? Are you just bored and want to talk to someone, or do you want to have a relationship, or just do it? Be clear about your chat goal, and you are less likely to get into the dilemma of saying good morning and good night to each other every day. Besides, if you don't ask him out all the time, you will eventually become a pen pal, and the ambiguity will end in vain. So, tell him boldly! 2. Make good use of Yan characters: Yan characters are usually a good way to start a conversation, and a good emoji can instantly enliven the atmosphere. However, an "expression war" in which only words are used instead of words usually leads to silence. Remember that Yan characters are always the foil of language, so don't put the cart before the horse. In addition, some expression packs that are too street and can be seen everywhere should also be used sparingly. On the one hand, they are too boring to watch, on the other hand, they make your taste mediocre.