Zhu Xi's "Zhu Zi's maxims for ruling a family" Full text

Full text of Zhu Xi's "Zhu Zi's maxims for ruling the family"

Zhu Zi's maxims for ruling the family

Zhu Xi

At dawn, I will get up, and I will sweep the courtyard to make it neat and clean inside and outside.

Both dusk will rest, lock the door, must personally check.

A porridge and a meal, when thinking about the hard-earned; half silk and half a wisp, always thinking about the hard work.

It is better to save for a rainy day than to dig a well when you are thirsty.

Self-support must be frugal, feast guests do not stay.

If the utensils are clean, the pots are better than the jewels; if the food is precise, the vegetables are better than the delicacies.

Don't build a fancy house, and don't seek good land.

The three women are the matchmakers for the thief; the beauty of the maidservant is not the blessing of the boudoir.

Don't use handsome slaves, and don't use colorful makeup on your concubines.

Although the ancestors are far away, sacrifices must be made; although the children and grandchildren are stupid, they must not fail to read the scriptures.

The life of a man must be simple, and the teaching of his children must be righteous.

Don't be greedy for unexpected wealth, don't drink too much wine.

Don't take advantage of trade with the shoulder-bearer.

The first step in the process is to make sure that you have a good understanding of what is going on in the world and what is happening in the world.

The first thing you need to do is to be a bit mean to your family.

The first time I saw this was when I was a student at the University of California, Berkeley, and the University of California, Berkeley.

The first step in the process is to make sure that you have a good understanding of what is going on in the world.

The first is to listen to the words of a woman, and to obey the words of a man, and to obey the words of a woman, and to obey the words of a man.

The first is the one that is not a part of the world, and the second is the one that is not a part of the world.

The first thing you need to do is to choose a good son-in-law, and not to ask for more money than you can afford.

If you want to marry a lady, don't ask for a thick trousseau.

It is most shameful to see a man who is rich and prosperous.

He who is proud of his poverty, is not so cheap.

Don't fight at home, if you do, you'll end up in trouble.

Life lessons are not about words.

Don't be a bully to the widows and orphans.

Don't kill animals for the sake of food.

Behave yourself, and you will be sorry for what you have done.

The family will not be able to accomplish anything.

The first thing you need to know is how to get to the bottom of the problem, and how to get there.

The first thing you need to do is to listen to what is being said, and then you will know that it is not the praise of others.

The first time I saw this was when I was a student at the University of California, Berkeley, and I was a student at the University of California, Berkeley. And I am not a man of the world, but I am a man of the world.

Do not forget to give, do not forget to receive.

The first thing you need to do is to leave some room for maneuver, and you should not go back.

When there is joy, do not be jealous;

When there is trouble, do not be happy.

If you want to see good, it is not good; if you fear to be known, it is evil.

If you see color, you will be rewarded by your wife and daughter;

if you hide your grudges and use dark arrows, you will be rewarded by your children and grandchildren.

When the family is at peace, even if the food is not enough, there is still joy.

If you have finished your work early, you will have no money left, and you will be happy.

The first thing that I want to do is to read the books of the saints.

The official's mind is on the state, not on his family.

The man of the world is a man of the world, a man of the world, a man of the world, a man of the world, a man of the world, a man of the world, a man of the world, a man of the world, a man of the world, a man of the world.

There are four ways to defeat a family: 1) the defeat of those who have no sense of propriety and righteousness; 2) the defeat of those who cheat their brothers; 2) the defeat of those who commit adultery with women; and 4) the defeat of those who are slow in their children (who insult others).

The above is Zhu Xi's full text of the "maxims of governance"

Continue to enjoy the following classic maxims of governance

Hundreds of words of governance

A. For parents

Within the family, and diligence is valuable; and the blessings of diligence, diligence, and the things attempted.

In order to achieve harmony, the whole family should be ****worthy; we should help each other and understand each other, and we should be of one mind.

The heart Qi force gathered, the cause of a promising; social stability, China soared.

Parents should be reasonable; they should not rely on the old to suppress their children.

Right and wrong are clearly defined, speech is based on reason; dealing with matters of justice, impartiality.

The marriage of a child should be left to its own devices; it should not be arranged or replaced.

A woman should choose a good son-in-law, and a child should seek a good wife.

Children have been criticized and educated; spoiled and pampered, it will do no good.

The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good understanding of what you are doing and what you are doing.

Parental behavior is better than reasoning.

The relationship between mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law should be given special attention.

Respect for the mother-in-law and love for the daughter-in-law, correctly understood; each takes what it needs, should be opposed.

Love alone without respect is taken out of context; respect without love is not understood.

The daughter-in-law has a fault, to understand the reason; care and love, to the daughter as an example.

Don't hurt your parents, don't reveal your shortcomings; change your ways, don't talk about it outside.

Abusive and sarcastic behavior is very harmful: it is even more undesirable to point at a chicken and curse a dog.

The daughter-in-law is not in harmony, mediation is appropriate; favoring the son and daughter-in-law is not beneficial.

B. For the children

Parents, like the depth of the sea; the birth of children, all the hardships.

The old age and exhaustion; the children are adults, they should be filial piety.

The food, clothing, shelter and transportation should not be difficult; the health condition should be frequently asked.

Do your best to provide for the needs of your parents; do not be mean to them for the sake of money.

The love of husband and wife is important, and the kindness of parents is deep; do not spoil your wife and abuse the elderly.

Remember what your parents have taught you, and advise you when they have done something wrong.

If your parents are sick, you should take care of them; if they are sick, you should take them to the doctor.

The first thing you need to do is to minimize the pain of the disease by all possible means.

A daughter-in-law should treat her mother-in-law in the same way as a daughter. The first is the one that is not a part of the story, but the second is the one that is not a part of the story.

Parents above, children and grandchildren below: the former car and the latter, compare heart to heart.

C. For husband and wife

Between husband and wife, love is as heavy as a mountain; honor and disgrace and ****, the stakes are related.

To be happy, sincerity is the first thing; put your heart into your heart, do not deceive.

Not to be confused, not to be instigated; trust is the most important, understanding is the key.

The suspicion of mistrust is a problem for a long time, and the consequences of catching information are not good.

The old and the new are to be blamed and depreciated; the new and the old are to be criticized.

Help each other, complement each other's strengths; mutual respect and love, **** encourage each other.

Economic openness, diligence and thrift; income for expenditure, prudent spending.

Unification of reward planning, specific sub-division of the office; the big things to discuss, small things to do.

Living habits, learn from each other; carry forward the good, change the bad habits.

One side has had, patiently help; follow the good guidance, do not barbaric.

One party has a problem, do not complain, do not bother, considerate care, do not alienate.

Birth and parenthood, things should be **** management; two parents, the same support **** support.

Family planning, far-reaching significance; eugenics, no female and male.

The rich do not move, the poor do not move; white head to old age, **** bitter and sweet.

D. Brothers and Sisters

Brothers and Sisters, one mother, one sibling; like brothers and sisters, one root.

They have a family and a career, and each of them does their own work; there are poor and rich, and there are poor and good.

The poor are not jealous of the rich, and the rich do not mind the poor; mutual help is indispensable.

Self-reliance is especially important.

Economic property, do not fight how much; flesh and blood, not a good sign.

Before the parents, each of them should fulfill their filial piety; don't compare the quantity with the quantity, and seek for high style.

Auntie and sister-in-law respect each other, right and wrong are rare; married sisters, generous and generous.

Sisters-in-law are in harmony, humility is important; love each other, take care of each other.

The first is to remember that the family is in harmony, and that there is no need to keep talking all the time.

Love our little world, warm family peace.

We should respect each other and respect the old and the young.

We love our families as much as we love our own, and we must be honest and loyal.

Let's do things together, and let's do it right.

And if you're always in a fight, you'll never be at peace.

Everything should be left to chance, so that happiness will be frequent.

We should trust each other, and not hide our shadows.

We have to be humane, not cold to our family.

A little smile is the most lovely thing.

A little smile is the most useful thing, and the family will be happy.

Warmth can move people, and make an impression on their hearts.

The household needs to be well taken care of, and things need to be put in order.

Keep your home clean and happy.

The mind must be calm, the reason is always awake.

Prepare for big things before they happen, don't dig a well only when you are thirsty.

Though life is hard, we must be quiet in our hearts.

Let the wind and rain pass by, and keep the clouds open and the sun and moon bright.

We have never done anything wrong in our lives, and we are not afraid to knock on the door in the middle of the night.

The first thing you need to know is how to get the best out of your life.

A true warrior's life is easy to build a family, but a great warrior's life is not hard to fulfill.

A warrior's life is easy when he is a warrior, and a warrior's life is easy when he is a warrior.

A warrior's life is not a matter of time, but a warrior's life is not a matter of time.

The first thing you need to do is to eat the root of the vegetable, and then you will be able to sleep and sleep.

Some people ask me what is right and wrong, and I shake my head and say I don't know.

I would rather pick tea from the mountains than drink wine from the streets.

I have to be close to the people who have a way of doing things, and I have to be thankful to the people who do not have a way of doing things.

The poor should not worry about the rich, and the rich should not boast about it.

The maxims of home rule (3)

All home rule should be done before it is too late. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.

The clothes are coarse, the food is full. The first thing you need to do is to pay attention to your parents and honor your brother and sister-in-law.

The woman of the house is a good woman. The poor will not be deceived, and the rich will not be disturbed.

The government's money is paid. The world's love, don't forget.

The family has become a household, and the family's virtue is like a treasure.

The family is a treasure, the money is like grass.

This is a good thing to share. The first thing you need to do is to find a friend.

A bonus is a bonus, but a bonus is a bonus. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.

The first thing you need to do is to get rid of all the things you want to do, and then you need to get rid of them. The first thing you need to do is to get rid of all the problems you are facing.

The first thing you need to do is to read a good book. The first thing you need to do is to learn the art of craftsmanship.

Plow the fields and weed the grass. The poor raise chickens and the rich raise birds.

Thrifty and frugal, priceless treasure. If the body is not dry, the belly is not full.

The time passes quickly, and people grow old easily. But to be a man, one must learn to be good.

Zhu Zi's maxims

1, do not camp Chinese house, do not seek good land.

2, reading ambition in the sages, not disciples of science; for the official heart of the country, not counting the family.

3, to keep the score and life, and listen to the sky. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.

4. If you have a good heart and a good life, you will be rich until you are old. The good life is not good, the blessing becomes a sign of trouble.

5, although the ancestors are far away, sacrifices can not be sincere; although the children and grandchildren are stupid, the scriptures can not be read.

6, the life of the period of simplicity, teaching children to have righteousness.

7. Don't be greedy for unexpected wealth, don't drink too much wine.

8, and shoulder trade, do not take advantage of; see the poor relatives and neighbors, must be warm and compassionate.

9, three nuns and six women, the real matchmaker of prostitution; maidservant beauty concubine, not the blessing of the boudoir.

10, the child servants do not use handsome, concubines avoid colorful makeup.

11, do not rely on the power and bullying of widows and orphans; not greedy for food and wantonly kill birds.

12. If you are a good boy, you will have many mistakes; if you are lazy, you will not be able to make a success of your family.

13. Don't forget to give favors, don't forget to receive favors.

14, when everything is left to chance, should not go again.

15, people have celebrated, do not give birth to jealousy; people have trouble, do not give birth to happy heart.

16, good people want to see, not really good, evil fear of people know, is a great evil.

17, to see the rich and noble and the people who have flattered, the most shameful; meet the poor and proud of the people, the cheap is not very.

18, home quit litigation, litigation is the end of the evil; in the world quit talking too much, more words will be lost.

19. If you have a good heart and a bad life, you will be blessed. The heart and life are not good, suffering and poverty.

20, the heart can save the life, the most important thing to save the way of benevolence. The life is made in the heart, the good and the bad can only be called by people.

21. If you don't believe in fate, you will have to repair your heart, and you will be afraid that you will not be able to fulfill your destiny. If you are not a good person, you will not be able to get a job.

22, a porridge and a meal, when thinking of the place is not easy; half silk and half a wisp, always think of things difficult.

23, it is better to save for a rainy day, not to dig a well when thirsty.

24, self-support must be frugal, banquets do not linger.

25, the quality of the apparatus and clean, the pottery is better than gold and jade; food and drink about and fine, garden vegetables more delicacies.

26, intimate with the young, long will be tired of it; Qu Zhi old, can rely on each other in a hurry.

27, lightly listen to the speech, and know that the slanders of non-people, when the patience of three thoughts;

28, because of the dispute, how do I know that I am not, must be calm and dark thoughts.

29, see the color and lust, the report in the wife and daughter; anonymous grudges and with dark arrows, the disaster extends to the children.

30, the family and smooth, although the breakfast is not enough, but also have a joy;

31, the national course early completion, that is, the bag is not surplus, from the most happy.

32, the dawn is up, cleaning up the court, to be inside and outside the neat and tidy.

33, both dusk and rest, closed and locked the door, must personally check.

34, meanness into the family, the reason is not long enjoyment; the wrong, immediately see the demise.

35, brothers, uncles and nephews, must be divided into more and more wet widow; young and old inside and outside, it is appropriate to law solemn rhetoric.

36, listen to women's words, not good flesh and blood, is not a husband; heavy assets, thin parents, not a son.

37, marrying a daughter to choose a good son-in-law, do not ask for heavy recruitment; marrying a daughter-in-law to seek a lady, do not count the thick trousseau.

1, living in a simple life; teaching children to be righteous.

2. People help me, never forget; I help people, do not remember.

3. It is hard to sleep when you are in the way of greed.

4, social virtues to follow, honesty and trustworthiness to be respected, green low-carbon to advocate, gambling and drugs to stay away from.

5, a single family does not live alone, and often know each other.

6, see the poor relatives and neighbors, must be warm and compassionate.

7. If you are not loyal, you will not be able to stand in the world.

8, bound but not tied, love but not drowning.

9. Take home as home, township as township, country as country, and world as world.

10, quiet to cultivate oneself, thrift to cultivate virtue.

11, make friends with people who share your interests.

12, enlightened and law-abiding ordinary people, honest and equal civilized households.

13, righteousness in the chest of people frank, clean wind in the door home wellness.

14, the family has an old man, everything is good, filial piety for the road, need to walk early.

15, the style of helping people is high, and the virtue of helping the poor and needy is beautiful.

16, everything must be prepared, can not be thirsty again digging well.

17. If you have a bad relationship with someone, you will see their demise immediately.

18, filial piety and respect for the elderly begins with the heart, to the virtue of the family in practice.

19, heart and hand connected *** enjoy a better life, wind and rain *** create a safe home.

20, the family and all things happy, neighborly harmony for a hundred years.

21, luxury and inertia of the poor, and strength and frugality of the rich.

22. Doing good is a treasure, abiding by the law is the most precious.

23, filial piety and respect for parents can not wait.

24, honesty as an official heart does not panic, fair and upright gas Xuanqiang; bright and open without dust and dirt, two-sleeve clean for a hundred years.

25, emphasizing the tradition of inter-brotherly harmony and inter-family solidarity.

26, thrift and frugality is prosperous, obscenity is dead.

27, equality between men and women, patriotism and love for the family, *** building a beautiful Chinese dream; filial piety, love for the elderly and children, thrift and frugality, building a happy and cozy home.

28, although living in poverty, but never complain about the environment in which they live.

29, wood, rice, oil, salt, soy, vinegar and tea, hard work and good family, left and right, both boast, family harmony.

30, humility, tolerance, less disputes, mutual love more.

31, the lotus to clear for the beauty, people to positive for the respect; heart to clean, home to and noble.

32, do people have three virtues virtue, morality, public morality; in the world to have three hearts love, kindness, confidence.

33, busy bad crops a hand loss, teaching bad children negative generation.

34, patriotism and law-abiding is the basis of love of home; hot tea and rice is the blessing of the family; mutual trust and mutual understanding is the way of the family; leniency and strictness is the secret of child-rearing.

35, put an end to the evil thoughts, crooked thoughts, greed of the heart, all walk hard work, thrift, rich family road.

36, but thrift can help clean, but forgiveness can become virtue.

37, Germany as a mirror, according to the earth's big world; good like the balance, energy in the heart of the small Qiankun.

38, in the world, quit talking too much, more words will be lost.

39, parents live every day, is my great happiness, should be treasured.

40, house wide, road wide, not as wide as the heart; eat well, wear good, not as good as the state of mind.

41, the public is born bright, clean is born Wei.

42, high merit does not die loyalty, position more firm public servant heart.

43, for the mountain nine ren, the success of a basket. The first thing I want to do is to make sure that I have a good understanding of what is going on in the world and what is going on in the world.

44, the family style is good, the country style is good, the country style is hopeful, the party style is the political style is the people's style is inevitably pure and simple.

45, people have the courtesy of peace, no courtesy is dangerous.

46, into the family needle in the haystack, the defeat of the flood dike.

47, the public interest, know nothing, loyal.

48, the good is not from the outside Ruoxi, the name can not be false.

49, a lifetime of ambition to learn old, a righteousness is indispensable, a lifetime of courage to climb new heights, a lifetime of history to write well.

50, upholding the good and righteous, bearing the sage style; tree clean family style, Yang Chinese virtues.

51, not forgetting the lesson of the five bows and arrows that prompted the reconciliation of the five brothers.

52, his body is correct, do not order; his body is not correct, although the order does not follow.

53, filial piety, diligence, sincerity and goodness brew good character, justice and honesty cast family style.

54, the family always uphold the pine wind and bamboo shadow plum rhyme, for the official always keep the God clear character integrity and clean heart.

55, warmth, modesty, loyalty and filial piety family style, hard work, thrift and goodness of the Chinese virtues.

56, people to virtue-based, official to the people as the basis.

57, reading in the sages, for the official heart of the state. The first thing I want to do is to keep the score, and listen to the sky.

58, more responsibility, more care; less stubborn, twice the warmth of home.

59, strict and degree, love but not spoiled, teach by word and example, children benefit.

60, integrity begins with a word, civilization lies in a little bit.

61, cast the papaya, holding a Qiongyao. It's not a good thing to be rewarded, but it's also a good thing to be thought of as a good thing.

62, in their own, virtue and trust; in people, good and humble; in the family, respect and harmony; in the country, public justice and law.

63, the virtue of life, the character of the world.

64, the lack of money is only a life of hardship, and the vacancy of affection is a great loneliness.

65, luxury is more desire. Gentlemen are more desirous of the idea of adoring the rich and powerful, in vain, quick disaster.

66, the family Qi and then the country rule, the country rule and then the world peace.

67, would rather tighten the belt at home, not outside to take a dish.

68, to cultivate the habit of study.

69, blame others for their own heart, forgive yourself for forgiving others.

70. Even when life is difficult, mothers still devote all their enthusiasm to educating their children.

71, for the official should set up a public servant will, the most expensive from the political love of the people.

72, through long-distance travel to test and exercise themselves.

73, law enforcement as a mountain, guarding the body as jade.

74, home is a cozy harbor, tolerance, humility, is a place to warm each other.

75, do not personally teach their children, but only monitor and inspect their learning.

76, Virtue first, honesty first; loyalty to the country, honesty and prosperity; diligence produces wealth, thrift produces well-being.

77, three regular meals and good sleep, regular medical checkups to take a step; the spirit of abundance to enjoy the heavenly family, in the event of a three-think less worried.

78, reluctant to learn to establish a family, virtue, civilization, filial piety and fraternal duty, hard work and thrift, gambling and drugs.

79, the scholar has the heart of the public world, and then can raise the world's wise.

80, we hold hands, love every day; we heart to heart, home and everything is prosperous.

81, picked a hundred flowers into honey, for whom hard for whom sweet.

82, clean as a lamp, illuminating the beautiful future; family as a silkworm, weaving a happy life.

83, a gentleman's respect and no loss, with people respectful and courteous, all brothers within the four seas.

84, information is equal to money, the importance of information from a young age.

85, hoeing when the afternoon, sweat drops under the soil.

86, sincere, thick and simple, strong and persistent, loyal, filial and righteous, and thrifty.

87, wastefulness, day long pool see the bottom; thrift and frugality, day after day, mountain top day.

88, worrying about the country can be prosperous, and hesitation can be killed.

89, husband and wife birds of the same forest, hand in hand to the old, children have become talented, choose a spouse for high moral.

90, the rule of the family to do a good job of the four operations: add thrift and frugality, reduce extravagance and waste, multiply filial piety and love for children, in addition to the good and evil labor.

91, **** build family anti-corruption defense line, with the spectrum of Chinese harmony and happiness of the new chapter.

92, integrity is a window, do not block a wall, into the sun, the heart room is bright.

93, cultivate the positive energy of the family style, stimulate the family Chinese dream.

94, to the security of the principal, but in the people.

95, the home quit litigation, litigation is the end of the evil.

96, pots and pans play the harmony of the family with moral rule, firewood, rice, oil and salt cooking thrift, filial piety and fraternal happiness flavor.

97. Don't camp in a fancy house, don't seek good land.

98, thrifty, filial piety and virtuous folks thick, family style and warm incense in the hall; virtue, the world go, self-improvement Chinese dream.

99, learning, will not forget; abide by the law and discipline, happy to help each other.

100, the people are the most important thing, the gods of earth and grain are second, the king is light.

101. If you follow the law, you will be able to get even with the top and bottom.

102, the world is public.

103, not lazy in farming, not greedy in government, not treacherous in business.

104, tea and rice have a real flavor, hush now real love, windows and clean see true heart, a thousand words of advice to pass true love.

105, equal and loving family and beauty, with the times the country is happy.

106, do not give up farming, know that the people of food is the sky.

107, love and loyalty, self-discipline tree image; for the official need to be diligent, honest and not greedy; for the people to do practical things, the benefits in the side.

108, the more great people, the more self-study and self-awareness.

109, although the children and grandchildren are stupid, the scriptures can not be read.

110, the aroma of books can be enough to lavish clothes and hats, Dingli must be held to revitalize the country.

111, quit smoking and limit alcohol is the right way to invite guests to the banquet CD-ROM good.

112, thrift and frugality is prosperous, obscene husband will die.

113, more than a few handsome books, ten thousand generations of the foundation of the strong.

114, said the motherland, said the family, these two, all can be taken care of; said parents, said children, these two systems, all happy.

115, the family emphasis on kinship, mutual love and trust; neighbors speak of friendship, mutual help and respect.

116, the world's rise and fall, everyone has a responsibility.

117, as a minister, to the rich and happy people as a merit, to the poor and bitter people as a crime.

118, to secure their homes, must first be secure in the country.

119, husband and wife like a pair of chopsticks, together, in order to taste the bitter, spicy, sweet and sour life.

120, adhere to the principle of not being involved in the operation if you are not a son.

121, the three friends of pine, plum and bamboo, three treasures of diligence, thrift and home rule.

122, peace is valuable, the price of harmony is higher. If you have a family that is involved in gambling, you will have to throw them all away.

123, tea for friends, light meals to educate good talent.

124, the family has a collection of books, readily available, read anywhere, at any time to share the family of books, from generation to generation.

125, wood shavings bamboo head, all useful things; cow ulcer horse bo, can be prepared for the capital of the drug.

126, *** keep diligence, honesty and corruption, and create a warm harbor for the family.

127, in and out of the support must be cautious, serving day and night do not get tired of.

128, take the degree, with the section, is often enough.

129, not hardworking and not thrifty, not thought of as a person also.

The first thing that I want to do is to make sure that my family is happy, and that I am happy even if I don't have enough to eat.

The second thing that I want to do is to make sure that my family is happy, and that I am happy even if I have enough to eat.

The study of books is a matter for the sages, and for the government, for the king and the state.

The book was written in the spirit of the sages, and the official heart was in the heart of the state.

All things are precious, treating people with modesty and tameness; be frugal to maintain a family, not forgetting the roots of wealth and prosperity; eat a reasonable diet, to strengthen the body and health.

The country can prosper from worry and labor, and the people can die from hesitation.

Family matters are not big or small, harmony is the most important, parents nurture grace, heart to return.

The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.

The heart and hand connected *** enjoy a better life, rain and shine *** create a safe home.

Brothers, uncles and nephews, need to be divided into more and more wet widow, young and old inside and outside, it is appropriate to law solemn rhetoric.

Cultivate the habit of studying hard and asking questions.

It's hard to sleep when you're in greed, but it's good to have a clean slate.

The tradition of collecting intelligence information has been passed down from generation to generation.

There is love and righteousness and dreams, and they are pursued with one heart and one mind.

The public is bright, the private is dark.

Life without morality; life with sincerity.

A high degree of success does not obliterate the ambition of loyalty and chastity, and a high degree of respect makes the heart of a public servant even more resolute.

You will not lose your ambition if you are poor.

The first thing you need to know is how to get the best out of your family, and how to get the best out of your family.

It is easy to be frugal, but difficult to be frugal.

Cleanliness begins with one word and one deed, and civilization lies in every little bit.

The first thing you need to do is to be frugal, and not to stay for the banquet.

The quality and cleanliness of the utensils, pottery is better than gold and jade;

The food and drink is about and refined, the garden vegetables more delicacies.

It is better to save for a rainy day than to dig a well when one is thirsty.

The three nuns and the six women are the matchmakers for the thieves; the beauty of the maidservants and the beauty of the concubines are not the blessings of the boudoir.

A porridge and a meal, when thinking of the place is not easy; half silk and half a wisp, always think of things difficult.

The most important thing is to be diligent in the state and thrifty in the family.

It is easy to go from frugality to extravagance, but difficult to go from extravagance to frugality.

The quality and cleanliness of utensils is better than that of gold and jade; the diet is more refined than that of food, and the garden vegetables are more precious than the delicacies.

We must be frugal and simple in our lives, and we must be righteous in teaching our children.

The state can prosper from sorrow and labor, and the body can perish from idleness and hesitation.

The people's livelihood lies in diligence, and diligence means no lack.

Don't build fancy houses, don't seek good land.

The first thing you need to do is to be intimate with the young, and you'll be tired of them for a long time.

The second thing you need to do is to be honest with yourself and your friends, and you'll be able to rely on them if you're in a hurry.

The first thing you need to do is to listen to what is being said, and then you will know that it is not a slander.

The first is that the couple is a couple, and the second is that the couple is a couple.

The family should be thrifty and frugal, the education should be modest, and the love should be kind.

The man of the house, the man of the house, the man of the house, the man of the house, the man of the house, the man of the house, the man of the house.

If a man has no will, his family will not prosper. If a woman is not soft, she will drive away her wealth.

The word filial piety at the head; the word ritual in the back; the word net finale

Men respect women, women respect men, men and women are equal; husband respect wife, wife respect husband, husband and wife love.

Husbands and wives are rooted in love, make up for each other's shortcomings, and do not blame each other.

We need to do more good deeds and accumulate goodness to ensure the prosperity of the family.

Accumulation of good deeds will bring you prosperity, and you will be blessed with virtue.

All good deeds are the first thing to be done, brotherhood and harmony are the most important, children should not be arrogant and lazy, and husband and wife should not be jealous of each other.

Humility is the most precious thing in life, and honesty is the most important thing in life.

It is better to say a thousand things than to do them in a practical way.

You can't prevent people from doing harm, but you can't do harm.

Filial piety, respect for teachers, cherish the time, know how to pay.

Respect for the elderly, love for children, and neighbors, pro-family.

If you are strict with your family, you will be at home; if you are forgiving, you will be in harmony.

The husband does not suspect that his wife is ugly, and the wife does not suspect that her husband is poor.

When you have to be patient, think twice; when you have to fight over something, how do you know that it is not my fault?

The man who listens to the words of a woman, who is not a good husband, who emphasizes the importance of wealth and talent, and who is thin on his parents, is not a man's son.

The first thing I want to do is to be a part of the world's largest and most important organization, and I want to be a part of the world's most important organization. The first thing you need to do is to get a good understanding of what is going on in the world, and what is going on in the world.

We must be calm in our thoughts. The first thing you need to do is to be careful about what you are doing.

We should leave some room for maneuver, and we should not go any further.

The three women, the six women, are the matchmakers of the thieves;

The beauty of the maidservant, the concubine, is not the blessing of the boudoir.

Don't use a handsome child servant, and don't make up a beautiful wife.

The ancestors are far away, but the sacrifices must be sincere;

The children and grandchildren are stupid, but the scriptures must be read.

The first thing you need to do is to keep your life simple and to teach your children the way of righteousness.

To build a moral and cultural life, to establish a family with diligence and skill, to treat people with honor and integrity, and to pass on simplicity and honesty to the rest of the world.

The family's role model is the head of the family; the son is the family's word and deed.

The way is the way of the foot, the virtue is the name behind.

Never forget the lesson of the five bows and arrows that prompted the reconciliation of the five brothers.

Reading makes one serene, and learning makes one far-sighted.

If you see small gains, you cannot make great achievements; if you have a selfish heart, you cannot work for the public good.

The poor and the neighborly must be warm and compassionate.

Put an end to the evil thoughts, crooked thoughts, greed of the heart, all walk hard work, thrift, rich family road.

Rise at dawn, sweep the court, be neat and tidy inside and outside; both faint and then rest, lock the door, must personally check.

Read the book in the sages, for the official heart of the state.

At dawn, I will rise, sweep the court and remove it, and keep it tidy inside and outside;

When it is dusk, I will rest, and close and lock the door, and I will check it myself.

A porridge and a meal, when thinking of the place is not easy;

Half silk and half a wisp, always think of the difficulties of material resources.

It is better to save for a rainy day than to dig a well when you are thirsty.

The first thing you need to do is to be frugal, and not to stay for the banquet.

The quality and cleanliness of the utensils is better than gold and jade;

The food and drink are simple and refined, and the garden vegetables are better than the delicacies.

Don't build a fancy house, don't seek a good field.

The first thing you need to do is to be intimate with the young, and then you will be tired of them.

The second thing you need to do is to be honest with yourself and your friends, and then you will be able to get on with your life.

The first thing you need to do is to listen to what is being said, and then you will know that it is not a slanderous statement.

This is the first time that I have ever seen a man with a high degree of intelligence.