What kind of wife is a good wife?

From ancient times to the present, our traditional culture in China requires women to be obedient and virtuous. Although the times are progressing and people's ideas are upgrading, kindness and virtue are eternal requirements. A woman who marries a wife must have family values, virtue, kindness, kindness, meekness, understanding and ingenuity.

A virtuous and sensible woman will get more respect and her family life will be more harmonious. If she uses wisdom to deal with the contradictions in life, the problems between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the need for marriage management, your marriage happiness index will be higher.

As a wife, many things don't come according to your idea. You need to bear with kindness or wisdom, change your position and role, and behave in a more calm way.

2. A considerate and compassionate husband

Although modern women are becoming more and more independent and there are more and more strong women, the mainstream thought is that men should be outside, and it is every man's duty to support their families. Therefore, as a wife, it is not easy for a man to work outside to earn money to support his family. It is necessary to know how to put yourself in others' shoes. People are more popular than others, and too many wives will dislike their husbands' failure to give a good life, leading to the fragmentation of the family. Don't blindly compare material things, whose husband makes more money.

You know, life is not easy, and everyone understands the hardships. You should understand and encourage your husband. Not everyone is a rich second generation born with a golden key, and not everyone can meet a good opportunity for development.

As long as you have a good outlook on life and a good personality, you should have more understanding and support, so that life will be beautiful!

3, have your own space, not just children and husbands first.

I've met too many married women. After marriage, the topics discussed are children and husbands. My children won the "three good students" award this year. Why else is my husband not a thing? I have to go home to cook and wash clothes for my husband. I either spit out my words or put my husband and children first in everything, so I want to ask you how much time you spend on yourself?

It's not that it's bad to care about and value your family, but please leave some time for yourself, chat with friends, learn to recharge your batteries, dress yourself up and do things that interest you. Even if you get married and have children, you are still an independent individual, and you need time alone.

The standard for modern married women to be good wives is no longer to wash and cook all day and take care of their families. You are her married lover, not a nanny!