Why do men like gentle and virtuous women, there is no like a more straight temper?

There are certain prerequisites and preconditions for a Chinese man to be able to ask for a good wife in ancient times.

At that time, women had to depend on men to survive and had no ability to earn a living on their own. Women stayed at home all day long, had to be filial to their in-laws, serve their husbands, bring up their children, and revolve around their families, which was their lifelong mission and the only measure of their value in their husbands' homes.

Men hold the lifeline of the family economy, the actual rights of the family, but also all control in his hands, the woman if you do not want to be disliked, only as a good wife and mother of a road can go.

Now the times are different, but strictly speaking, men like virtuous women, which is the nature of the bone, will never be out of date and outdated.

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Although men and women are equal, men still want to be able to afford to protect the woman they love while feeling the woman's care and concern

Today's society, although men and women are equal, men still want to be able to afford to protect the woman they love while feeling the woman's care and concern.

Zhang Beiming is the kind of man people see as having a successful career, and the main reason why he got married to his current wife and started a family is because she is gentle and kind, a typical traditional Chinese wife and mother.

He said he never wanted to rely on his wife to make money to support the family, his only requirement for her, is to stay at home as a good wife can be. Men outside the fight is very tired, do not want to go home again to face a woman in all aspects of too strong, and then come back to the battle of wits, that is a more than physically hard feeling.

After returning home, see everywhere cleaned up well organized, the kitchen wafted out the aroma of food, into the eyes of his wife's smiling face, for him, this is the feeling of home, will make him feel that their own hard work and pay is worth it, but also the life he aspires to.

Savvy represents a kind of tenderness, but also all men look forward to each other have the character

Savvy woman's biggest characteristic, is understanding, and know how to think differently, personality is not strong, able to listen to criticism.

Dong Huasheng said he had been divorced once before, when he was very young himself that the new era, the virtuous woman has been outdated, not as lively and extroverted, trendy and playful modern woman to be attractive.

Born of such a mentality, his ex-wife was an extroverted beauty who could bring him face and pride when walking outside. But this woman married home, can only like to provide a bodhisattva general offer, what work will not do, spend money like water.

And most importantly, she is not the kind of woman who can stay at home, and she is still playing around as she did before marriage. It didn't take long for the wind to fall into his ears, and the couple argued about it, and eventually the woman left him, leaving him in the lurch. Since then, he has learned that a traditional and virtuous woman is an indispensable stabilizing factor in his family if he wants to have a harmonious family and be able to fight for his career.

These are the most important things you can do for your family, and they are the most important things you can do for your family. Than the kind of too much stubborn idea, maverick woman, virtuous this trait once appeared in the body of the woman, that represents half of the success of the marriage, family conflicts and the possibility of conflict will be much smaller.

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Strong women should also occasionally show a soft side, otherwise love will have no temperature

So in this way, for women with stronger personalities and not so soft by nature, is there no advantage? He Linlin feels she disagrees with such a statement.

Her personality is more angular, not the traditional type of wife and mother, but in the eyes of her husband and children, this woman has always been a good wife, a good mother.

The reason for this is that she wants to be strong without being too strong. She is strong in her work and career, but when it comes to her family, she is patient and caring.

So for her family, they can get everything they need from her, and they can't feel the disadvantages that a strong personality may bring to the family, marriage, and intimacy, so everything is moving in the direction of a virtuous circle, and it doesn't matter whether her personality is strong or weak.

Love, affection and friendship, have to be able to feel a temperature, strong women should also occasionally show a soft side, otherwise love will have no temperature, cold things most people from the bottom of the heart refused, no matter what your character of the woman, the bottom of the heart have to understand this is.

Men are the males among the living creatures, and it is their nature to be strong and to fight.

The reason why they like women is because they have a softness and suppleness that they lack, and that's what they naturally feel attracted to.

If it weren't for this, men wouldn't have to think about finding a woman as a life partner, and there would probably be far more ****talk between the same sex than between women when it comes to their way of thinking, their personality traits, and their view of the world and society.

No matter how society evolves, keep your natural female traits intact, and you'll find that it will make you even more attractive in the eyes of men.