Feelings about parents' family style and family instruction

Family style and family precepts are the unique characteristics of a family or clan. Below I sorted out my feelings about my parents' family style and family training for reference only!

Feel the family style and family training of parents (1)

"Good family style, good family rules and good family training" can be summarized as follows:

1. Good family style: family harmony, respect for the elderly and love for the young. Pay attention to learning and advocate knowledge. Sunshine mentality, love of labor. Honest and trustworthy, tolerant and generous.

2. Good family rules and family instructions: Be polite, warmly greet guests when they get home, and welcome them. Stand, stand, sit, and behave gracefully. Respecting parents, teachers, classmates and others means respecting yourself. Earnestly fulfill

Do your homework without delay. Don't put off till tomorrow what you can do today. Arrange entertainment time scientifically and reasonably, surf the Internet healthily, and don't become an internet addict.

Second, the explanation of "family style": What is family style? Mr. Yang Shutong explained in his book "Random Talk on Family Style": "Family style is a traditional fashion and morality formed by a family or family for a long time, which can affect the spirit, morality and behavior of family members." A family or clan can live without a prominent family background and rich wealth, but it can't live without a good family style. A good family style cannot be built by one person at a time. It must rely on the joint efforts of all family members, and everyone can build it and pass it on from generation to generation.

Among them, parents and elders in the family play an important role. The formation of a good family style has nothing to do with the wealth of the family or the educational level of parents, but with the moral quality of the family.

Nowadays, many people are too busy with work and career to take care of their children. This way of education deserves our deep thought. No

It is because of the barrier of time and distance, and more because we ignore the power of family style. A good family style can make a child.

Health; And this kind of edification, it is best to start from an early age, you instill in him "a porridge and a meal, when thinking is not easy."

Concept, he may develop a kind of "half-silk and half-wisp, persistent thinking about material difficulties" thinking, and a good family style will accompany the child's life-long growth. From my own growth and my son's success, I deeply realized the importance of a good family style to the growth of the next generation.

In the long process, I feel that children who grow up in a family full of affection will be more sunny.

Feelings of parents' family style and family instruction II

Good family style and family training activities are summarized as vigorously advocating socialist values and profoundly understanding the essence of Chinese traditional virtues. Harmonious primary school has carried out the activity of "good family style and good family training", which once again exerts a subtle influence on students with excellent qualities such as "honesty, filial piety, diligence and sincerity". Students excavate and summarize excellent family style and family training from their own homes, and form a good cultural atmosphere in the whole school.

Under the leadership of the school committee, all teachers and students in our school collect family education stories, learn excellent family style and family training, carry forward the leading group of Chinese virtues, thoroughly implement the important speech of the general secretary on cultivating and practicing socialist core values, strengthen the education of Chinese traditional virtues such as friendliness, filial piety and honesty, and build an educational network of "school, family and society" to promote the cultivation of students' good behavior habits.

Carry out in-depth family style and family training and grow up with me at school. By speaking under the national flag every week, holding theme class meetings and collecting family education stories, the school guides students to start from small things, work hard, be moral participants and practitioners, and understand, carry forward and practice family school motto.

They told the story of "good family style and good family training" respectively, which made teachers and students more aware of the importance of inheriting good family style, and made it clear that the family style we need is: respecting the old and loving the young, uniting and helping each other, being modest and polite, putting yourself in the other's shoes, being considerate and willing to suffer losses.

Only family members who pay attention to moral self-discipline can enjoy prestige in the family and be qualified to become the backbone of the family. With a good family style, the whole society will be more harmonious Organize and carry out the essay contest of "Comments on Family Training Classics" through the class meeting. Call on students and parents to read the classic family instructions together and write their own comments.

Guide minors to understand the profound connotation of classic family precepts. Further cultivate and practice social core values and guide teachers and students to establish good moral values. Organize all primary school students and parents to carry out the activity of "writing letters to convey the truth", so that parents and children can communicate in the form of letters around traditional Chinese virtues such as friendliness, filial piety and honesty, family style and family training, and the confusion encountered in study and life.

On the basis of letters from home, we will carry out the collection and selection activities of outstanding letters from home, and extensively collect outstanding letters with positive content, in line with socialist core values and Chinese traditional virtues and true feelings. Organize all teachers and students to hold a class meeting with the theme of "family style and family training"

The students had a heated discussion. You said your family style, I said my family precepts, and some students made specific explanations about their family style and family precepts.

At the meeting, the students spoke freely and competed to show and share these excellent family styles and family education stories; After the meeting, they will be copied or printed together and posted in the class learning garden for display. The students unanimously said that they will practice family style and family training with practical actions in the future. Organize students to collect family training and family education stories.

Students copy and sort out the experiences and stories of their families or parents' elders about their family education, inherit the civilized family style and school motto, further carry forward the traditional culture of Chinese excellent family style and family training, cultivate the new trend of civilized family education, sow the seeds of civilization in students' hearts, and keep budding forward.

Family instructions and family education stories bear the ideological inheritance and civilized education of a family and even a nation, inherit and develop the long history and culture of the Chinese nation, and let students be subtly influenced by excellent qualities such as "honesty, filial piety, diligence and honesty" again. The activity of "Good Family Style and Family Training" has achieved gratifying results and won unanimous praise from social parents.

Parents' family style and family training feelings 3

Family style and family precepts are spiritual nourishment handed down from generation to generation. For people's growth, the influence of family style, study style and social atmosphere has a continuous and advanced process. Family style is mainly the enlightenment of life, study style is the charging of life, and social atmosphere is the tempering of life.

At present, the relationship between family style and study style is an urgent problem to be studied. Only when the two complement each other can individuals have a strong spiritual accumulation to read the society. A few days ago, Beijing Xicheng District Education Union held a family talk activity with the theme of "protecting the country from the wind and rain" in Beijing No.4 Middle School. Education experts and school teachers and students talk about family education experience and explore the path of family style construction. A few excerpts are now available to share with readers.

Don't lose the ability to appreciate children.

There is a saying in "Zhu Zi's motto of managing the family": the family is smooth sailing, although it is not obedient, but the joy is greater than the joy. The premise of family education is a good parent-child relationship. Otherwise, no matter how good the educational concept is, it cannot be implemented. However, as children grow up, many parents gradually lose the ability to appreciate their children, making the original good parent-child relationship lose its dependence.

The reason why parents don't appreciate their children is the gap between reality and expectation, as well as face. Some people always feel that their children are not as good as others, and over time they feel that children are useless. Parents often say this: Look at you, you are so beautiful every day!

If you compare life to a marathon, the primary school or junior high school stage is equivalent to the first 5 kilometers. In the 42-kilometer race, which is more important, running first or last in the first 5 kilometers?

As experienced people, educators and parents actually know that a person's future development cannot be equated with the test scores of primary or secondary schools. However, how can parents lose their minds in front of their children's scores, let anger distort human nature, and let themselves lose the ability to appreciate their children's progress and growth? (Li Xiong, the author is the deputy director of the Student Affairs Office of North No.4 Middle School and a senior Chinese teacher)

Teach with the pattern in your mind, not with words.

In excellent parents, we can find the same characteristics: for example, husband and wife love and harmony, bring sunshine mentality and security to children, and children will be more trusting and close to others. For example, parents should have a long-term vision and pattern, pay more attention to the growth of their children's minds, not just their immediate achievements, but also their material needs.

Parents who pursue themselves or their work, or have fun in life, can teach by example. Moreover, it is to respect children, give them full trust, support their attempts, and communicate smoothly with them.

Family and school should go hand in hand and have the same direction: let children have a happy life.

At the level of family education, schools can do some positive guidance to help children understand the family and promote communication among family members. All along, I think the simplest and most touching slogan is: happy to go to work and go home safely.

We go out and come back every day, starting and ending at home. It is our common wish to make home the best destination.

The family's expectation for each member is first of all peace and happiness. What I want to say to my parents is: don't give up on yourself too early, start to create a life by enriching yourself and set an example for your children.