In ancient times, it was always said that talent comes from under the stick. What is the basis?

Since ancient times? A dutiful son is born under the stick? It is said that when it comes to children, every parent wants his child to be a filial boy, and when he grows up, he can be filial to his parents, his elders and his career will be successful.

One? Filial piety? Writing can also reflect personal education, and it is also the traditional virtue of our Chinese nation! Is a dutiful son born under a stick really a dutiful son? Actually, I don't think so. Under the stick, there is a timid child, afraid of parents' punishment, afraid to open his heart to his parents, afraid of parents' scolding and choosing to cheat and hide, afraid of his parents and unwilling to talk to them too much.

When I was very young, I often heard adults say that a dutiful son is born under a stick, but today's society has long discouraged education like sticks.

The only child born in the 1980s, as a boy when she was a child, should be beaten for being naughty.

Now it's the age of parents. Seeing that your child is a bear, you will also consider whether to be strictly disciplined.

I don't deny that there are several reasons for bonzi education for your reference:

1. If there are reward rules in this world, there must be disciplinary rules.

2. If parents are soft-hearted, society will not be soft-hearted. If I don't educate myself, society will educate me sooner or later. And the means will not be gentle.

Although there are laws to protect minors, children still have to pay for their own troubles. Some life-related bills are really unaffordable.

In fact, there is a rule in the education of ancient people's sticks, that is, to abide by their own rules.

If you do something wrong, you will be punished. This is the most important condition. This is simply a watershed to distinguish whether your child is sensible or obedient.

What do you mean? In other words, since ancient times, parents often have bears, but Xiong Haizi has not. Children listen to their parents, but parents bear a bear's nest!

We don't want an obedient child, but we must be a sensible child. Therefore, from two aspects, appropriate punishment education is needed, but you should think twice about corporal punishment with a stick.