My husband's ideas are very traditional. How can I instill modern consciousness in him?

You should be yourself first. You can use modern knowledge to make yourself better and then influence your husband. This is the best way. If you instill modern consciousness in your husband, he may not like it, no one likes being lectured, he may not realize that he is very traditional, but he thinks you are a good teacher, which will be counterproductive. The reason for this is the following：

First, if people want to change, they can only change themselves, and others can't force them.

If you think your husband's thought is very traditional, you will always think that if he doesn't have this consciousness, even if you whisper in his ear every day that you want to accept modern consciousness, he will not only refuse to accept it, but will think that you don't like him and hate it when you see him. Failure to brainwash will affect the relationship between husband and wife, which is not worth the loss.

Second, improve your ability and let him see that you are doing well. If your husband sees that you are getting along so well, he will accept your idea.

If you want others to change, you must first become awesome, and then influence others. You are awesome, your husband naturally thinks you are awesome and will listen to your opinion. Everyone is eager to be strong. No one will listen to the opinions of people who are weaker than themselves or similar to themselves, only those who are stronger than themselves.

Third, help her husband solve the problem in time when encountering problems.

Men are sometimes weak. If women see farther and have more foresight than men at this time, then men trust you very much in their hearts. Your husband's thinking is very traditional, and he is definitely not as good as you in solving many things. We should arm our minds with modern knowledge and make our husbands aware of the troubles caused by their backwardness.

Therefore, if you want to change your husband's mind, you have to make yourself awesome and make him think that you are awesome, so that he will listen to your advice and respect your opinions in the future. Who doesn't want to listen to the advice of people who are better than themselves? Maybe we can take a lot less detours.