Talking about AA in marriageOriginal

Noon, and a few girlfriends together in a small gathering. During the meeting, girlfriends red told us about a period of time ago, and her husband because of the money in the fight, the fight to the end, who did not persuade anyone, and finally her lover, Guoqing proposed to implement the AA system in the future economy.

Originally, the red lover Guoqing is a very filial parents, which is originally a virtue. Only, he sometimes filial behavior is difficult to let red understand.

The National Assembly's parents are retired people, the economy is not a burden. Red and National Day on New Year's Day must be to buy gifts for the elderly or give the elderly cash, to show son in law filial piety.

These red has never been supportive, so red can not accept is, as long as the mother-in-law side of a little thing, even if the old man has a headache, Guoqing also want to use money to express their feelings.

The red is that the two old man's retired salary together with more than six thousand dollars, their own and Guoqing two individuals a month's salary, but also about seven thousand dollars, the daughter is still in college, the economy is not more than the old man generous.

The practice of national defense again and again, so that the red more and more dissatisfied, so that day the two argued because of this, each said each reason.

In the end, Guoqing actually angry proposed: the future economic AA system, you spend your own, I spend my. The two of us will share the cost of living and the children's expenses, and we don't have to be angry about money anymore!

Listening to the red finished, a few sisters have a word for each other.

AA marriage is a popular marriage model among young people nowadays. The AA system is really a subversion of the thousands of years of Chinese women's "marrying a man, wearing clothes and eating", which can be said to be a manifestation of women's self-reliance.

Modern women are independent, autonomous, and generally have a relatively stable financial income. Some women think: "I'm not worse than you, I earn my own money to spend, I do not take advantage of you, I do not need to rely on you, I live with you and you live the life of the justified! Thus the choice to practice AA in marriage.

Home life, life can not be separated from the money, but also less trivial.

Some couples feel that there is no money constraints on love, will be more simple, beautiful, so AA; some couples are because of the money repeated disputes, what to your family more, to my family less, in order to solve the contradiction so AA (my girlfriend red belongs to this kind).

Perhaps there are other reasons why some couples choose AA for their marital relationship.

In life, there is also this kind of man, feel that he earns more than his wife, they pay more than his wife for home. So in the home is a meal to mouth, clothes to hand, simply ignore the same work of the wife, in the home of the hard work.

And the wife, in order to show their own ambition, come on, AA, I do not have to look up your nose! Money since AA, you and I divided so clearly, then from now on, the housework is also divided into one, three, five, two, four, six it, why do I serve you!

Invisibly, the love and affection between husband and wife faded, and after a long time, it is gone.

I don't personally agree with the AA system for couples.

Yuan - pipeline rising "I Nong word" is this to say that couples: you Nong I Nong, the death of more love, love more, hot as fire. I'm going to put a piece of mud, twist a you, mold a me. Break the two of us together and harmonize them with water. Twist another you, mold another me. I will have you in my clay, and you will have me in your clay. We will live in the same bed and die in the same coffin.

Husband and wife are one in you, one in me. Husband and wife are people who have agreed to **** through life from the day they contracted marriage. The two people of the *** with the life of the two people, is to put the two people's true heart together, *** with the family together to work hard, to pay.

So, you can be hand in hand **** through life.

I think that marriage must have love, love, trust, love and love, support each other, husband and wife, this is the most beautiful model of a happy marriage.

I personally believe that AA can be used in the gathering of friends and colleagues. The reason is that friends' gatherings or colleagues' weekend dinners are for the purpose of emotional exchanges and communication.

And between friends, colleagues, in the money or not too much entanglement is good, if there is no special reason, there is no need to be who treat.

On the current prices, a few people have to eat a meal of thousands of people, this time people do the east, you will not be mindful of, find an opportunity to you back to please it?

And usually get together a meeting, a meal, we AA system to eat a meal together, happy, each person to share a 78 ten is not a matter of fact, but also to avoid the trouble of eating a circle meal and suffering. The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal of time and money.

AA system in the marriage life, is also a relatively troublesome thing. Life can not be separated from the wood, rice, oil, salt, soy, vinegar and tea. The day to day eating and drinking, the expenditure is not your A and I A counting clear. I'm not sure if you have to pay a dollar for a bag of salt, but I'm not sure if you have to pay a dollar for a bag of salt.

The purchase of small and large items at home can be AA, that intangible? The woman has to clean the house every day, so does the man have to pay a little fee?

The woman cooks and washes, so does the man have to pay for it?

The woman has to take care of the children more than the man, so does the man have to pay a little bit of money?

If you don't, then what is AA?

If not, then what kind of AA is it?

I also want to say, why do you men do not pay, to enjoy the woman's hard labor. The woman's hard labor at home is not considered valuable?

So, if anyone's man proposes AA, I don't see the need for women to feel sorry for him, let him cook his own food, let him wash his own clothes.

I also want to say, well, since the economic AA system, you earn money is your own, exhausted with me also have nothing to do with it!

But thinking about it, I was a bit saddened and wanted to shed a tear! The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.

The economic distinction is clear, what is the difference between this and the outsiders? It may seem as if the two people are on cloud nine, no more gaps due to money, think deeper, really will not affect the feelings?

If it were me, it would have an impact on the relationship. First of all, I would think that since the economy is deliberately separate, then the relationship is also a little clearer. So no matter how hard you work, I don't have to feel sorry for you.

So, there is no such thing as a married couple. Secondly, the money is divided so clear, let a person's heart inevitably some cold. How to feel each other some raw. If two people have conflicts, the marriage will become more fragile.

Two people are together in order to live more happy, live better, if two people together than a person's life is still hard, not to lose the meaning of marriage.

In my opinion, the AA system is not the best way to solve the conflict in the marriage due to the economy, the AA system is to separate the money and also separate the love, which is the same as quenching the thirst of the turtles.

Marriage can't afford to count, AA is, your, my without exception to count a clear, long marriage into a thick ledger, the feelings out of you and me, marriage will naturally be in crisis.

Living under the same roof, but living a "two family" life,

I think such a marriage, ultimately, will become helpless, indifference, and finally two people like a stranger.

I think that a person who counts the money clearly is the person who does not love you. The man who loves you, even if he only has ten dollars in his pocket, he is willing to spend eight dollars for you.

A man who loves you, is not going to count who earns more who earns less, a man who loves you, will earn money proudly handed over to his daughter-in-law, and then the heart is also beautiful flowers.

Nowadays, most lesbians have a job that can support them, and have the ability to afford a family with their husbands ****.

The division of labor is different, there are differences in income, male comrades earn more than women's wages is normal, some men take this as capital, think that women's labor in the home should be paid, this is not the right way to think.

In other words, have you ever thought that if you earn less than your daughter-in-law, your daughter-in-law will find what you do, she can support herself! The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and you'll be able to do that.

If this was in the past, men, earning money to support the family is a natural right! Now, women and men work together to support their families. So, men should feel that this is a beautiful thing ah! If you are still with the daughter-in-law to earn more earn less, appropriate?

So it is very important to understand and respect each other in marriage to have a good marriage relationship. Using AA to solve problems in marriage, in my opinion, really may not be a good idea.

The purpose of AA in marriage is to reduce the conflicts between the two parties. after AA, each of the two people have their own savings, the man gets freedom and the woman gets equality.

But I think if a family of three goes out shopping, and the kid wants a hamburger, the two of them still have to turn over the ledger to see if it's dad's turn to pay the bill or mom's turn to pay!

Did you feel any heartache at that moment? I felt a sense of sadness.

I read in a magazine about AA, and a leading expert did a survey: the divorce rate of AA marriages is much higher than that of traditional marriages.

I think that in a really good marriage, love and money are indispensable. In a marriage, money is not a small thing, but couples love each other, respect, trust is more important.

In marriage, how to manage money is an important thing. Because it is often because of the money that all the problems in the marriage relationship are manifested.

Therefore, the best way for couples to reach a **** understanding on issues regarding family finances. Financial disclosure, *** with the development of a family financial plan, one of the two people responsible for the specific management.

Living life, are single-minded, no one is not to run to the end of the day; there is no one does not want to couple *** with the concerted efforts to build a happier and better home.

Therefore, couples are united, the benefits are broken gold is every couple should understand the truth.

Families that adopt the AA system, this family economic model is also a way they choose to get along. This is because both parties recognize that this way of life is simpler and more comfortable for both of them.

This approach varies from person to person, and as long as there is a **** understanding, there is nothing wrong with it. If there is any party's disapproval, it will make the relationship produce gaps, and even rupture.

No family is exactly the same. Personally, I still insist that: since you choose to *** live together, you are choosing to be together. The first thing you need to do is to stay together. As the Bible says : "Leave father and mother and be joined to your wife, and the two shall become one flesh."

I think it's not just about physical oneness, it's about financial, spiritual, and mental oneness. If two people are in AA financially, they are bound to be separated emotionally, and even if they are not, I think most of them will be separated from each other. I'm not sure if this is the case, but I'm sure it's a good idea.

Marriage, that is, the dish rice oil salt days over the hot air, so that each of the ordinary days are alive and well. The whole life, to the trivial life tossed poetic, you love me thick! From youth to white head, even if the face is full of angry chrysanthemums, eyes are full of strong love.

Married life will not always be windy and beautiful, birds and flowers, occasional disagreements do not ignore each other. As long as the two people have love in their hearts, there is no problem that can make your heart crack.

With the right attitude and method to solve the problems encountered in the marriage, the method of drinking water to quench thirst or forget it.

So, in today's lunchtime discussion, my advice to Hong is that AA is not a good solution to her and Guoqing's family conflicts.

If you meet a husband who proposes AA to you, I suggest you, first of all, do not need to talk to him, drag him over and beat him up first.

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