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Why do most people like boys?

Let me talk about my own ideas first. After knowing that I was pregnant, my husband and I chatted about whether the baby in my belly was a boy or a girl. First of all, we all think that both men and women are their own children and will love and like them equally, but personally, my husband wants to be a daughter and I want to be a son.

Why do I want to have a son? Carry on the family line? Prefer boys to girls? I never thought about it. All I think about is how hard a woman works before marriage, how stupid and hurt she will be when she is in love, how risky it is to be pregnant and have children, and how difficult it is for her in-laws, husbands and children after marriage. I wanted a son after considering these factors. Now that I think about it, it may be because I have felt a lot of sad things over the years, so I don't want to face these problems if I have a daughter.

As for other people who want to have a son, the reasons may be different: for example, some people just want to have a son according to the traditional concept.

Pass on the family line; Some people want another one, because they already have daughters, and sons can make up a good word; but

Some may feel that having a son is safer than having a daughter and will not worry too much about personal safety; Maybe there is such a thing.

I don't want a daughter either, because I'm afraid of watching my daughter get hurt and suffer in the future, and I don't want my daughter to go through what she went through.

Some bad things, (of course, rational thinking about these bad things can also be avoided as far as possible, but my own thinking did not turn around at that time).

When the child is not born, I may have the idea of being a son or a daughter in my heart, but after the child is born, most people will still be very happy and like the child very much, whether it is what I think in my heart or not. Even if some people don't like it so much at first, they will like it more and more when they watch their children grow up, because that's how my father looked at me when I was a child. Although he was disappointed that I was not a son at first, he became more and more kind to me during his growth.