What do you think is the traditional education in China?

Forget about the children and talk about our daily life. We quarrel with the square dance every day, fight with dogs and shit every day, and tell people who put my shoulder to watch me lose my password to stay away from the line every day ... These take up all our spare time. Even in any country in Southeast Asia that they despise, they consciously stand in line one meter away, quietly, and everyone knows how to queue, even if they are poor. (When I went to Russia, the customs saw that China people showed disgust, because Thailand and other countries were poor, but there were still some basic social ethics; We are like a flock of ducks, ostensibly swaggering, but in fact we are lambs to be slaughtered.

Many people in China go out like children without a tutor, which is particularly humiliating to the country and themselves. Our education, family education, school education and social education are chaotic, contradictory and contradictory.

We were the same when we were young. The school tells children to be honest and trustworthy, not to lie, and then teaches you to lie. Later, I found out that you just have to do what they say, whether it's a lie or not, which is distorted in itself. Therefore, the education we receive is hard to justify, and we can't chew it carefully. The more disgusting it is, we can only swallow it in one gulp, regardless of whether it has a bad appetite or not.

If you teach your son to be too upright, he will suffer. You don't want your children to go astray, so sometimes you really don't know how to educate them. You try to get him to study, buy him a school district, and pay him to make up lessons. These are all actions that tell him to pursue utility ... Why talk about ideals and feelings? All actions are contrary, and words and deeds are contradictory.

How do you explain to him how to accept the cruelty of reality and your responsibility has become a big problem. You can't be sure what an educated child is like, just like ourselves. We receive education from school, society and self-reflection. It is difficult for me to unify this contradiction on myself. The ancients said I was not confused at forty. I think I'm old enough, but I'm still confused Is it really my developmental problem? Therefore, it needs very strong thoughts and meaningful things.