What is the historical story of moving three times for children's learning environment?

This is the historical story of Meng Mu's three moves for the sake of his children's learning environment.

This story tells the story of Mencius' mother, who keeps moving in order to give her children a good growing environment. They lived next to the cemetery for the first time. Mencius learned to bow down and cry like an adult, and his mother was immediately moved. I took Mencius to live next to the market for the second time. Mencius learned how to do business with businessmen, entertaining guests for a while and bargaining with them for a while. He learned quickly and liked it! Mother moved again; When he came to school for the third time, Mencius began to be polite and liked reading. Only then did Meng Mu stop moving.

Why did Meng Mu go to so much trouble to move? I just want my children to study in a good environment, because the environment is too important for their growth. If the people around the child are polite, love learning and have a warm atmosphere, the child has a good chance to continue these good habits, but if the child is surrounded by gangsters who always like to solve problems with violence, fear and anxiety will be deeply imprinted in his childhood. Do you think he can grow up well? There is a chance, but the probability is low.

Although the environment in which children grow up is very important, I think what children need most is the company of their parents. If you can't accompany him to grow up in time, even if you let him go to a prestigious school and know more excellent people, the effect will often get twice the result with half the effort, because parents are the first teachers of their children, and their behavior is particularly important to their children.

To sum up, in fact, I have said so much. I hope parents can not only give their children a rich living environment, but also understand the needs of their inner world. The surrounding environment is very important, but having a pair of parents who love themselves is more important. We all say how much we have suffered before, and we hope that the next generation will stop eating and wish to give everything. Sometimes parents need to reflect. Is this really what children want? Have we ever listened to our children? Do we really know them?