It is said that the daughter is a "little cotton-padded jacket". Why do parents give all the benefits to their sons?

The traditional concept of China people is to raise children to guard against old age, so they will naturally give their property to their sons, because when they are old, they can count on their sons, not their daughters.

This is a culture that has been passed down in China for thousands of years. The patriarchal ideology and the eldest son inheritance system laid the cultural foundation of China. Although it is said that with the changes of the times, it has gradually become equal, and most young people can put women and sons in the same position, it has a history. At least people in their twenties and thirties may have experienced the era of son preference, and individual families will be very serious.

The past era has passed. In that era of underdeveloped material culture, the culture was naturally different from that of today, because the economic foundation determined the superstructure, so we would not make too many judgments on the past. Now, we propose that our daughter is the intimate little cotton-padded jacket of our parents, because with the reform and opening up, people's minds are gradually enlightened, and they feel that their daughters are more caring and know how to take care of their parents' feelings and buy gifts on holidays. However, my son is still deeply rooted in my mind, and it is not so easy to change. In many rural areas, when parents are old, the money for getting sick and seeing a doctor is more from their sons, because this is a matter of learning for everyone. If I have a son, I naturally want him to see his parents. So it's not surprising that I gave all my assets to my son. Of course, this concept is open now. In families without sons, daughters will also treat their parents and provide for their parents.

We don't want history to repeat itself, and we don't want to go back to the patriarchal era, so we should start from ourselves. When we grow up, get married and have children, we should treat our children as equally as possible. What's the good news? We should think like them, and of course we should explain to them what difficulties we have in the future. You two should face the same problem. You can't totally blame him just because you have a brother or younger brother.