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Seek the experience of Master Xing Yun's book Kindness, with more than 500 words to answer.

Reflections on "Kindness"

I remember the story about kindness told by my teacher when I was a child: there was a little beggar walking slowly in the snow. By this time, he was cold and hungry. He asked the people who lived here for food, but when others saw him, they not only did not sympathize with him, but also punched and kicked him. At this moment, he can't tell how sad he is. Just then, an old man appeared. The old man picked up the little beggar, took him home, cooked him some noodles and filled his stomach. After the little beggar was full, he left without even saying "thank you" ...

In fact, the little beggar's name is White Wolf. On this day, the white wolf returned to this place full of resentment, ready to destroy all the people who had no love for him at that time. When the old man learned of this, he came to the White Wolf and advised him not to kill the people here. But the white wolf said, "At that time, my state was so sad that no one sympathized with me but punched and kicked me without love. I must kill them today. " Don't worry, old man, you are my savior, I won't kill you! "

As a last resort, the old man stood on the edge of the cliff and said to everyone, "Please be kind and give us some love at ordinary times. What's so difficult? " But you don't believe it. Now everyone is going to be killed. Great! Ah ... "Hearing this, everyone bowed their heads in shame. Later, everyone didn't die, and the white wolf gradually left ... The old man was right, kind, and everyone had to pay a little kindness. What's so hard about it? Only in this way can our life be more harmonious and society more peaceful!

Be kind, especially in the workplace. Being backward, forgiving others' mistakes, being brave in taking responsibility, not complaining and being bad to others are all called kindness, which is the first virtue in life and workplace. There are many intriguing quips in Xiaogang Feng's film Mobile Phone, among which Zhang Guoli, the actor of Murphy, said "Be kind to life" in Sichuan dialect. No matter what the meaning of this sentence in the film is, as far as being a person is concerned, I think kindness is very important!

Kindness has innate factors, as well as life experience and environment. Some people, in interpersonal communication, encounter some provocative, vicious and negative language, even if they are extremely unhappy, they can't say harsh language. Not that these people are born stupid, but they are born kind. Some people, who are used to embarrassing others in public, spit out those vulgar things and don't care what a rascal they are, as if they don't know how capable they are; Some obscure words will give you a "humiliating" talk and laughter. An innocent expression will break your heart, but it will also make you smile because the other person is "innocent".

People's language reflects people's thoughts, but also reflects whether a person, he or she, is kind. Everyone who thinks he is smart thinks that the other person who was hit is stupid, but who is really confused now? Wang Xifeng, the housekeeper of the Red Chamber, is clever and clever. What will happen in the end?

When I was a child, I heard an old man say a fable about the echo of an empty valley, which is still fresh in my memory: a man shouted at the empty valley: you-bad guy! Soon a voice came: "You scoundrel ... He was very unhappy when he heard it. One day, he met an old man and told him about the trouble. The old man asked him to try calling "hello" again, and he ran to the empty valley and shouted: hello! Empty valley answered him a lot: you-good. ...

The spirituality of nature tells us that there is always a reward for giving, and God is fair. Pay a lot of sincerity, and you will gain sincerity; But if it is vicious, I believe that friendship will never be harvested.

Look carefully, in this world, good people finally gain a lot: friendship, sincerity, respect, and so on. In fact, being kind to others is being kind to yourself. Try it if you don't believe me! Kindness is the virtue and fine tradition of the Chinese nation, and it is also one of the conditions for creating a harmonious society. But I think that while praising and advocating kindness, we should also remind people to strengthen their awareness of self-protection. Society is complex, and sometimes the kinder people are, the easier they are to be deceived. We can't let goodness be used by bad elements.

I really appreciate the sentence "the boss should be kind and the employees should be authentic", which contains philosophy. However, I think we should also broaden our horizons from the level of bosses and employees. For example, our government should be more merciful when formulating guidelines for raising wages for employees in factories and mines while raising wages for its own public servants: the wage gap between employees in enterprises and government civil servants and institutions should not be too big, and the gap between enterprise executives and ordinary employees should not be too big. Similarly, doctors and patients are a pair of contradictions. For patients, the hospital should be kind, do not prescribe large prescriptions, do not sell counterfeit drugs, and think of patients everywhere. Another example is education. Schools should be kind to the educated. Not only can we not collect fees indiscriminately, but we should also lower the charging standard. Also, real estate developers should be kind to buyers in terms of quality and price, and urban management should be kind to vendors in the process of law enforcement, not rude and so on.

Although everyone should be kind, I think in today's society, the relatively strong class should show kindness to the disadvantaged groups, so that the society can be more harmonious.