How do star parents educate their children correctly?

We have seen in many reality shows that the educational concept of the stars is very obvious, and they are just ordinary people. They also have to face naughty and stubborn children and worry about their growth and education. Although audience friends can't give their children enough material support like stars, they can learn more educationally valuable things from reality shows. Uh-huh in "Where's Dad Going? Season 5" is a child with his own ideas. He doesn't want to play games according to the "rules" many times in the program, and Du Jiang will fully respect his opinions and won't force him for the "program effect". This is also the most controversial father and son in season 5. Du Jiang once said in an interview: Some "too sensible" children lose their arrogance and willfulness if they look at the faces of adults carefully. I don't want my children to become like this. In the program, young uh-huh always understands the rules of the game before older children. It shows that his independent thinking ability is also very strong. And the words of Jordan chan's son Jasper: "Can you stop being angry now?" At that time, the internet was hot. This story warmed many audiences and praised Jasper's emotional intelligence. In the face of adults' emotional out of control, they can make rational and appropriate responses. Jordan chan once broke the news in an interview. "At home, Cherrie Ying is a tiger mother and is very strict with herself and her son." Once, the media took a photo of Cherrie Ying disciplining his son in the street. Jasper coquetry on the roadside, Cherrie Ying directly "hug" his son to the car. Cherrie Ying responded, "Because I don't want others to beat my son, I want to teach him well before others beat him." It is in this way of communicating with his son as an adult that Jasper realized that the world is not transferred by personal will, and we must always learn to live in peace with the world in a mature and rational way. Jasper is the best example. Every time Jordan chan is furious, he can communicate with Jordan chan calmly and rationally. Mai? She is recognized as the "principal's mother". Since the birth of her first baby, Liu Mengjie, she has carefully studied the parenting materials obtained from various channels and sincerely shared her experiences with netizens on Weibo. Mai? My heart has hardened. My daughter loves horses and cries on the first day of kindergarten, but she never walks away. The children in the same class ran home in an hour or two, Mike? Insist on leaving the children in kindergarten for a whole day. In this regard, she explained, "In this way, the child will understand the mother's bottom line, and it is useless to cry. If you run back and give her a hug, those tears will be in vain. " Emma fell while picking up her daughter from school, aunt Ma? I will stand still and watch my daughter get up by herself. She said, "I know how important independence is to a girl. Independence will make a girl stronger inside. " So we saw that Emma was able to take two adults to the airport in a strange country when she was seven years old. We see more Mai? Between the lines, I sincerely praise and pride my daughter.

Only by fully respecting children's wishes can children form enough self-awareness and self-cognition. Children who grew up in this environment, not only uh-huh, but also Faye Wong's child Leah Dou. Almost every time Leah Dou appears in public, it will cause a topic. Leah Dou, who dropped out of school, tattooed and played music, looked unruly and a bit "bad". She doesn't look like a good girl in the traditional sense, so that some people think she is a rebellious girl without parental discipline. However, when Leah Dou officially debuted and stepped into the music circle, everyone was surprised to find that she was actually a mature adult with a perfect world outlook. The most amazing thing is that she released her first personal original English single at the age of 65,438+05, and her musical talent is commendable.

Faye Wong's song "Children" summarizes Leah Dou's education: if you don't learn well, you can be naughty. Faye Wong regarded Leah Dou as a friend, didn't want to hide anything from her, and even told her daughter her emotional state truthfully. She gave Leah Dou the right to respect and choose, but interfered with her daughter's behavior. Leah Dou has no objection to tattoos, dropping out of school and dyeing hair. Just tell the child that you don't regret it. Faye Wong once said, "My desire to protect children and my worries only exist in their infancy. After this stage, I will treat them as independent individuals to get along and communicate. " In fact, Du Jiang respects children's nature, Jordan chan communicates with children on an equal footing, and Ma Yili dares to let go of her daughter, all of which coincide with Faye Wong's educational philosophy. They don't regard children as the private property of their parents, but recognize and respect their independence as individuals, let them let go, let them know themselves, let them know the society and let them get in touch with the world. This kind of education makes them have extraordinary talent and independent thinking ability from an early age. Giving children good materials is the foundation, and it is fundamental for stars to treat children with good educational methods.