How to tell children fairy tales to avoid negative effects?

While providing their children with a beautiful childhood, parents should also gradually let their children realize the cruel side of society, accept different educational views and input different values at the right age, so that their children can develop and grow better.

But children are children after all. In any case, their childhood should be beautiful. Therefore, as parents, we should try our best to provide our children with a beautiful life like childhood. However, whether it is to show children childhood stories or to create a better life, we must also have a clear purpose, choose some suitable childhood for children, and create a better life that is basically in line with reality. It is necessary to give children some positive energy nutrition.

For example, let children learn to abandon inferiority complex and learn self-confidence and self-acceptance in Ugly Duckling; Let children learn to be independent in Little Red Riding Hood, and one must have a certain sense of self-protection; Learn to distinguish right from wrong, learn to be kind and so on in Snow White. It is beneficial and harmless to the growth of children.

After all, real life is not a fairy tale, and it is impossible for us to raise children in a "vacuum". There are many negatives in real life, and children will be exposed to them sooner or later. Children will grow up one day, in order to avoid one day, children suddenly cry and say: fairy tales are lies.

It is also necessary to make two-way preparations to let children live in a "fairy tale world". At the same time, it is also important to guide children correctly and establish correct concepts. Only in this way will it be difficult for children to adapt to and accept the real society when they grow up.