Guangxi Yulin Luchuan marriage customs and habits?

Man married woman married in Yulin folk called "red matter", in the old days, Yulin many places before the marriage of the custom of weeping marriage, to be married woman once tomorrow to determine the day "through the door", will be in the marriage of a month before the beginning of the weeping marriage to show that the emotions of the mother's family. Many people want to form a family, will first through the counting network - marriage eight characters matching to see if you can combine, which is based on both men and women's eight characters fortune-telling to see the favorite to determine, only the husband and wife's eight characters of the five elements of the harmony, in order to make the marriage full and happy. This is the old days, the status of women is low, the marriage to the parents' orders, the words of the matchmaker