What are the customs in Yanzhou during the Spring Festival? Please, thank you.

Yanzhou is located in the hometown of Confucius and Mencius, the hometown and the seat of Shandong. Since ancient times, people living in Yanzhou have been simple, upright and dignified, paying attention to etiquette and being frank with others. These fine qualities deserve to be carried forward by future generations. Yanzhou's hospitality custom is deeply influenced by Confucian culture and has formed its own "rules" in a subtle way. Here are a few examples, and you will see one thing. The first is "please sit down" and "toast" Guests come to the door, entertain warmly, prepare wine and hold a banquet, and the customs are similar. Yanzhou's "seat" is in the countryside, with the east side of the square table as the top and the west side as the bottom; In a city hotel (restaurant), the left side facing the door is the top, the right side is the bottom, and the middle is the guest seat, so that wine can be served. Every toast should be made in pairs. For the sake of "two good things", today's words are called "win-win". As the saying goes, "in the hometown of Confucius and Mencius, drinking in pairs" is exactly what it means. The host and his entourage began to propose a toast to the guests with six glasses of wine, symbolizing good luck on June 6. Then, others toasted the guests and exchanged their feelings one by one. The wine is half full, the words are speculative, the feelings are loud, and the same drink is dry; At the end of the banquet, * * * took a group photo "Family photo" arm in arm, had a full meal, and broke up happily. One thing is particularly important here. No matter how late the party is, the host must constantly persuade the guests to drink and eat, otherwise it is "impolite". Second, "Your husband first" and "Daughter aside". The new son-in-law is honored to meet your mother-in-law for the first time after marriage in Yanzhou. No matter the father-in-law, mother-in-law, brother-in-law, brother-in-law, the new son-in-law must give up his seat and then take the first seat himself. Daughter (bride) is usually not at the dinner table, but helping in the kitchen. This is by no means to belittle women, because the way of "respecting husbands" here, coupled with the fact that women are generally not good at drinking, only makes the old men "dizzy" leisurely. Of course, after the first "preferential treatment", the new son-in-law will go to the mother-in-law's house. Don't just sit there. Let Yue's father or uncle sit down first. Otherwise, it is "250" and "half-baked". As mentioned above, the rule of drinking is this: "Your husband" must first say "Drink well, let's eat", and then the wine will not be poured, otherwise the father-in-law's family will always "respect". Because I have been a soldier abroad for many years, I went home to visit my mother-in-law for the first time and made a joke. I also think that if the elders don't talk about not drinking, we will keep drinking respectfully, and as a result, our uncles and brothers will be "drunk". It would be a pity if my mother-in-law didn't secretly remind us to "dump" a few. It can be seen that this "toast" rule has advantages and disadvantages. Third, "women drink heavily and men don't mix." The comedian Chaplin told a joke that there were five flies in the room. When asked if he could tell the difference between male and female, Chaplin replied "Yes" and pointed out that two flies landed on the mirror and the other three landed on the glass because women love dressing up and men love drinking. In fact, drinking is not a "patent" for men. In Yanzhou, there is a special banquet for women-"Eat Happy Noodles". That is to say, on the ninth or eleventh day after a woman gives birth, her parents-aunt and sister-in-law will hold a special banquet when they visit her daughter who is confined to the delivery period. Although there is a custom of eating happy noodles everywhere, it is very particular in Yanzhou. Basically, women are present at the scene, and men can't "snuggle". Of course, it doesn't hurt to have a few boys with runny noses, but adult men should never "get involved", otherwise, people will laugh their heads off. There are many hospitality customs in Yanzhou, aiming at treating guests or relatives and friends sincerely, respectfully, thoughtfully and enthusiastically. With the development of the times and the progress of society, some stereotypes and bad habits have been gradually abandoned, but the good traditions and good morality of Yanzhou people have been continuously followed and passed down. Yanzhou people's traditional virtues of "faithfulness, honesty, goodness and harmony" are constantly being carried forward. Yanzhou city language example Yanzhou city is less than five miles east and west, and only seven miles east to Jinkouba. This distance is pronounced differently. Uncle: Shu (Yin Ping) is the uncle studying in Jinkouba area, and Shu (the first sound) is the uncle studying in Chengxiguan area, with different pronunciations and appellations. The area around Jinkouba is called Diedia (the first sound), and the area around Xiguan is called Diedie (level tone). In ancient China, you called your father dad, such as "dad" in Beijing opera, with double tones; Or there is a modifier in front of "dad". Examples can be found in his novels such as Yuan Qu and Ming and Qing Dynasties. Many people who gossip about Yanzhou regard Yanzhou as Yizhou, and this "volume" has no culture. Yanzhou people really have no culture, and I am one of them. Thirteen years old, I went to Yanzhou with my father for the first time. Who knows that this place with many cars and many foreign cars is called Yanzhou? Father said, today, I will show you around the city. When you enter the city, it is called the city. At that time, the impression of the city was that the young monk went down the mountain: the tiger in the city was whiter than the tiger in our village, dressed cleanly, and could smell the smell of cream when he walked over. This kind of fragrance separates the psychological distance between a rural child and a city person, and also evokes a vague and uncertain consciousness of a teenager. Knowing that I was related to Yanzhou was in the fourth grade, my teacher gave me a letter to take home to my parents. From the envelope, I can see "Huajia Street, Juwanglin Village, Daogou Commune, Yanzhou County, Shandong Province", and I also know other words, that is, six brothers with upper and lower structures. I declare it rolling. As soon as the teacher heard it, he said, get out That's called salt, Yanzhou in Yanzhou. Still filming. Go home quickly! From then on, I knew that the word was mispronounced as "roll" and pronounced as "Yan". This Yanzhou is only used as a place name in the dictionary. He is from Yanzhou. Am I from Yanzhou? Not Yanzhou people-Yanzhou people, but people in Yanzhou city. Am I not from Yanzhou? I am not from Yanzhou. Where am I from? Are you from Yanzhou? You are a countryman from Yanzhou. That's what the hukou bastard said about me. What is Yanzhou? Yanzhou is also a city in my mind. The city is called Yanzhou. The city people painted with delicious white paste are Yanzhou people, and they are indeed Yanzhou rural people. The favorite stories told by Yanzhou people are Chairman Mao and Deng Xiaoping. Chairman Mao said, well, Yanzhou, Yanzhou has Sui Tower. The tower in Yanzhou is called xinglong tower, and Chairman Mao is right. The tower is a building in the Sui Dynasty. After thousands of years of wind and rain and decades of artillery fire, xinglong tower is still intact and tall. At that time, there were no tall buildings in Yanzhou, and the air in Yanzhou was not polluted. Standing at the top of the tower, looking north, Mount Tai is like a dragon, dancing straight in the East China Sea; Looking at the top of a mountain in the south, surrounded by white clouds, the weather is myriad; Looking west at the canal, it is like a white ribbon running through the north and south. Looking closely at the tower, the Sihe River runs from east to west. It goes around the tower from east to south and goes straight to Weishan Lake in the southwest. There are thousands of waves and scales, poplars on both sides of the strait are tall and straight, green willows are one, and egrets are waterfowl. This is really a beautiful place on earth! The old people in Yanzhou say that the land around Yanzhou is the thickest in the world. For thousands of years, there have been droughts and floods, and there is no harvest anywhere else, but Yanzhou can always harvest in one season. Wheat flooded a little corn, corn flooded buckwheat, and buckwheat died a little mung bean, which certainly won't make people lose a year.