Common sense and exquisite manners of shaking hands

The common sense and etiquette of shaking hands are as follows:

Handshaking, especially the social etiquette used by China people, shows friendship, communication and respect, indicating that communication between them is barrier-free.

First, before you shake hands, you usually say hello or nod, then shake hands and greet each other. Of course, if the relationship is good, you can hold it for a long time.

Secondly, when shaking hands, look at each other and say hello with a smile to show sincerity.

Thirdly, if the other party has extended his hand, as long as it is in good faith, please don't refuse, so as not to cause embarrassment and embarrassment in the other party's heart.

Grasping one or several points in the handshake world, we can tell our own experiences, comment on reality, make associations, express our feelings, start from the virtual, and pour out our feelings. The expression can be determined according to the needs of writing.

"Handshake" can be real or virtual.

In fact, the object of "handshake" must be specific things or people around you, such as "father", "deskmate" and "friend" to express touching affection, friendship and even beautiful and pure love.

When using virtual fingers, the object of "shaking hands" should be something abstract, or something or someone beyond the time and space limit. For example, if you write from nothingness, you want to shake hands with a historical celebrity, the protagonist of a literary masterpiece, or a mythical person or even an alien; You can also want to hold hands like "frugality", "honesty" or "youth".

Handshake first appeared in the era of "slash and burn" of mankind. At that time, during hunting and war, people often held weapons such as stones or sticks. When you meet a stranger, if everyone is harmless, you should put down what you are holding and open your palm to let the other person touch your palm, indicating that there is no hidden weapons in your hand. This habit gradually evolved into today's "handshake" etiquette.

Order of handshake etiquette:

1, the venerable one reaches out first.

2, shake hands with the elders, need to wait for the elders to reach out.

3. Shake hands with the leader and wait for the leader to reach out first.

When a man shakes hands with a lady, he must wait for the lady to reach out first.

5, between friends, when the subject and the object are divided, the guest reaches out first.

6, shaking hands requires strength, not just gently holding the fingertips. When shaking hands in business situations, women should be as strong as men.

7. Don't cross your hands.

8. Shaking hands is limited to close relatives or old friends whom I haven't seen for a long time.