The phenomenon of giving up one's seat and civilization

China is an ancient civilization, a state of etiquette, filial piety, fraternal loyalty, etiquette, righteousness, honesty and shame and other traditional culture has a long history, brilliant and glorious, affecting generations of Chinese people. Here is my compilation of the phenomenon of giving up their seats and civilization, welcome to read!

The phenomenon of giving up their seats and civilization 1

Bus encounter pregnant women, many passengers will take the initiative to give up their seats, but there are also look away, the morning of January 27, in the South Bank Star Garden bus station, when a stomach slightly rumbled a young woman walked on the 115 road bus, the driver and the passengers thought that she was a pregnant woman, a guy kindly give up their seats, and was scolded "blind eyes! "said he just gained weight, said the driver and passengers to discriminate against her.

In recent years, with the creation of civilization around the work of continuous refinement and in-depth, respect for morality and good morals and other civilization has been y rooted in people's hearts, a batch of Chinese good people continue to emerge, supporting the moral backbone of the Chinese nation. Although in our lives, some uncivilized phenomena do exist, but we can not help but admit that the overall civilization of the citizens of the past has been a significant improvement in the overall civilization, to help people care about him has become a trend.

I often take public **** transportation to go out to work, but also often see young people to the elderly, sick and disabled or children pregnant women to give up their seats. And let the seat after, whether the other party accept, generally will sincerely say thank you, it is this polite response to let the traditional virtues and modern civilization intermingled, which makes not big car full of melting warmth. However, as the report mentioned this young man, because the seat was scolded thing is indeed the first time I heard.

To be honest, it is a virtue to give up your seat to a pregnant woman on a bus. But under normal circumstances, let the seat is a spontaneous initiative behavior, decided to give pregnant women before the general first to make basic judgments, and judge a woman is not pregnant, only according to the other side of the body to visual inspection, who can not rashly go to ask each other is not pregnant and then decide whether to let the seat. And Oriental people are relatively more introverted and subtle, even if they really ` is a pregnant woman, if it is not a necessity, generally embarrassed to say it in public. Therefore, to give pregnant women will inevitably have to look away.

The body type of the fat lady as a pregnant woman to take the initiative to let the seat, for the good intentions of the young man did look away, but there is no subjective intent, the eyes, after all, is not ultrasound, can not be identified in the abdomen whether there is a fetus, and the old stared at a lady to measure is not very polite. So from this point of view, on this "not precise enough" of virtue, we should still give praise. On the contrary, the young lady should reflect on the body fat and some inferiority complex we can understand, but to a kindly to their own seat in return to "blind", is not rational and loss of decency?

In recent years, about the public **** transportation because of the seat of the storm caused by a lot of news. Far from it, recently there are media reports that the morning of January 24, Changchun citizen Ms. Yang took the 154 bus to the Middle East market, because at the time of discomfort, Ms. Yang sat on the seat to rest her eyes, did not notice an old man on the car, the result is not let the seat, the old man was beaten, which does make people feel incredible. So many people began to have a discussion, do not let the seat will be beaten, let the seat and scolded, this in the end is to let or not to let?

Undeniably, the initiative to let the seat is a virtue, reflecting the quality of a citizen, which is also a harmonious society needs to be good. Therefore, in this highly civilized modern society, we should advocate giving up your seat, but at the same time more should be rationally treated to give up your seat. Saying thank you to the person who gave up his seat is the most basic etiquette, even if you refuse, you should also give a kind smile, which is the bottom line of the requirements of human beings. The seat itself is a kind of self-conscious and voluntary, do not ask for return dedication, but we can not ignore the good intentions of others, at least should also give the seat to the most basic respect for the personality, can not make the seat to become embarrassing virtues.

The phenomenon of giving way to civilization2

"Help the elderly fell" and "bus seat" and other topics, from time to time on the network, time and again become the focus of public opinion, but also time and again to provoke the public nerve. "Help and do not help", "let and do not let", the reality and the ideal seems to be separated by 108,000 kilometers, it is always difficult to reach **** knowledge. Young people like to say that "the old people have become bad", the old people say that "young people are more and more uneducated", often a small incident will turn into a naked moral abduction, which is right or wrong?

Helping the elderly was blackmailed is always a small probability of events, like people biting the dog, because contrary to common sense and incredible to become the news. To this end, I deliberately asked the "lady", in the network of many old people fell down to be helped in the news, we see is more care and justice. Recently, Fuzhou, an old lady fell to the street, two middle school students and a police officer went up to pick up, and contacted her family to take her home, warm hearted scene warmed the whole Fuzhou; Yiwu vegetable market nearby, an old man accidentally fell and bled, the goodwill of people to call the 120 will be sent to the hospital, the goodwill won countless praises; Suining, Jiangsu, a young man of the 90, not only will the old man fell to pick up, and contact the 120 and advance 300 yuan of medication, but also to help the old man fall, and to help the old man fall. A 90-year-old boy from Suining, Jiangsu Province, not only helped the old man up after he fell, but also contacted 120 and advanced 300 yuan for medicine, which eventually won the doorstep thanks of the old man's family....... Good deeds are always far beyond the small probability of "being blackmailed". The fact that the vast majority of the old man is not bad, this society is also very warm.

And again, the "bus seat" thing. The idea of young people giving up their seats on the bus is a civilized one, and I agree with it. However, you may say, not all the old people deserve respect, do not see the old people rely on the old people, in the bus to beat people? Not long ago, a pregnant woman on the bus, because the old man did not give up his seat, but was scolded by the old man, but the whole bus people are indignant, the old man even screamed "welcome to the police". After listening to this incident, you will certainly think, how, the old man is not to be messed with! Yes, the old man is indeed a bit too much, but other passengers did not give up their seats in time, is not also aggravated by the anger of the elderly?

Let the seat is civilized, do not let the seat is necessarily not civilized? I want to tell a personal story. Yesterday from work to take the bus home, on the bus when not many people, I chose a seat in the front row to sit down, open a small book with me. The bus stops and starts, and after a few stops it was already full of people. At this time an old man squeezed on the bus, standing next to me, a long period of moral education so that I thought at the first time must get up and give up his seat. Just as I closed my book and was about to get up, the grandfather gently pressed my shoulder, signaling that I did not have to give up my seat. "I only have two stops, you don't get up, look at your dark circles under your eyes, I know that young people have a lot of work pressure." When I heard this, my heart was so hot, moncler outlet online so understanding, how can I not let the reason? So I said, "You'd better sit down. I'll get off at the next stop." I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal of money for this, but I'm sure you're going to be able to get a good deal of money for this," he said. Standing near the back door, my heart is happy, because I lied to the moncler outlet store, in fact, I still have a lot of stops away from home, just to give him the seat to lie about getting off the bus right away. But strangely enough, two or four stops had passed, and moncler outlet online still didn't get off the bus. I suddenly realized that in order to let each other sit down, both moncler outlet online and I had lied, and it was such a heartwarming lie of goodwill!

In the treatment of the elderly on this issue, we can not be a pole over a boat people, we advocate civilization to give up their seats, to encourage people to be brave to help the elderly fell down, we should do our best to treat every old man, but the old people should also be on the courtesy of others and help to respond to, even if it is a word of thanks or a smile. Even civilized society is not taken for granted, we reject blackmail, reject violence, reject all damage to social morality "small probability of events". More to my encounter with the old man to learn it, a "only two stops" of good faith lies, but carries beyond the whole civilized style.

This is the first time I've ever seen a man with a good head on his shoulders.