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Wedding session flow
Wedding process
Wedding process. Marriage with their loved ones is very happy, the wedding process has a certain process, we last night these processes are considered to do the wedding is complete. The next step is for me to bring you a detailed understanding of the relevant content of the wedding process.
wedding link process 1A, the entrance to prepare
1, before the ceremony began, the bride and groom will be accompanied by a person to keep their belongings. If you carry a cell phone and other items, not only easy to cause distraction and affect the beauty of oh.
2, the first three minutes of the ceremony, by a person (wedding supervisor or best man bridesmaids) is responsible for holding the ballroom door. The groom is entering, then if there is a late arrival of guests, guests should be asked to wait a moment. This is because opening the door will affect the focused atmosphere of the entrance.
Second, the bride to enter
1, do not play music on the entrance, should wait 15 to 30 seconds
To give guests a certain amount of time to prepare for the guests' eyes are fully focused on you, you can enter it.
2, the bride's right hand across the father (elders) left arm, the two maintain a distance of about 15cm
The pace of the newcomers to walk a little slower, the bride followed by the groom, to be about half a step slower groom.
3, look ahead, natural demeanor, do not look around
The bride should not always look at the hemline, the groom can not look around, must come up with new people should have the confidence and elegance.
4, the bridesmaids in time for the bride to organize the hemline
The bride wearing a wedding dress, especially the long tail, walking alone is very inconvenient, so the bridesmaids should help the bride to organize the hemline in time.
5, in order to prevent stepping on the wedding dress, walking with toes kicked out forward
Walking posture must be beautiful, even if accidentally stepped on the wedding dress, but also as if nothing happened to adjust. After all, today the focus of the whole scene is you ah.
6, hand-held wedding dress should not be lifted too high, do not reveal the toes
The bride dragged the skirt walking, the most beautiful action is to gently lift the skirt of the front of the middle of the dress or both hands together to lift the wedding dress on both sides, but do not lift too high to not affect the walking and do not reveal the toes is appropriate.
Third, the handover ceremony
1, the groom walked to the bride and the bride's father in front of
distance of 30 centimeters, the father of the bride's hand over to the groom, the father will say a few words of blessing or instructions, or not, and then the father withdrew. Groom kneeling flowers, the bride do not immediately pick up, but also to wait a three seconds. Bride on the bride slowly walk this runway, to remind the groom in walking, with the hand that holds you to help lift your wedding dress. (It is not recommended that the little flower girl in front of the new couple to lead the way to sprinkle petals, small children are too many uncontrollable factors)
2, the new couple walked on the stage stood, the groom should hold the bride's hand
The wedding day you can say that the strongest IP of the universe, in addition to hand in hand together, there is a better way to love?
3, the new couple standing, the groom should be on the right side of the bride
This probably originated in ancient European tradition, legend has it that the bride stood on the left side of the groom, convenient for the groom to use his right hand to draw a sword against the enemy when necessary, can better protect the bride.
4, the two people standing together, are slightly inward side, into the "eight" shape
The benefits of such a station is that it is not overly cloying and sweet.
5, never forget: head up, straight back, stomach, chest
To let the head, buttocks and heels into a straight line, so that the stand will look particularly spiritual, and perfectly show the outline of the dress. In short, it should not give the impression of slouching and lack of energy.
6, turn around the amplitude to be gentle, movement to be sharp
The bride in the wedding to reflect the noble temperament, should avoid any large movements. Need to turn around, the body should turn with the feet at the same time, the amplitude should be gentle, movement should be sharp. If the wedding dress or gown hemline is large, in the turn around with the rotating direction of the opposite hand gently grasp the skirt and skirt support slightly upward.
Fourth, the exchange of rings
1, the new couple exchanges the ring, the bridesmaids should avoid appearing in the camera
When the groom from the ring pillows after the ring, the bridesmaids should take over the bride's hand bouquet quickly to one side, the groom for the bride to wear the bride, the bridesmaids and then walk over to the bride from the ring pillows to take the ring, the bridesmaids and then the bride to wear the ring. After the groom has finished wearing it for the bride, the maid of honor then walks over to let the bride take the ring from the ring pillow. When the maid of honor comes on stage to present the ring, she should go around to the back of the bride and groom and face the audience to present the ring.
2, the wedding ring should be worn on the left hand ring finger
The action of wearing the ring must be slow, the back of the hand was 45 degrees facing the audience, one in order to let the guests present have the opportunity to appreciate the witness to the whole process, and the second can also be convenient for photography, video camera framing. This will look very elegant oh.
3, if the bride wears gloves, in the rehearsal should first try to wear the wedding ring
The purpose is to see if the wedding ring can wear in, if not, should be in the ceremony before the start of the gloves off.
4, the bride's veil is only lifted by the groom after wearing the ring
The veil is suitable for the ceremony is long, noble and mysterious, and after lifting it, it is usually a kiss. I think Chen Xiao this wave of veil tease, a lot of girls have not returned to God.
Fifth, the new kiss
Kissing link, the newcomer should be generous, do not squirm
The new kiss is announced in the ceremony after the two officially become a couple to carry out, kissing can be natural and generous deep into the expression of feelings of happiness, but to avoid excessive forgetfulness. If you will not, you can learn from the practice of Wu Qilong. It can also be an exaggerated and bold kiss.
Six, the witness link
1, the witness words and other speeches can be rolled up beforehand, tied with a red ribbon
The benefits of such a roll up, a beautiful and festive, and the second also adds a sense of ceremony. Witnesses, parents speech slowly open, is not particularly solemn.
2, witnesses speak, the new man should listen carefully
Never two people tired, on the side of whispering oh. The witnesses are generally more prestigious elders, his speech is also a great affirmation of your marriage.
Seven, thank you parents
Parents grand entrance
Thank you mom and dad hard to raise us, they deserve to be the Superstar of the wedding! Designing a grand entrance for your parents and inviting them to the stage, and giving them a big hug afterward, is not a rite of passage for the family?
Eight, the toast link
1, the newcomer standing on the stage toast should go to the middle of the stage (you can let both parents stand together on the stage to toast to the guests, the wedding supervisor will be after the glass up, the newcomer and the parents of the right hand end of the glass from the left to the right to show the toast, such as special circumstances only need to be newcomers toasting on the right) you are the main protagonist of the wedding day, the protagonist should of course be standing on the stage, the main character, the main character should be the main character, the protagonist should be the main character. First, you are the protagonist of the wedding day, the protagonist should of course stand in the center of the stage; secondly, in order to take care of the feelings of the guests.
2, the new couple to drink a cup of wine with the right hand to hold the glass. If a left-handed glass with a right-handed glass, it is not possible to carry out a ceremony such as the handover of the cup, take the glass of wine when the unity of the good, all with the right hand cup. Of course, all with the left hand can be.
3, the wedding banquet more than 40 tables, toast dressing time is best controlled within 10 minutes. This time is really in the race to grab time ah! Fear that guests will leave the table after eating.
wedding link process 2First, know and love. This is one of the necessary prerequisites for marriage, because this article focuses on the wedding preparation, so this stage slightly.
Second, engaged: this stage needs to be explained. According to the newly revised "Marriage Law", the registration of marriage can be exempted from the marriage examination and unit certificate, but for security reasons, it is recommended to do a marriage examination. The place of registration is usually registered with the marriage registration office of the district where the man lives. When you go there, you should try to wear good clothes and dress up prettily to get ready for the photo on the marriage license. At the same time, it is best to take some sugar over to the staff of the registry office to thank them (customary practices can be abolished). The procedure I remember is firstly registration, then the staff verifies whether the two people are eligible for marriage, then photos are taken, then the provisions of the marriage law are read out, and then the license is issued and they go away. In the evening the two can have a candlelight dinner with excitement, or catch the next part of the process.
Third, the construction of the love nest: This is a major part of the process that must be experienced before marriage. During this period, it is a critical period for the two to further understand. Through the collision of house decoration ideas and work of consciousness, you can fully understand the two future status and role at home, as well as the two *** with hobbies and so on. Because this aspect is mainly related to house decoration, not related to the subject of this article, so also skipped.
Fourth, the three elements of the wedding preparation: hotel, fleet, wedding preparation team.
Hotel: booking the hotel should be married half a year before the start of the booking, otherwise in the wedding season you simply can not find a suitable hotel. The key to booking a hotel is the venue (with or without columns affecting the line of sight), meals (the most ripped off hotel), service quality (mainly the degree of cooperation with the hotel, including whether or not to provide a podium, flowers, arches, champagne towers, cakes, red carpet, happy words, signing the book, etc.). At the same time to remember the phone number of the main person in charge, to maintain constant contact.
Fleet: There are mainly two ways: provided by the etiquette company and find your own. The best time is within 3 months. Ceremony company to provide the benefits of a vehicle is guaranteed, the same license plate car do not have to find their own; Second, the service is guaranteed, out of the problem can look for the ceremonial company responsible for the claim, the third is purely monetary friendship, there is no human feelings. The disadvantage is that spending a lot of money, the head of the car lengthening is generally in the 20001200 yuan or so, the fleet vehicles due to different brand price varies, generally in the 1200300 yuan or so. The advantage of looking for their own is to save money, the disadvantage is that there is no guarantee that the wedding day car does not come to the situation often occurs; the second is a big favor. Of course, if the individual has the strength to find their own or more cost-effective.
Wedding preparation group: a month ago to set a good candidate. The main categories are: host, best man, bridesmaids, general manager, deputy general manager (the hotel is responsible for, the mother's family is responsible for, the new family is responsible for each one or two people), lead the car, video, photography, the door to collect money and registration (more than two people), the issuance of gift packages and so on.
Fifth, the guests confirmed: one month before the basic determination. Mainly determine the main wedding, witnesses, VIP list, guest list. Then according to the number of people ` in and out to set the number of tables, in and out should be between 2030 people.
Six, wedding photography: completed within three months. Remind the groom to pay special attention to the beginning and the studio set the price must be asked, most brides are in the shooting after the desire to stop, so when the wedding photos must consider their wallets.
Seven, the new room items purchased: the new room within a month after the end of the decoration. The specifics vary from person to person.
Eight, wedding supplies ordered: two months before the wedding to complete. First of all, set a good wedding dress, you can through the studio, you can also order their own, in Shahekou District, there is a wedding dress street, where the wedding dress is good, interested friends can go over to take a look. Next is the wedding ring, it is best to buy when engaged, so as not to forget. Again is the wedding invitations, happy words, red envelopes, gift bags, spray things (not recommended to buy, sprayed to the clothes are not good to take off), signature pen, etc., should be based on the number of people and the actual situation of the purchase of the big food market, the square and so on all have, and cheap. Finally, the customs supplies, mainly red cloth (bed and nail curtains with), red paper (cover the horse gourd with), basin, meat (away from the mother's meat), comb, mirror (each a pair of), handkerchiefs (wedding day shooting location exchange with) and so on.
Wedding Session Flow 3Flow of a Western-style church wedding
Church Selection
Before you do the overall planning, you will surely choose the location of the ceremony and hire a pastor or priest first. Since costs and specific requirements vary from place to place, it is necessary for you to ask beforehand what are the restrictions and specific overheads of that church. There are many places that are free or require only a small donation to use, while others charge a fee or require special permission.
Ask what services are included as standard in the ceremony. How much freedom is there for you to set up the site the way you want it? You also need to find out what services and equipment will be provided. For example: music, cleaning, decorations, access and carpets, and whether there are any restrictions on music and photography.
Seating Arrangements
Of course, you definitely want to choose a church that is big enough to hold the ceremony, so that it will be spacious and comfortable for all those who will be there.
1. Seating arrangements for the bride's family
You will need to set aside some seats in the front row for your closest family members. Traditionally, the bride's parents, grandparents and siblings sit in the first row on the left. If the bride's parents are divorced and want to sit separately, the mother of the bride can sit in the first row with her current husband, and the father and his wife can sit in the second row. Other special relatives can also sit on the second and third rows. The groom's family is also seated on the right hand side in the same format.
2. The best man leads the guests to their seats
After your guests arrive, the best man leads them to their seats. Like the bride's family, the bride's guests sit on the left hand side and the groom's guests sit on the right. However, if there are more guests on one side, the easiest way to ensure that each guest has a good view of the ceremony is to have them sit casually on either side. One best man should use his right hand to invite the female guests to their seats, the male guests don't need to worry about this. If a large number of guests arrive at the same time, it is the older ones who take precedence.
3. After the ceremony, the family members sitting in the front rows exit first
Then the guests exit one by one, from front to back, so as not to create a blockage at the door.
Entering the church
There's a lot more to the ceremony than just taking one step at a time as you enter the church and step onto the carpet. Here is the basic lineup for entering and exiting.
Standing Positions
When stepping onto the carpet and into the aisle, the bride generally stands on the left and the groom on the right, facing the priest. The best man stands next to the groom, with the ring bearer and groomsmen standing to his right. The principal bridesmaid stands next to the bride, with the rest of the bridesmaids and flower girls standing to her left.
Order of Entry
The groomsmen enter through the main doors of the church, marching in pairs from shortest to tallest. If the number is an odd number, the shortest is asked to walk alone at the front, followed by the pairs following in. Each pair is separated by 3-4 rows. Next, the bridesmaids enter, keeping 4-5 rows away from the last pair of groomsmen. If the number of bridesmaids is less than 5, take a line to enter, otherwise it looks disjointed. If the number is an odd number, the shortest walks in front to lead the line. The younger bridesmaids walk in front of the main bridesmaid. If you have two principal bridesmaids, it is fine to walk as a pair or individually. Before the bride and her father enter are the ring bearers and flower girls. After these people have taken their places in the aisle, the bride steps into the church on her father's left arm. If the bride is wearing a long train or has a long veil, two people can be arranged to hold the veil behind her.
Order of Exit
At the end of the ceremony, the couple exits first, followed by the ring bearer and flower girl. The members of the bridesmaids and groomsmen form a line, two by two. The bridesmaids are to go first, walking to the right of the best man. If the numbers are uneven, one best man will escort two members of the bridesmaid's corps out; one extra best man will walk alone, and two will form a pair and march at the same time. When the procession reaches the doorway or the back of the ceremony site, the designated best man goes back inside to escort the couple's mothers, grandmothers, and a few honored guests out.
Choosing the Music
Nothing sets the mood of your wedding ceremony better than music. Ceremony music is very strictly categorized into 3 types: the prelude, the entrance and the recessional.
Overture: played 45 minutes before the ceremony, with some classic tunes for guests to enjoy. A live performance by a singer is also suitable to be arranged before the entrance song is played.
Entrance song: the entrance procession is lined up when the entrance song is played, the bride and groom and bridesmaids, best man to the rhythm of the music sacred and solemn on the carpet. Although not required, some couples still want to hear beautiful, soothing music during the ceremony.
The recessional: The next step is the recessional, which is a joyous, uplifting moment when the couple exits.
Music is a service, so it has to be paid for. Discuss and arrange to pay the performer beforehand. If it's your friend or relative performing and you're not comfortable paying, a nice little gift is a great way to show your appreciation.
Readings and Prayers
You can ask the priest to help you decide what to read. For a very strict religious wedding, you should choose a classic passage from the Bible; less traditional and formal ceremonies can choose a poem that expresses your feelings about marriage well.
You can also distribute different selected passages to your friends and family to read aloud. This way more of your close friends will get a chance to join you in your wedding, and they will surely feel honored that you have invited them.
Mutual Vows
Vows are a way to express the solemnity and uniqueness of your ceremony. You can choose to go through the vows during the ceremony, but if you are afraid you will forget the words because you are nervous, you can also choose to read them aloud or respond affirmatively to the questions posed by the priest, such as, I promise, I will always.
Personalization
The variety of choices is enough to make your ceremony unique. In addition to choosing your ceremony music, vows, and prayers carefully, you will also want to choose ethnic customs or draw on other forms based on your own cultural and emotional background. For example, the candle ceremony has been a fixture in church weddings, but has now become a more popular form that is cross-culturally universal. Three large white candles are placed on the aisle, two of which symbolize the lifelong love between the newlyweds. After the vows have been taken, the couple lights the third candle, the concentricity candle.
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