I would like to ask for an urban novel, the hero in the bank management loan, and then his wife cheated on him and X his wife that man's wife is a colleague.

Reading Tang Xiaolong's "Grateful Heart" book, the cover of a sentence "with a grateful heart to face every person in life" caused the reader's **** Ming, thought-provoking.

The flashy society, a variety of complicated and infinitely beautiful temptations all the time to attract people's fickle eyes, unknowingly less care between people, thinning the friendship.

The book "A Grateful Heart" is not beautifully framed, the words are not gorgeous book with a sentence of simple words, a vivid and informative examples to tell us about the continuation of traditional Chinese virtues in silence, but also guides us in the flipping of the book constantly thinking, introspection.

Often seen on the network, someone said that forgetting to be grateful is human nature. Indeed, when we come into this living world by chance, when we just open our eyes to examine this strange human world, we have already made our parents and relatives around us who care about us ecstatic, and at the same time made our parents start the rest of their lives with endless worries and expectations. They are worried about our health, the bumps and bruises of our journey; they are looking forward to our first slurred "Dad, Mom", our first praise from teachers, our first excellent report card, and the many firsts in our growing up process. A simple sentence in the book "thank you for your parents' nurturing" reminds each of us to have a grateful heart to our parents and reminds us not to perfume our parents' ever-present care and love on any occasions and at any time because of a variety of pale reasons and excuses. In the busy work and life, there was once a real and touching example touched countless Chinese people, also touched me. A respectable little girl to her own with seriously ill relatives studying hard, her filial behavior for several years as one day touched her classmates, alumni, living in the same city of ordinary citizens, as well as countless people around the country to see the relevant reports, in the forum's guestbook message people will be their own true feelings unreservedly left on the page, passed on as a good story. There must be more than one such example in our real life, but it is this vivid and unprocessed example that awakens the grateful heart in us, and makes us ask ourselves - in the face of the selfless love of our parents, what is the reason for us not to be grateful to our parents! What reason do we have to forget our parents' birth and upbringing! How much have we given to our parents? The first time I saw this was when I was a student at the University of California at Berkeley!

There is a philosophical saying circulating on the Internet that a person can only understand the meaning of respect if he has a grateful heart. In college to watch Deng Xiaoping's documentary, it is with a grateful heart, a great man Deng Xiaoping in his old age said with deep feeling: "I am the son of the Chinese people, I y love my motherland and people!" What a big heart it takes to say such a sentence. Looking at the whole of China, only Deng Xiaoping is qualified to say this sentence that countless people in China agree with. With his simple and pragmatic attitude, Deng Xiaoping made great contributions to the rapid development and strength of China, created a better life for his countrymen, and elevated their status in the world by leaps and bounds. At the same time that he has earned respect from our Chinese people, he has also gained the respect and love of our whole nation and the respect of the international community. The reason why he got all these is because he carried a heart of red blood in his whole life, always grateful to our **** same motherland and people. Because of this, he said the words that moved hundreds of millions of Chinese people in his old age, he is worthy of our entire Chinese nation, worthy of the title of great man. From Deng Xiaoping, we can see that if he was not a person who was always grateful to his motherland, could he have made such a great contribution to China and gained the admiration of the whole nation and the respect of the world?

There is a passage in the book that says: "Thank you to your friends for their unselfish help, thank you to your colleagues for their help, and thank you to your superiors for their appreciation and encouragement. Indeed, in the social division of labor increasingly refined society, the power of the individual more and more small, the lack of friends to help, we live in the difficult step. If there is no leadership appreciation and encouragement, we can not get a superior working environment and good development opportunities, the lack of colleagues to help, we will be in the work of nothing, nothing. Often grateful heart, in order to make us with a contented heart to perceive and cherish all the things around us; often grateful heart, in order to let us in the ordinary days, to discover the colorful life; often bad grateful heart, in order to let us love life more, to deal with the challenges of life again and again. Every person in the early stage of enlightenment education will learn "a drop of water, when the spring of gratitude" moral education, but in many people's lives, how many people can say from the heart that he is really in his life all the time to fulfill this moral norms? After reading this book to adjust a good state of mind, to positively respond to all kinds of things in life, in order to realize the joy of life and work.

Another point of interest in the book is the chapter on gratitude to rivals for allowing me to grow in competition. The chapter lists examples of competition that exist in nature and actual society, in fact, it is a concrete example to illustrate the truth of the fittest. At the same time, readers can realize the author's intention and agree with the author's writing intention with just a little thought. There are many successful people in the analysis of their own success in their career without fail to appear in their own struggle in the road competitors as one of their own motivation. Only the best competitors are most able to find out where the weaknesses of his competitors are, but also the best at using his strengths to focus on the shortcomings of the opponent's raid. Only a correct understanding of their competitors, to face up to the competition itself and bravely respond to the competition in order to make their own development and progress in the competition, and gratitude to their competitors is the essence of a positive attitude to deal with competition.

Thanksgiving is a kind of mentality, which can make us happy to face all kinds of situations in each stage of life; thanksgiving is a kind of literacy, which can let us interact with people in the process of more influence on the people around us; thanksgiving is a kind of catalyst, which can give rise to more beautiful memories in our life journey; thanksgiving is a kind of realm, and only those who are really always thankful can realize the beauty of life. I'm not sure if you're a good person, but I'm a good person.

Thanksgiving heart, thanks to you, accompanied by my life, so that I have the courage to do my own, thanksgiving heart, thanks to the fate of the flower blossoms and falls, I cherish the same.