How do you explain the lawlessness of liking the new and hating the old?

Alleviate disgust: disgust. I like the new and hate the old. More refers to love is not single-minded.

Chu Kang's Biography of Heroes of Children: "I am not afraid that you have a heart that likes the new and hates the old. I have my own means of changing stars. "

Comprehensive application of law; As predicate, object and attribute; derogatory sense

For example, Sun Li's "Preface to the Secret Collection of the Fantasy Room of Lianding Ji": "The way of evolution, the old cloth is removed and new; ~, the foundation of human nature. "

Synonym fickle.

The antonym is firm and eternal.

Love the new and hate the old is a word that women often say to men, with some resentment and some helplessness. It seems that everyone knows the meaning clearly, but in fact, it is not necessarily comprehensive or accurate to understand.

Our judgment or generalization of anything should be aimed at the majority, and only from the middle of the majority can we get more comprehensive and correct conclusions and laws. Therefore, the accurate understanding of liking the new and hating the old should be: of course, I like it; Of course, the new ones are beautiful or young women; Old, generally refers to the wife; But disgust can't be understood as disgust or rejection, but should be grasped as plain or similar.

In fact, it is true that most men like the new and hate the old, but they generally don't hate the old, that is, they don't hate married wives. They just say that they have lived with their married wives for too long, so they are dull and silent, with no passion at all, and want to get some new feelings. But a man knows best that in this world, only his wife is the woman he can trust most, rely on most and tell him nothing. It is this woman who can have no regrets, can be with him forever, give birth to his children, take care of him, keep his home in order, keep his life in order, and let him shine in front of others. Men are well aware of this. In his heart, he is grateful for everything his wife has brought to his family, and he is trying his best to create happiness for his wife.

Even if a man has the idea of liking a new love, even if this idea is strong, and some men break through that line of defense and have a new love, generally speaking, he will not hate or reject his wife. Because men are the last to set their backyard on fire, it is a very shameful thing for men, and it is also a thing that makes men lose more than they gain. Men like novelty, but if men want to stand in this world, face and reputation are above everything else for them. Of course, this can't include a broken man. From this, it is not difficult to understand why men are always afraid to show their faces in front of new lovers. Hide if you can, hide if you can, and "wrap up" if you find a mistress. Isn't this that people are afraid to see others and know, and their faces can't be pulled down? It can be seen that men like new things, but they dare not show them. Have you ever seen a man with a new love in public, where acquaintances gather, or at a special banquet? Generally no one, unless there are 250 people.

But men have a very different view of their wives. It is a man's eternal glory to get a wife. A man and his married wife will be together for ten years, twenty years, thirty years, even forty years, fifty years or even forever, which is something that others will admire and praise from the bottom of their hearts. These people generally understand. Even though his wife may be so ugly and unsuitable for others, it will not affect and change people's more praise and praise for this man's character and his aura. Men always like to appear in public with their wives, or attend such grand parties, and regard this as an honor, a courtesy, gratitude and affirmation to their wives, and a compliment, comfort and appreciation to men themselves.

A man knows that nothing in this world makes him happier and more gratified than his wife seeing his successful career. A man can't forget that at the beginning, at the moment he married his wife, he gave all his property to a man, and his road was bleak. His wife didn't know whether there was poverty, disease, risk and suffering in her future life with this man, so she followed her on the boat without hesitation. Now once a man succeeds, he should never forget his promise to his wife, what a man should do, what he shouldn't do, what he can and can't do in this world. Although he may still like the new one, he will never abandon the old one, and he will try his best to compensate his married wife.

Of course, if we say general and majority, we can't rule out those individual and special situations. There are also men who refuse to be righteous with their wives and then go to the wedding with new lovers. That situation is more complicated. Some women have such problems, and some men have such problems, which are generally principled and unforgivable, and a relationship is over.

But this is still a minority anyway. For most men, they still prefer the new to the old.

Push your luck: I already have an inch, and I want to push another foot. Metaphor is insatiable.

See profit and forget righteousness: see profit and forget virtue.