Traditional Culture Encyclopedia - Traditional stories - Why are there so many sterilized people now, not only in dress, but also in personality. .

Why are there so many sterilized people now, not only in dress, but also in personality. .

First, the pursuit of novelty. In this era of individuality, individuality will be more attractive. Anti-tradition and innovation have become the highlights of attracting girls. So some girls use neutralization to gain more recognition. Second, the orientation of family education. Most families have only one child. Considering the pressure of social competition, parents will ask girls to stand on their own feet and not rely on men, so they will train them in a masculine direction. "Masculine education" includes encouraging children to influence and lead others in the process of interacting with others, and to engage in some jobs that women are not suitable for in the traditional concept of career choice. Third, I don't like my female gender. A survey on the topic of "Adolescent Sexual Psychology Research" found that the proportion of female students who are dissatisfied with their gender has accounted for 50%. They are dissatisfied with their gender, because they think that being a woman means being weak and bullied, being sexually harassed, learning less and less than boys, and being vulnerable to discrimination in employment. Fourth, I want to get friendship with the opposite sex. Because girls are always required to be "dignified, introverted, filial and lady", it is easy to be in a passive state of life and lose the initiative in interpersonal communication and choice. And very masculine girls, just like they dress like boys, can also be as straightforward and free and easy as boys, like joking, easy to mix with boys in the class, and even can be brothers to meet their psychological needs of eager communication with the opposite sex in adolescence.