Excuse me, what are the rules for a man to propose to a woman's house?

Proposing marriage is a courtesy and the beginning of formal communication between the two families. Being polite is not rude.

First, the marriage proposal custom in China traditional marriage custom.

When a man and a woman get married, the matchmaker, according to their parents' instructions, thinks that the door is right, and presses the exchanged "Geng Tie" (age and birthday) on the bottom of the net cup in front of the kitchen god statue to test God's will.

If there are no "abnormal" situations such as broken bowls and lamps, disgusting meals, quarreling with family members, restless cats and dogs at home within three days, please ask the fortune teller to "arrange eight characters" to see if the year is appropriate and the zodiac is compatible. In the old society, some people were superstitious about the so-called six-year big rush and three-year small rush; Men get married at the age of two, and women don't get married at the age of nineteen; It is said that it is difficult to compare chickens with dogs (chickens are at odds with dogs), dragons with tigers (dragons and tigers fight each other), tigers with sheep (sheep fall into the tiger's mouth) and snakes with mice (snakes and mice swallow mice). It is considered that relatives can only be discussed if they are comprehensive.

Second, the relevant matters needing attention in marriage proposal

1, how long ago? Pro: I suggest almost half a year.

2. How to mention marriage:

A, please allow the groom Mobvoi's parents to propose marriage;

B, the bride-to-be will test her parents first.

3. Before proposing marriage: formally visit the woman's parents, dress neatly and tell them politely that you are getting married. After obtaining the consent, confirm the date of marriage proposal and ask the woman's parents about the date and time to show respect.

4, wedding date: do not look at the date. It is not appropriate to propose marriage in the first month and July of the lunar calendar. Even number marriage proposal in lunar calendar. Some elders like to have six days.

5. Proposal time: no more than 12 noon in the morning.

6. The number of parents to be married: it is best to have an even number of 6 people (excluding children). Parents must attend (or representatives of elders or powerful people in the family)+the prospective groom. As long as the matchmaker is present, the older generation will propose marriage.

There are generations of aunts who can't go together, such as aunts and sisters. Traditionally, several generations of aunts seem very withdrawn after the bride starts.

7. Complimentary gifts: sweet things (not limited to several kinds), round cakes (representing things can be round and full), and apple gift boxes, indicating good luck and happiness (not buying pears). The accompanying gifts should be even, and the man's parents can add a few words to show their sincerity.

8. Newcomers don't interrupt: let adults speak for themselves to show respect.

Third, matters needing attention when proposing marriage.

1, man:

A, pay attention to clothing appearance: clothing must be decent and neat.

B, don't come empty-handed: go to the woman's house to propose marriage, don't forget to bring some small gifts. This is a courtesy and a respect for the elders. Although they will say you're welcome, they will be very happy.

C. Smile: Never frown, but show sincerity and smile. This will add a lot of points.

D show respect: show respect to the demands or opinions put forward by the woman as much as possible and handle them according to their regulations, otherwise, if there are differences, the atmosphere at the scene will be too stiff.

E. Be punctual for appointments: Never be late. If it is really because of traffic jam or other force majeure factors, be sure to call and tell me that you will arrive later.

F. Leave at noon: The man must leave at noon (noon 1 1 to afternoon 1). Please ask the man to go to the woman's house around 10 and leave before noon.

2. Women:

A. No greeting: When the man first comes, the woman won't say hello.

B. Face-to-face greeting: The woman greets the man's guests face to face at the door to show her respect. And get a seat. 3) Don't take off your shoes: you can't ask the other party to take off their shoes. Ask that man to come straight in.

C. Clothing appearance: Dress neatly and neatly to leave a good impression. 5) Clean the environment: the home environment should be cleaned in advance and cleaned up.

D, treat snacks: fruit, juice, sweet tea (sweet words, smooth marriage), water, no tea (picking holes), soda (looking for gas).

E, good attitude: marry the man's family in the future. Don't be too hard on that man. The two sides should establish good relations.

F, don't say goodbye: when the man wants to leave, he can't go out to see him off, can't say goodbye or come and sit again (meaning he will mention a second kiss), nod and smile and leave.