The girl's emotional intelligence is too high, how to chat with her?

How to chat with girls with high emotional intelligence can be summed up in one sentence: being able to put each other's feelings first. When speaking, not only what I want, but also learn to feel what the other person wants.

Let's talk about Putonghua first. If you are unfamiliar, you'd better talk about some irrelevant topics, because girls are more alert now. Just like foreigners like to chat when they meet, they can talk about the environment and services of restaurants where they eat together, recommend movies or funny jokes to each other, and talk about things of common interest in the region under unfamiliar circumstances. Don't chat specifically, such as what professional problems are not common and unpopular topics.

Second, talk about yourself. When you want to know each other's information, you'd better report yourself first, otherwise it's always embarrassing to ask questions, just like checking accounts. You can introduce your occupation or relatives with some positive topics. For example, why did you choose this job and what it brought to your life. Your independent thinking can make girls with high emotional intelligence look at you with new eyes.

Third, intimacy, to chat with girls with high emotional intelligence, we should know how to talk well, and the most important criterion for speaking well is to have her in mind, do what she likes, choose the right topic to chat with girls' rhythm, chat for a while and then find some topics of common interest and chat intimately. A higher level of state is to be "easy to talk" in addition to communicating. Let girls feel that chatting with you is a very happy thing. Then open your heart, talk about your feelings, and reach the realm of "talking". When a girl tells you what she thinks, the your relationship means going further.

Girls are hearing animals. They are more emotional and like to discuss and express their feelings, which is different from boys who like to tell facts and solve problems. Knowing this feature will also be good for chatting with girls with high emotional intelligence.