Why is rural society a society ruled by courtesy?

The so-called "rule by courtesy" society does not mean that it is gentle, nor does it mean "civilization", "charity" and "meeting people". Can also kill people, can be "barbaric." Politeness is a socially recognized and appropriate code of conduct. Politeness means that these behaviors are done right, and right is appropriate. Tradition is the accumulated experience of society. The purpose of code of conduct is to cooperate with people's behavior to complete social tasks, and social tasks are to meet the needs of various elements in society. Rural society is a society that moved to other places, was born in Sri Lanka, grew up in Sri Lanka and died in Sri Lanka. Rites are not carried out by an external force, but by cultivating personal awe from enlightenment, making people obey and taking the initiative to obey. The possibility of rule by courtesy must be based on the premise that tradition can effectively deal with life problems. Rural society conforms to this premise, so its order can be maintained through etiquette.