Is there any way to please a traditionally minded grandmother?

Your grandmother used to be a very capable person and a responsible person for the family, that's why she cared about everything in the family.

Now, although you are all grown up and capable of managing your own affairs, you are still children in her eyes, and it is hard to change her habit of taking care of everything.

Suggest that you respect her on the one hand, and sometimes you might want to be a little sweet-talking on the other, for example, listening to her first, praising her for her "cleverness and thoughtfulness," and then telling her that you've got her point, and that you can get things done. When she is in a good mood, tell her that you have grown up and should learn to deal with things on your own. That way she won't get angry.

In short, the mouth should be sweet, the old man and the child are the same, are to be coaxed. Good to say is also a word, bad to say is also a word, we get along well, will be happy a little more.

Wish you and grandma are happy!