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What are the customs of receiving the bride?

Different regions have different customs, probably about the same:

Happy: the groom and the woman's family to meet, should hold a bouquet of flowers to the room to be married to the bride, at this time, the bride's girlfriend to deliberately stop the groom, but the conditions to be agreed to by the groom, usually to the red packet gift deal.

Bidding farewell: the bride should bow to her parents to say goodbye, and the groom can only bow and salute.

Going out: the bride should be a high female elders by the blessing of a bamboo plaque or red umbrella to protect their walk to the gift car (this is generally omitted by the groom to carry on the wedding car) (Note: Prepare a bamboo plaque, and on the top of the letter of congratulations)

Not say goodbye: when all the women leave the door of the woman's home, never to the woman's family to say goodbye.

Burning Firecrackers: Firecrackers are set off when the limousine leaves the woman's house, and firecrackers are also required when it arrives at the man's house.

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Man to the woman's home to pick up the family process:

1, departure. The groom can depart from his parents' home, can also depart from the new house, if the wedding car needs to tie the float, can also depart from the place of tying the float, which is not specified. Just remember to give each driver of the wedding caravan a happy bag (red packet + happy cigarettes) and a road map each before departure, and there should be a person on the camera car who knows the bride's family.

Also, the groom doesn't have to leave too early, just avoid the rush. Arriving too early will only make you more tired, but not too late to prevent there will be unexpected events. Of course, when to leave also take into account the distance of the journey, road conditions and so on.

2, blocking the door. Blocking the door is to welcome the bridegroom in the biggest test, the groom must pay attention to two points.

1) to coax: coaxing bridesmaids, coaxing the bride's relatives and friends, as for the red packet coaxing it, or coaxing with the action, it depends on the groom.

2) to endure: no matter how difficult, the groom can not red face, remember to remember! Of course, the bride's side of the blockade door do not all want red packets, you can get more games to make it difficult for the groom, so both lively, but also the atmosphere, than dry to red packets much better.

We also have to remind everyone: Do not block the door too much, we are all for the sake of lively, point to point on the good.

3, marriage proposal. The groom after all the difficulties and dangers, finally entered the door, you can see the bride. The first thing to do after the door is to hold flowers, to a clean and beautiful one-knee, to the bride to propose, the action should be coherent, beautiful, all in one breath.

4, tea. After the proposal is completed to the elders tea change, the order of tea is the first parents, after honoring grandparents. If the camera is a single camera, the newcomer and parents do not stand face to face, so that the video will not look good, it is best to stand at a 45-degree angle.

5, looking for shoes. Finally going out, the bride's shoes or must find. This look for shoes depends on the groom's popularity, usually and the bride's relatives to move around, this time will be better to pass, if "buy through" the bridesmaids, will also be better to do. If you are unprepared, then you can only mobilize all the brothers and sisters to help find it.

6, go out. The bride will have to be carried by the groom in the wedding car.