The first time to go to a friend's house to visit the door should pay attention to what etiquette?

For the matter of going to the boyfriend's home to pay a visit to the New Year, I can not say that the experience is old-fashioned, but also implemented four or five years, more or less some of their own summed up the experience can be given to everyone to refer to.

Not to say anything else, at least for the first time to go, or in the future may want to go to the boyfriend's home sisters have a little help it.

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First of all, how do I define when/where I should go to my boyfriend's house to celebrate the New Year?

If I remember correctly, we should be in our third year of going to each other's homes to pay our respects.

Mainly because the first two years we are still students, do not have any financial ability, we are to the third year out of the internship after their own salary, plus some of the family to buy New Year's Eve together to bring over.

The other premise here is that both of our parents, because of our status as students, will not urge us to go to the New Year's gifts, knowing that we are not financially capable.

In this regard, I think, in the student state of the relationship, do not rush to go to the New Year's gift, when you come out to work and then go is not too late.

The other point is what my friends around me are experiencing right now, have come out to work for a year or two, have a stable income and job, when do I have to go to the other side of the house to pay homage to the New Year.

My advice is: you should go when the other parent mentions you frequently.

When your boyfriend's parents talk to your boyfriend on a daily basis and mention how your girlfriend is doing many times, you should take the initiative to visit the elders and have dinner with them so they can get to know you personally, regardless of whether or not you've just been dating for a few months.

If you say, "My boyfriend didn't invite me to go, would it be too much of a drop-off for me to take the initiative to go on my own.

Then I think your question is stupid enough (blame me for being more direct), when two people are in a relationship together, it's not just the boyfriend who has to be responsible for you, you have to be responsible for him too.

If you are in a relationship with the premise of marriage, you will have to meet his parents sooner or later, so why not meet your future parents earlier, so as to determine the future of the family union in the end is not suitable.

Otherwise, like a friend of mine, talked about 7 years of love, the New Year's Eve to see parents to a sentence, my mother does not like my girlfriend broke up, simply speechless.

Two, go to the other side of the house to bring some things?

To go to the other side of the home before you must do your homework, for example, before you go out to travel will also search where more fun is the same meaning.

Ask if the parents smoke, drink, or don't smoke or drink.

Smoking and alcohol will not be selected if you ask their elders, give a budget, so that elders help you pick a good brand to buy on the line.

No smoking or drinking, you can consider whether you can buy a set of skin care products to the aunt, or buy some of the Guangdong people's favorite soup ingredients, gelatin wormwood bird's nest and so on.

Tobacco and alcohol are the least of these things, and even if your parents don't need them, you'll want to keep them on hand for New Year's Eve when your relatives come home for dinner.

Basically, as long as you buy with care and within your means, even cookies elders will not be too picky (but preferably not).

Interjecting here, I buy cigarettes and wine every year to Zhang Nan's house, and then this year when I go over there, I find that all the wine I gave last year is still sitting on the counter, and this is the time when I have to reflect on whether or not I can just skip the wine next year, and replace the money for the wine with some other supplements.

In fact, I realized that writing this has been very long, a lot of things have not been said, and it is impossible to say all at once, if there is still about this aspect of the question you can comment to tell me.

The last of all, I also have a bottom of the box of caution to give you all, a hundred times a hundred times a hundred times a hundred times a hundred times a hundred times a hundred times a hundred times a hundred times a hundred times a hundred times.

If your boyfriend's mom is usually the type of maintenance, you can pick a good-looking lipstick to give her.

Color try to pick some classic colors, such as Dior999, TF16, CHANEL63 and so on.

Or she is usually do not like make-up or not very good with the type of skincare products, you can send a face can rub color-changing lipstick, Dior001 or Dior003 to her.

Three hundred dollars can make the elders feel that you are a very sweet little girl, she is happy you are also happy.

I hope you both meet your parents happily and fall in love happily.